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Blowjob_lover
30-08-2002, 05:26 PM
Hi brothers,

Can someone help me on this... Each time, I have sex with my wife, I can never ejacuate with me on top of her and we always landed up having her on top of me...

Anyone out there who have the same prob. as me?

Need your advice... thanks...

justl00king
30-08-2002, 07:16 PM
maybe you tired of missionary position so find it hard to eject. actually better can last longer.;)

Blowjob_lover
31-08-2002, 06:40 AM
my wife says that I am lazy as she has to do more work than I do... But what to do, I am never able to ejacuate when on top...

Did consider looking for someone to try on like in HC or GL... but afraid that I may be pressurised to ejacuate within the short time given... and worse still, may feel inadequate abt myself...

Are there anyone who are like me? This will really make me abit better...

Or are there any ladies out there whose husband or gfs are like that?

lovely
02-09-2002, 09:58 AM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
my wife says that I am lazy as she has to do more work than I do... But what to do, I am never able to ejacuate when on top...

Did consider looking for someone to try on like in HC or GL... but afraid that I may be pressurised to ejacuate within the short time given... and worse still, may feel inadequate abt myself...

Are there anyone who are like me? This will really make me abit better...

Or are there any ladies out there whose husband or gfs are like that?


u can try u on top but her legs u put at ur shoulder lor better pentration then maybe will ejeculate lor.

ol'coyote
02-09-2002, 12:32 PM
Originally posted by lovely



u can try u on top but her legs u put at ur shoulder lor better pentration then maybe will ejeculate lor.

You like this position ?
Every time do this position with my gfs or ex-gfs, they always complain too deep. Always tell me the same thing, say can feel something in the stomach. Don't really know what they mean, so no choice got to change to my next fav position, which is the doggy.

Blowjob_lover
02-09-2002, 03:08 PM
thank you lovely,

but tried that too but my wife says that she cannot tolerate the pain and she does not enjoy it ...

anyway really appreciate u can suggest other means...

lovely
03-09-2002, 01:54 PM
Originally posted by ol'coyote


You like this position ?
Every time do this position with my gfs or ex-gfs, they always complain too deep. Always tell me the same thing, say can feel something in the stomach. Don't really know what they mean, so no choice got to change to my next fav position, which is the doggy.


i say gd for tt guy for better pentration i nv say I LIKE ok. gers prefer doggies mostly.


as for Blowjob_lover i got no more ideas liao paiseh hor cant help.

PrinceD@rkness
03-09-2002, 07:44 PM
Originally posted by lovely



i say gd for tt guy for better pentration i nv say I LIKE ok. gers prefer doggies mostly.


as for Blowjob_lover i got no more ideas liao paiseh hor cant help.


hmm...didnt noe that u r aN EXPERT in postions, maybe 1 day we can disscuse more in 'postions for better pentrations':D

lovely
04-09-2002, 01:48 AM
Originally posted by PrinceD@rkness



hmm...didnt noe that u r aN EXPERT in postions, maybe 1 day we can disscuse more in 'postions for better pentrations':D


erm...i am not expert lah just tt as time goes u will know more n more by urself. Anyway u say discuss? how to discuss ar?

ColourWolf
04-09-2002, 02:04 AM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
Hi brothers,

Can someone help me on this... Each time, I have sex with my wife, I can never ejacuate with me on top of her and we always landed up having her on top of me...

Anyone out there who have the same prob. as me?

Need your advice... thanks...

Why dun u try the sitting position? See if u can cum tat way...if can, try it a few times then slowly adjust to missionary see if work anot...

Juz a personal opinion...

Blowjob_lover
04-09-2002, 06:06 AM
thanks bro and sis for all your advice...

May I ask what doggy style is? I may want to try it on my wife...

You may think that I am ignorant but I truely hope to know the anwer...

As for sitting position, I will give it a try and see how it goes...

Have a nice day...

lovely
04-09-2002, 09:31 AM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
thanks bro and sis for all your advice...

May I ask what doggy style is? I may want to try it on my wife...

You may think that I am ignorant but I truely hope to know the anwer...

As for sitting position, I will give it a try and see how it goes...

Have a nice day...



u dunno wat is doggy style? OMG very surprise...ok anyway doggy is the woman wif her knee n hands on the floor or bed then u fuck her frm behind but my behind of cos is her virgina hole not asshole hor. cos women enjoy more on this position cos u get to hit her G spot more often. ;)

kk7773
04-09-2002, 10:16 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by lovely
[B]



u dunno wat is doggy style? OMG very surprise...ok anyway doggy is the woman wif her knee n hands on the floor or bed then u fuck her frm behind but my behind of cos is her virgina hole not asshole hor. cos women enjoy more on this position cos u get to hit her G spot more often.

So tat mean you like this doggy style position right ?:D

MoonFace
04-09-2002, 01:19 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
my wife says that I am lazy as she has to do more work than I do...

