Any Help

[GLcheonger]

I am a HC & Gl cheonger .Nw slowly decreaseing due married.

I was married for close 2 years , dating was 2 yrs .

last time both have sex with HC or Gl gals ,then go back f@@@ gf ,able to enjoy all .Erection no problem.

These few months try to have sex with wife ( still love her alot although sometimes quraell still ) , cant mantain a erection long enough to have sex.

But Try outside , got no problem at all .Still enjoying it .Tried to eat Viagra for sex with wife but cant also .I have been eating some men health supplements now.

Can any brothers can advice or have the same experience to share to slove the problems?

This have been affecting my relationship with my wife although we both still love each other alot.

[KID278]

Originally posted by GLcheonger
I am a HC & Gl cheonger .Nw slowly decreaseing due married.

I was married for close 2 years , dating was 2 yrs .

last time both have sex with HC or Gl gals ,then go back f@@@ gf ,able to enjoy all .Erection no problem.

These few months try to have sex with wife ( still love her alot although sometimes quraell still ) , cant mantain a erection long enough to have sex.

But Try outside , got no problem at all .Still enjoying it .Tried to eat Viagra for sex with wife but cant also .I have been eating some men health supplements now.

Can any brothers can advice or have the same experience to share to slove the problems?

This have been affecting my relationship with my wife although we both still love each other alot.

It's a syndrome of lost of passion. Your passion for your wife is breaking down. You have to work on that, health supplements may not be enough. It could be in your eyes your wife aged significantly, she's losing her sex appeal, the sexual attraction is drifting apart, bad communications resulting in emotional barriers..etc.etc. As in all passions you must have fun in it or it will keep breaking down till you loses it.

This is a common reason of a husband or wife straying and many a time it results in marriages breaking up. I believe you are not taking things for granted so keep working on the passion and dont let it keep beaking down or your feeling for her will also be gone. That will be the end of the relationship, the marriage.:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by GLcheonger

I was married for close 2 years , dating was 2 yrs .

last time both have sex with HC or Gl gals ,then go back f@@@ gf ,able to enjoy all .Erection no problem.

These few months try to have sex with wife ( still love her alot although sometimes quraell still ) , cant mantain a erection long enough to have sex.


After you were married, I presume you started staying together... so, did you like fuck her a lot more than before getting married? Sorry if I sound crude...but one situation which leads this is excessive sex. I mean... imagine you fuck the wife 7 days a week. After 3 months of the same thing... naturally you will get a bit sick of it. 90x right?

[Rof|maoxz]

Yeah, what bro KID says is true. U might be having a physiological problem with yourself brudder. Try to refrain outdoor sex lah, bad for pocket and your own health also what. Maybe shower your wife with kinky lingerie, spice up your room atmosphere with nice scented aroma etc etc. U must be frank with with her regarding sex also. Know each other needs, don't do it for the sake for your own pleasure.

[lion_mansg]

Yah i agree wif wat bro Kid say aso...It shld be due 2 lose of passion of sex wif her though u still love her...U shld try 2 do some interesting or romantic things wif ur wife 2 re-ignite the fire within both of ur juz like when ur r dating tat time...It's all abt the kind of feeling lah....U r abt 2 stay erect wif those comm sex gals coz it's new again 2 u...So u shld try 2 find 2 speical interesting feeling always wif ur wife,dun treat it as normal procedure....(Personal views!!!)

Best Rdgs

[OceanEleven]

Originally posted by GLcheonger
I am a HC & Gl cheonger .Nw slowly decreaseing due married.
I was married for close 2 years , dating was 2 yrs .
last time both have sex with HC or Gl gals ,then go back f@@@ gf ,able to enjoy all .Erection no problem.
These few months try to have sex with wife ( still love her alot although sometimes quraell still ) , cant mantain a erection long enough to have sex.
But Try outside , got no problem at all .Still enjoying it .Tried to eat Viagra for sex with wife but cant also .I have been eating some men health supplements now.
Can any brothers can advice or have the same experience to share to slove the problems?
This have been affecting my relationship with my wife although we both still love each other alot.
Honestly, start to refrain from commercial sex if you want your mojo back. Like Kid said, you've been taking things for granted and lost the lust and desire for your wife. Continue dwelling in commercial sex will only lower your sex drive for her.:)

[KID278]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
Honestly, start to refrain from commercial sex if you want your mojo back. Like Kid said, you've been taking things for granted and lost the lust and desire for your wife. Continue dwelling in commercial sex will only lower your sex drive for her.:)

Not necessary refraining from commercial sex, just strike a balance. Discover and work on why the missing libido and one should be able to build it up again...:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[fun4evergood]

Jus don't do it so often loh....maybe visit pro only when she is redding.

[GLcheonger]

Thanks all bro ..

Should i stop masnterbating tooo..as recently i find watch blue flim then masterbyrate is quite shiok and i get a long erection ...hmmm

Any bros can advise me on all these things i have face or must i see a doc

[KID278]

Originally posted by GLcheonger
Thanks all bro ..

