Question about girl's vagina

[RoDeFunkyz]

Dear experienced bros,

i went to have sex with a girl, however after the sex, she said her bottom is painful. the skin outside the vagina..

any idea why and what are the ways to prevent this?


thanks! :D

[Jailbyrd]

bro rodefunkyz, my guess is that she wasn't lubricated enough.. thus, when you penetrate her, the excessive friction against her vagina causes the pain.. something like rope burn lor.. my advice is to increase foreplay with her (cunnilingus, kissing, etc..) to get her suitably aroused before penetration.. another way would be to use a lubricant, TopGel or KY Jelly..

[rajose]

Yes lubrication could be the most likely cause.

Other possibility is wrong posture. See if it happens in other positions as well.

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by rajose
Yes lubrication could be the most likely cause.

Other possibility is wrong posture. See if it happens in other positions as well.

Do often will solve the problem.....bcos not season yet mah

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Do often will solve the problem.....bcos not season yet mah

not necessary the case, some gals simply dont have that much juice and when guys take too long to cum the friction will cause bruises, season or not is regardless but if it's outside the vagina most probably is what rajose say wrong posture...:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[NetRodent]

Originally posted by RoDeFunkyz
Dear experienced bros,

i went to have sex with a girl, however after the sex, she said her bottom is painful. the skin outside the vagina..

any idea why and what are the ways to prevent this?

thanks! :D

Like most girls, they want to give their bf a first good impression of their private parts being clean and odourless, they would clean it up excessively with soap. In these process, the skin would become very sensitive and taut (tight) since the protective oily coat is removed.

A simply finger rubbing on these skins would get inflammed (red).

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by KID278
not necessary the case, some gals simply dont have that much juice and when guys take too long to cum the friction will cause bruises, season or not is regardless but if it's outside the vagina most probably is what rajose say wrong posture...:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

Then could u advise which is the correct posture for such a case? :cool:

[rajose]

Girl on top should be the safest as no chance of body weight or force of thrusts being too much against vagina lips or walls.

Can also experiment with other positions.

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Then could u advise which is the correct posture for such a case? :cool:

Goddess of mercy in which the gal is in control but then again it will tire her out and the guy might not like that position so changing a few position should take care of some of the prolong external frictions....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KID278]

Originally posted by rajose
Girl on top should be the safest as no chance of body weight or force of thrusts being too much against vagina lips or walls.

Can also experiment with other positions.

Right in a way but this position can be very tiring for the gals....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[Jailbyrd]

woman-on-top would be the best since she has complete control, but then again, like bro kid278 mentioned, it is very tiring for the girl.. my next recommendation would be doggy style, since it is regarded as the most appropriate angle for penetration..

[RoDeFunkyz]

ermm so far when doing she is only on top of me and we do doggy.


if put top gel, will it make the condom get off easily ?

thanks!

[Presto6969]

Originally posted by RoDeFunkyz
ermm so far when doing she is only on top of me and we do doggy.


if put top gel, will it make the condom get off easily ?

thanks!

Eat her 1st b4 u insert ur manhood. Make her cummed (flowing juices) and u will have an ez time pumping away. :)

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by RoDeFunkyz
ermm so far when doing she is only on top of me and we do doggy.


if put top gel, will it make the condom get off easily ?

thanks!

Condom wont come out of ur dick so easily...unless u apply KY on ur dick.....LOL...
should apply on the condom after wearing it....anyway, condom itself has some KY

[Junkboy]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Condom wont come out of ur dick so easily...unless u apply KY on ur dick.....LOL...
should apply on the condom after wearing it....anyway, condom itself has some KY

yup, i agree KY is a good quick fix if the girl cannot lubricate
but i find not very useful when the girl is a virgin leh.... normally virgins very uptight about sex one... then u try to put something funny like KY jelly in her... so my conclusion is its not very useful when shes 50-50 about wanting to do it, better to create natural lubrication so she wanting it more

[KID278]