Just tell her ... If you don't do your job .. .somebody else would!

smiler
04-09-2002, 01:29 PM
Bro Blowjob_lover, well wat can I say??? Maybe must E-mail you the 101 ways of sutra............kekekekeke:D

lovely
04-09-2002, 10:01 PM
Originally posted by kk7773
[QUOTE]Originally posted by lovely
[B]



u dunno wat is doggy style? OMG very surprise...ok anyway doggy is the woman wif her knee n hands on the floor or bed then u fuck her frm behind but my behind of cos is her virgina hole not asshole hor. cos women enjoy more on this position cos u get to hit her G spot more often.

So tat mean you like this doggy style position right ?:D


wat i like does tt concern to u? It only concern to my bf =P

superdooper
04-09-2002, 10:17 PM
go get a screw in geyland.
gals there sure make u come all the way.
because u sure want to make yr money worth it.

Blowjob_lover
04-09-2002, 11:31 PM
thanks lovely,

You are such a helpful lady... Thanks for explaining to me... I really appreciate...

I know and expected the many experienced guys in this forum would laugh at my ignorance... but this bro of yours really have no idea of doggy style prior to that...

Also, I do hope that the guys here do not disturb lovely as she is really such a nice lady and has helped me quite a bit...

As to the suggestion made by superdooper, I have to say NO as I don't believe in having sex with others except my wife... The furthest I have done is to ask for blow job from the girls at HCs...
Though I felt quilty at times for doing that, I had promised myself not to have intercourse with other girls...

Btw, I am a teacher and if I wanted to do so, it is certainly not a problem...

ColourWolf
05-09-2002, 01:01 AM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover

Btw, I am a teacher and if I wanted to do so, it is certainly not a problem...

Huh? Wat u mean? Dun tell me u will aim ur own students? Dun have any wicked ideas on ur students, k? I hate the idea of teachers abusing their status and position and have sex with their own students, esp if u are toking about young little gals... pls dun make use of their trust in you... it's such a BASTARDLY behaviour :mad:

Blowjob_lover
05-09-2002, 05:20 AM
quote:
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Originally posted by Blowjob_lover

Btw, I am a teacher and if I wanted to do so, it is certainly not a problem...
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ColourWolf,

I do think u have some language deficiency... U miss the word "if"... Let me help u to decifer in a clearer and easier to understand manner so that u can sleep in peace...

From the way the sentence is being written, it clearly shows that I am not into those kinds of acts with my students... If I am such a person, I would not have mentioned to u abt my problems... I am only interested in having sex with my wife and nobody else...

Is it clearer or do u need me to use simpler english or singlish to help u? Pse pm me if u need help... ok?

To be honest, I cannot stop laughing at how such a sentence would have led to your conclusion...

Blowjob_lover
05-09-2002, 05:29 AM
sorry ColourWolf,

Forget to add on abt the age of the students that I am teaching... they are in the JCs btw...
They are not the young innocent children that u are thinking abt...

:)

lovely
05-09-2002, 09:21 AM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
thanks lovely,

You are such a helpful lady... Thanks for explaining to me... I really appreciate...

I know and expected the many experienced guys in this forum would laugh at my ignorance... but this bro of yours really have no idea of doggy style prior to that...

Also, I do hope that the guys here do not disturb lovely as she is really such a nice lady and has helped me quite a bit...

As to the suggestion made by superdooper, I have to say NO as I don't believe in having sex with others except my wife... The furthest I have done is to ask for blow job from the girls at HCs...
Though I felt quilty at times for doing that, I had promised myself not to have intercourse with other girls...

Btw, I am a teacher and if I wanted to do so, it is certainly not a problem...


helpful lady? No leh always got jerks scold me n calling me names one tts mean i am so unpopular here. NO need tks lah as i just xplain to u won't use up too much time.

Wahhh such a nice hubby u are. If only my future husband also like tt.

Blowjob_lover
05-09-2002, 04:05 PM
Lovely,

U will have my blessings in finding a good husband...

;)

lovely
05-09-2002, 06:05 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
Lovely,

U will have my blessings in finding a good husband...

;)


hope so lor.

PrinceD@rkness
05-09-2002, 08:15 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
thanks bro and sis for all your advice...

May I ask what doggy style is? I may want to try it on my wife...

You may think that I am ignorant but I truely hope to know the anwer...

As for sitting position, I will give it a try and see how it goes...

Have a nice day...

y dun u try get a few 'blue' vcds, u can learn lots of styles from there.

n 1 more thing....very suprise to see a teacher in here. wondering if u r my school teacher:D

ColourWolf
05-09-2002, 08:58 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
quote:
ColourWolf,

I do think u have some language deficiency... U miss the word "if"... Let me help u to decifer in a clearer and easier to understand manner so that u can sleep in peace...

From the way the sentence is being written, it clearly shows that I am not into those kinds of acts with my students... If I am such a person, I would not have mentioned to u abt my problems... I am only interested in having sex with my wife and nobody else...

Is it clearer or do u need me to use simpler english or singlish to help u? Pse pm me if u need help... ok?

To be honest, I cannot stop laughing at how such a sentence would have led to your conclusion...

No I dun have any language deficiency and I didn't miss the word "if"... It's juz tat the way u say it machiem it's PERFECTLY OK for a teacher to have sex with his students IF HE WANTS TO...
I know ur stand in having sex with onli ur wife and no other woman and I RESPECT you for tat... but I juz felt tat ur last sentence about you being a teacher and you will have lots of chance IF you wan to sounds wrong, therefore I voice my disagreement...