Should i stop masnterbating tooo..as recently i find watch blue flim then masterbyrate is quite shiok and i get a long erection ...hmmm

Any bros can advise me on all these things i have face or must i see a doc

There's no need to stop if you find fun doing it. Like I say earlier on you have a problem of lost of passion, not your sex drive. You have to find out the cause and work on it. If you dont understand it then you should consult a shrink. You tell them your problem, they should be able to digest it and come out with some answers...:D Believe me, getting married is one thing, staying married is quite another...you will be looking at incompatibility if you let things drag on.:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[OceanEleven]

Originally posted by KID278
There's no need to stop if you find fun doing it. Like I say earlier on you have a problem of lost of passion, not your sex drive. You have to find out the cause and work on it. If you dont understand it then you should consult a shrink. You tell them your problem, they should be able to digest it and come out with some answers...:D Believe me, getting married is one thing, staying married is quite another...you will be looking at incompatibility if you let things drag on.
Cheers.
Kid278.
All these are means and method which some will work and some will not. Remember, we are all different.:)

[KID278]

Originally posted by OceanEleven
All these are means and method which some will work and some will not. Remember, we are all different.:)

What means and method are you talking about?? Those are merely suggestions. Dont confuse yourself. If you dont understand I suggest you read again. And by the way do you have any better ideas? Try suggesting some to him if you have, I am sure he will appreciate that..:rolleyes:

Cheers.
Kid278.

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by GLcheonger
Thanks all bro ..

Should i stop masnterbating tooo..as recently i find watch blue flim then masterbyrate is quite shiok and i get a long erection ...hmmm

Any bros can advise me on all these things i have face or must i see a doc

To me Masterbating is ok....at least it will help u release ur load, stress and best of all, its free and safe. Got it?:p

[viewsonic]

Whenever I have the thought of having sex with other gals (GL, HC..), my wife image always appear in my mind.
She has place all her trust on me and believe that i will bring her happiness & love(that's why she married me....).
I will never want to risk the chances of contacted the virus from other gals n infected her. This will be very bad n unfair to her.


I believe everyone of us will not want to see your wife paying money to the gigolo to hv sex with them.
So, married guys should only aim their bullets on the one n only target. unless special cases......

[MrDevil]

Originally posted by GLcheonger
I am a HC & Gl cheonger .Nw slowly decreaseing due married.

I was married for close 2 years , dating was 2 yrs .

last time both have sex with HC or Gl gals ,then go back f@@@ gf ,able to enjoy all .Erection no problem.

These few months try to have sex with wife ( still love her alot although sometimes quraell still ) , cant mantain a erection long enough to have sex.

But Try outside , got no problem at all .Still enjoying it .Tried to eat Viagra for sex with wife but cant also .I have been eating some men health supplements now.

Can any brothers can advice or have the same experience to share to slove the problems?

This have been affecting my relationship with my wife although we both still love each other alot.

there must be some real big emotional barier with your wife, if you can do without much help outside, its time for you to relook what go wrong between both of you.

If viagra cant help you, provided its real stuff, dont think health supplement will help much.

[KID278]

Originally posted by viewsonic
Whenever I have the thought of having sex with other gals (GL, HC..), my wife image always appear in my mind.
She has place all her trust on me and believe that i will bring her happiness & love(that's why she married me....).
I will never want to risk the chances of contacted the virus from other gals n infected her. This will be very bad n unfair to her.


I believe everyone of us will not want to see your wife paying money to the gigolo to hv sex with them.
So, married guys should only aim their bullets on the one n only target. unless special cases......

And what special case might that be??....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[viewsonic]

Originally posted by KID278
And what special case might that be??....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

When the "target" allow herself to be aim by other gun bullets. ;)

[KID278]

Originally posted by viewsonic
When the "target" allow herself to be aim by other gun bullets. ;)

Whatever it is, it dont make any difference, guys can hardly stay away from infidelity....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by KID278
Whatever it is, it dont make any difference, guys can hardly stay away from infidelity....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

I somewhat agree. Shit, in fact, I totally agree. Kid, we seem to have a lot of views in common yah?

[KID278]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
I somewhat agree. Shit, in fact, I totally agree. Kid, we seem to have a lot of views in common yah?

Good isnt it...views that make sense at the least....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

[viewsonic]

Originally posted by KID278
Whatever it is, it dont make any difference, guys can hardly stay away from infidelity....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

u are right, even person like bill clinton is doing it.

Nowadays, ladies dress themselves very sexy, tight pant with g-string. tight shirt with colour bra....... just wonder, did their parents really approved them to dress like that?

It's getting tougher n tougher to resist the temptation. Felt like going to places like HC or Geylang to release..... but my wife.........

[KID278]

Originally posted by viewsonic
u are right, even person like bill clinton is doing it.

Nowadays, ladies dress themselves very sexy, tight pant with g-string. tight shirt with colour bra....... just wonder, did their parents really approved them to dress like that?

It's getting tougher n tougher to resist the temptation. Felt like going to places like HC or Geylang to release..... but my wife.........

It's a trendy business when comes to dressing, it's no longer subjected to parental approval anymore these days....:D

Guys I believe by nature are more promiscuous so it's nothing strange you finding it tough resisting mental seductions....:p

Cheers.
Kid278.

[foolish_]

Originally posted by KID278
Whatever it is, it dont make any difference, guys can hardly stay away from infidelity....:D

Cheers.
Kid278.

Agree with u....for most guys.......infidelity is only a question of time........and for those guys who think paid sex is not infidelity ( I have personally met many guys who think that they are not being unfaithful when they go for paid sex as there is no emotion involve).........what a load of crap.......:D

[KID278]

Originally posted by foolish_
Agree with u....for most guys.......infidelity is only a question of time........and for those guys who think paid sex is not infidelity ( I have personally met many guys who think that they are not being unfaithful when they go for paid sex as there is no emotion involve).........what a load of crap.......:D

Well, it's a matter of moral obligations, it depends on how a particular person look at it and defines it. Nonetheless, it's a breach of trust and being unfaithful, emotion or no emotion, regardless.

Cheers.
Kid278.