Originally posted by Junkboy
yup, i agree KY is a good quick fix if the girl cannot lubricate
but i find not very useful when the girl is a virgin leh.... normally virgins very uptight about sex one... then u try to put something funny like KY jelly in her... so my conclusion is its not very useful when shes 50-50 about wanting to do it, better to create natural lubrication so she wanting it more

what are you talking about....you dont apply ky when you dont need it.....bear in mind that natural lubrications has a limit....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[MrDevil]

Originally posted by Junkboy
yup, i agree KY is a good quick fix if the girl cannot lubricate
but i find not very useful when the girl is a virgin leh.... normally virgins very uptight about sex one... then u try to put something funny like KY jelly in her... so my conclusion is its not very useful when shes 50-50 about wanting to do it, better to create natural lubrication so she wanting it more

No lubrication and tight is 2 different thing lar, like sky and earth.... petty the virgin girl, go slowly mah, even new engine on first run need a bit more time to warm lar

KY is meant for lubricating, dont change the fact that virgin are tight... if like that, as well use motor lubricant oil?

[KID278]

Originally posted by MrDevil
No lubrication and tight is 2 different thing lar, like sky and earth.... petty the virgin girl, go slowly mah, even new engine on first run need a bit more time to warm lar

KY is meant for lubricating, dont change the fact that virgin are tight... if like that, as well use motor lubricant oil?

He got it all mixed up, the mind bungles I suppose....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[OceanEleven]

Originally posted by RoDeFunkyz
ermm so far when doing she is only on top of me and we do doggy.
if put top gel, will it make the condom get off easily ?
thanks!
BTW what kind of condom you use?? Anything fancy?? Came across using condoms that are ribbed or with some "special" lining hurts like hell esp. the gal is not lubricated enough.:)

[OceanEleven]

So Junkboy, may I know how often you do virgins?? You pluck them off the tree you grew in your back yard??:D

[KID278]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
BTW what kind of condom you use?? Anything fancy?? Came across using condoms that are ribbed or with some "special" lining hurts like hell esp. the gal is not lubricated enough.

I dont get it, you came across and you dont know....:D you must have used a balloon....hehehe....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KCLIM73]

Sometimes got this problem also. If I use condom and take a little longer to cum, this girl will hurt. If never use condom, it's fine.

[KID278]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
So Junkboy, may I know how often you do virgins?? You pluck them off the tree you grew in your back yard??:D

That's sarcasm, he's going to find it hard to pluck.....:D

Cheers.
kid278.

[Junkboy]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
So Junkboy, may I know how often you do virgins?? You pluck them off the tree you grew in your back yard??:D

nonono, you got it all wrong. Virgins dun grow on the tree in my backyard, they are growing on the tree in my front lawn. the tree bears virgin fruit every year or so, everytime must hurry go pick b4 it drop on the ground and split the hymen.

seriously though, i dunno why some people are so obsessed with having sex with virgins...

[KID278]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
Sometimes got this problem also. If I use condom and take a little longer to cum, this girl will hurt. If never use condom, it's fine.

It's common sense, condom is made of latex and latex dont help to absorb friction like the skin, besides guy's precum which are suppose to help lubricate are blocked by the condom...:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KID278]

Originally posted by Junkboy
nonono, you got it all wrong. Virgins dun grow on the tree in my backyard, they are growing on the tree in my front lawn. the tree bears virgin fruit every year or so, everytime must hurry go pick b4 it drop on the ground and split the hymen.

seriously though, i dunno why some people are so obsessed with having sex with virgins...

it's the mindset, some kind of traditional thinking about doing someone chaste, virtuous so to speak....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KCLIM73]

Haven't come across a virgin who knows how to do a proper blowjob though... so virgins aren't that much of a turn on for me. Maybe when I get older, I would prefer to prick a virgin to relive some of the youth... ;0

[KID278]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
Haven't come across a virgin who knows how to do a proper blowjob though... so virgins aren't that much of a turn on for me. Maybe when I get older, I would prefer to prick a virgin to relive some of the youth... ;0

It's a matter of exposure, virgin or no virgin is regardless....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[fun4evergood]

Its a matter of enjoyment when doing with a virgin

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Its a matter of enjoyment when doing with a virgin

That's only if you love her, otherwise after a while you'll still look for someone you love, virgin or no virgin....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[Junkboy]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
Haven't come across a virgin who knows how to do a proper blowjob though... so virgins aren't that much of a turn on for me. Maybe when I get older, I would prefer to prick a virgin to relive some of the youth... ;0

haha, yah exactly what i was thinking. maybe when i grow older, i'll be like those evil taoist priest that go and chai yin pu yang, replenish my energy

[OceanEleven]

Originally posted by KID278
I dont get it, you came across and you dont know....:D you must have used a balloon....hehehe....

Cheers.
Kid278.
Came across stories and experiences of friends....:D

[OceanEleven]

Originally posted by Junkboy
seriously though, i dunno why some people are so obsessed with having sex with virgins...
Just the mind set issues, mature experienced women makes the best partners most of the time.:D

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by KID278
That's only if you love her, otherwise after a while you'll still look for someone you love, virgin or no virgin....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

True....but sometime u still perfer the woman u love is a virgin when u make love to her..... but hard to garantee this nowadays..:(

[KID278]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
Came across stories and experiences of friends....:D

Hearsays will just be hearsays, get it verified. Dont ask me how, go try it perhaps....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KID278]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
Just the mind set issues, mature experienced women makes the best partners most of the time.:D

Concurred, they reciprocate better....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
True....but sometime u still perfer the woman u love is a virgin when u make love to her..... but hard to garantee this nowadays..:(

Naturally, it's the traditional mindset. Learn to change that and you'll not be concerned about guarantees....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[fun4evergood]

yeah loh.... in todays society hard to find a pure virgin... bo pians...got to resign to fate liao:o

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
yeah loh.... in todays society hard to find a pure virgin... bo pians...got to resign to fate liao:o

it dont really matters anymore lah...what matters more in present day society is that a relationship holds....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by KID278
Concurred, they reciprocate better....:D



Yes, matured woman reciprocate better...but sometimes, just sometimes, after they make you feel so good... you just can't help but wonder where she learnt all that from... *sigh*. Ai Pi Ai Qi U Ai Tua Liap Ni....

[Junkboy]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
True....but sometime u still perfer the woman u love is a virgin when u make love to her..... but hard to garantee this nowadays..:(

i had a fren once, who had contradicting views about women, which i'm sure he's not the only one with it. he thinks its ok to have sex with women b4 his marriage but wants his wife to still be a virgin.

me? my theory is that if the woman is so prude that she can remain a virgin for the 20++++ yrs of her life, she most probably isnt very into sex. Worst still, maybe she treats sex like some dirty act and is turn off by it. Do you really want to sleep with this woman for the rest of yr life? (GL n affairs aside, yr sex life will be kinda sad)

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by Junkboy
i had a fren once, who had contradicting views about women, which i'm sure he's not the only one with it. he thinks its ok to have sex with women b4 his marriage but wants his wife to still be a virgin.

me? my theory is that if the woman is so prude that she can remain a virgin for the 20++++ yrs of her life, she most probably isnt very into sex. Worst still, maybe she treats sex like some dirty act and is turn off by it. Do you really want to sleep with this woman for the rest of yr life? (GL n affairs aside, yr sex life will be kinda sad)

Ur theory is half true..... If a woman can remain virgin for 20++ years, it doesnt mean that she don't like sex, it may be due to fact that she is conservative. Most woman when "opened" will eventually like it and do it often. The second reason could be that she can't find anyne to do with.

[KID278]

Originally posted by Junkboy
i had a fren once, who had contradicting views about women, which i'm sure he's not the only one with it. he thinks its ok to have sex with women b4 his marriage but wants his wife to still be a virgin.

me? my theory is that if the woman is so prude that she can remain a virgin for the 20++++ yrs of her life, she most probably isnt very into sex. Worst still, maybe she treats sex like some dirty act and is turn off by it. Do you really want to sleep with this woman for the rest of yr life? (GL n affairs aside, yr sex life will be kinda sad)

She will most likely be frigid....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Ur theory is half true..... If a woman can remain virgin for 20++ years, it doesnt mean that she don't like sex, it may be due to fact that she is conservative. Most woman when "opened" will eventually like it and do it often. The second reason could be that she can't find anyne to do with.

Lack of exposure.....just like some guys also.....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by KID278
Lack of exposure.....just like some guys also.....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

Sure, so at such a situation, its up to us to teach them.......

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Sure, so at such a situation, its up to us to teach them.......

show them what's sex about and how to enjoy it....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[Crisis]

Guys always associate virgins with tight pussies wad, since the gals have never been bonked before. Somemore having sex with virgin makes you feel in power since she most likely noes nothing and relatively, make you feel like u noe everything.

[MrDevi1]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Its a matter of enjoyment when doing with a virgin

wat enjoyment u get from doing with someone inexperienced and too kan jiong? thrust a little more, you pity her pain look... its a matter of mentality that everyone think virgin is a good fark.. its more an achievement thing that anything else to me.

so you got fetish in collecting japan flags?

[BkkPattaya]

Originally posted by MrDevi1
wat enjoyment u get from doing with someone inexperienced and too kan jiong? thrust a little more, you pity her pain look... its a matter of mentality that everyone think virgin is a good fark.. its more an achievement thing that anything else to me.

so you got fetish in collecting japan flags?

Why U need a virgin? U got a micro wee wee that oni a virgin can give U a little sensation?

[MrDevi1]

Originally posted by Junkboy
i had a fren once, who had contradicting views about women, which i'm sure he's not the only one with it. he thinks its ok to have sex with women b4 his marriage but wants his wife to still be a virgin.


wake up kid, this is only small kid fetish.. be a man...

[KID278]

Originally posted by Crisis
Guys always associate virgins with tight pussies wad, since the gals have never been bonked before. Somemore having sex with virgin makes you feel in power since she most likely noes nothing and relatively, make you feel like u noe everything.

That's abit of a generalizing notion.....:D

Cheers.
Kid278

[viewsonic]

Originally posted by MrDevi1
wat enjoyment u get from doing with someone inexperienced and too kan jiong? thrust a little more, you pity her pain look... its a matter of mentality that everyone think virgin is a good fark.. its more an achievement thing that anything else to me.

so you got fetish in collecting japan flags?



Make love with a Virgin is no fun at all. Like this also cannot like that also cannot. Totally demoralise by the restriction..

[MrDevil]

Originally posted by BkkPattaya
Why U need a virgin? U got a micro wee wee that oni a virgin can give U a little sensation?

woi bro, polite a bit lar, its ppl thread lar.. should suggest to put on few more layer of condoms if its too micro

Bros.... pai seh arr.. we just kidding, no offence meant

[fun4evergood]

Too much condom will has less feel leh........ha ha wait cannot cum

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Too much condom will has less feel leh........ha ha wait cannot cum

there will be more static heat generated by the frictions which will irritate or even hurt the pussy unless well lubricated...:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by KID278
there will be more static heat generated by the frictions which will irritate or even hurt the pussy unless well lubricated...:D


Hahah... tell me about it man... I even have problems with one condom... but I am the determined sort... will do everything to cum... but again, WHO DOESN'T!!!

[KID278]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
Hahah... tell me about it man... I even have problems with one condom... but I am the determined sort... will do everything to cum... but again, WHO DOESN'T!!!

I dont like defying nature, I never like restricting myself unless otherwise....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by KID278
I dont like defying nature, I never like restricting myself unless otherwise...


Well put! Don't like defying nature too... but if the girl insists, I prefer it over 'no sex'. :D

[fun4evergood]

too much condom also waste of money and no fun

[MrDevil]

Originally posted by KID278
there will be more static heat generated by the frictions which will irritate or even hurt the pussy unless well lubricated...:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

cool it down with some mints oil or fond yui.. it sure cool down the pussy better...

I really understand those virgin festish guys, probabbly usually kids or overgrown kids who may think that virgin is much cleaner and heathier for their sex vitality... for uncles, try some tongkat ali or snake penis would probably revitalise your old didi better but afterall it oso need to retire liao mah after woking hard for life long..

[KID278]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
Well put! Don't like defying nature too... but if the girl insists, I prefer it over 'no sex'. :D

For me is unless otherwise, dont prefer no sex, too horny for that.... :D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KID278]

Originally posted by MrDevil
cool it down with some mints oil or fond yui.. it sure cool down the pussy better...

I really understand those virgin festish guys, probabbly usually kids or overgrown kids who may think that virgin is much cleaner and heathier for their sex vitality... for uncles, try some tongkat ali or snake penis would probably revitalise your old didi better but afterall it oso need to retire liao mah after woking hard for life long..

I am not too sure about that. Peppermint or menthol in diluted form is fine but in concentrated form also produces a burning sensation and it also numb the nerve as it's an anaesthetic..helps the pussy but kills the joy...not a good idea...:p

About guy's and virgins, no comments on that, dont want to obtrude as it's a traditional mindset question...no one will want to retire their didi if they can...if tongkat ali or snake penis can revitalise then there will be no unhappy uncles...:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
too much condom also waste of money and no fun

Concurred....try more then two condoms, believe me you will piss the WL off...:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by KID278
Concurred....try more then two condoms, believe me you will piss the WL off...:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

LOL. Never tried that before...not even 2 condom at the same time...

[KID278]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
LOL. Never tried that before...not even 2 condom at the same time...

Jokes aside, I heard it from WLs themselves....guys tries it to last longer but the frictions tortures their pussy....they hate that...:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[OceanEleven]

Originally posted by KID278
Jokes aside, I heard it from WLs themselves....guys tries it to last longer but the frictions tortures their pussy....they hate that...:D

Cheers.
Kid278.
Why kill the joy and make it into a chore. Prolong is tireing.:D

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
Why kill the joy and make it into a chore. Prolong is tireing.:D

But why not think of prolong the pleasure?

[Junkboy]

Originally posted by MrDevi1
wat enjoyment u get from doing with someone inexperienced and too kan jiong? thrust a little more, you pity her pain look... its a matter of mentality that everyone think virgin is a good fark.. its more an achievement thing that anything else to me.


exactly!

And IMNHO, virgins = low chance of blowjob.

[Junkboy]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
too much condom also waste of money and no fun

no condom? Shiok!

but, if u think abt it, an abortion will cost $500. So in the short run, long run, using condoms is cheaper.

unless the guy is like my fren's cheebye bf, make the stomach big already still make the girl pay to take it away

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by Junkboy
no condom? Shiok!

but, if u think abt it, an abortion will cost $500. So in the short run, long run, using condoms is cheaper.

unless the guy is like my fren's cheebye bf, make the stomach big already still make the girl pay to take it away

Other than abortion, there are also sex germs.......

[KID278]

Originally posted by Junkboy
no condom? Shiok!

but, if u think abt it, an abortion will cost $500. So in the short run, long run, using condoms is cheaper.

unless the guy is like my fren's cheebye bf, make the stomach big already still make the girl pay to take it away

To a certain degree you should also salute that guy for being capable of making the gal face the consequences herself...:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KID278]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
Why kill the joy and make it into a chore. Prolong is tireing.:D

They gets their joy out of the chore I suppose, tiredness dont mean a thing anymore...:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[bornfree89]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
Other than abortion, there are also sex germs.......


yes and not worth it. raw sex is definitely out!