I am against the idea, not aiming at you... I apologise if I sounded too hostile... no hard feelings...

PrinceD@rkness
06-09-2002, 04:55 AM
Originally posted by ColourWolf


No I dun have any language deficiency and I didn't miss the word "if"... It's juz tat the way u say it machiem it's PERFECTLY OK for a teacher to have sex with his students IF HE WANTS TO...
I know ur stand in having sex with onli ur wife and no other woman and I RESPECT you for tat... but I juz felt tat ur last sentence about you being a teacher and you will have lots of chance IF you wan to sounds wrong, therefore I voice my disagreement...

I am against the idea, not aiming at you... I apologise if I sounded too hostile... no hard feelings...


wah....very chim:D

Blowjob_lover
06-09-2002, 06:50 AM
ColourWolf,

What prompts me to say the last sentence

" Btw, I am a teacher and if I wanted to do so, it is certainly not a problem... "

is because...

I have heard of a no of teachers in other schools doing such disgusting acts with their students after the latter have graduated from the schools or even when they are still in their schools ... These teachers like to boast abt their experiences and when I told them off, they say that it is their business...

Just want to clarify with u so that u can better understand the inner feelings when I wrote the last sentence... Anyway, I am a professional teacher and certainly knows the job prospects of my work.

Hope u are satisfied with my answer and have a nice weekend...

Blowjob_lover
06-09-2002, 06:53 AM
PrinceD@rkness,

I do have a few japanese uncensored VCDs but so far only watched once or twice as quite difficult to watch with my maid around in the house... My wife watched with me at times but would only say disgusting when she saw the blowjob acts.

lovely
06-09-2002, 08:46 AM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
PrinceD@rkness,

I do have a few japanese uncensored VCDs but so far only watched once or twice as quite difficult to watch with my maid around in the house... My wife watched with me at times but would only say disgusting when she saw the blowjob acts.


go inside ur room watch lor dun tell me ur maid hang ard at ur room also meh? Anyway gif me see BJ RA show i also find it disgusting sia. Although did try wif bf b4 but i totally dun like it in fact he nv force or request for it anymore. Tts sumthing i like abt him. ;)

Blowjob_lover
06-09-2002, 03:56 PM
lovely,

no lah, I didn't force my wife to watch too... However, for those times when she watched with me, it is upon her request... Women are quite unpredictable, u see.. They wanted to watch and get aroused during the show but find the bj disgusting...

Men are also weird, at least for me... Last time, when I requested from her to blow for me, she would do but each time she does it for me, I would stop her after a short while as I feel sinful to ask her to do for me as it is not her wish...

Thats my true feelings... Men don't feel good when they got something from another who has not volunteered to do for him..

PrinceD@rkness
06-09-2002, 08:31 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
PrinceD@rkness,

I do have a few japanese uncensored VCDs but so far only watched once or twice as quite difficult to watch with my maid around in the house... My wife watched with me at times but would only say disgusting when she saw the blowjob acts.


i suggest not to watch those japanese porno, they r quite disgusting, etc wax-dripping, whip. who see liao also will scared mah, best if u ask the bros here to intro to u those better ones:D

ColourWolf
06-09-2002, 09:01 PM
Originally posted by PrinceD@rkness

i suggest not to watch those japanese porno, they r quite disgusting, etc wax-dripping, whip. who see liao also will scared mah, best if u ask the bros here to intro to u those better ones:D

No lah... wax-dripping, whipping etc are onli if you bought those type with the SM theme... one good thing about jap porno is their vast variety... you can buy according to ur own liking/fetishes... cosplay, molest, rape, lolita, mature women, u name it, they got it... for the benefit to ppl like bro Blowjob_lover, there are even whole vcds on juz blowjobs... the problem is juz tat whether you can find the vcds in singapore... a good alternative is to d/l from the Internet... lots available...

Blowjob_lover
07-09-2002, 05:33 AM
Thanks bros,

Well, I do quite like Jap girls... The Vcds that I bought are all over the internet as it is more discrete and for the same reason that ColourWolf had said that we can choose what theme we like...

Mine involves blowjob...

But rather expensive though...

lovely
07-09-2002, 12:16 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
lovely,

no lah, I didn't force my wife to watch too... However, for those times when she watched with me, it is upon her request... Women are quite unpredictable, u see.. They wanted to watch and get aroused during the show but find the bj disgusting...

Men are also weird, at least for me... Last time, when I requested from her to blow for me, she would do but each time she does it for me, I would stop her after a short while as I feel sinful to ask her to do for me as it is not her wish...

Thats my true feelings... Men don't feel good when they got something from another who has not volunteered to do for him..


can i ask u sumthing? When u find it sinful to ask ur wife to do BJ or u dun really request her to do unless she do it herself does tt mean u love her lot? Cos i been wondering does my bf really loves me or not by not forcing me to do BJ.

Blowjob_lover
07-09-2002, 10:23 PM
Lovely,

The only reason as to why Men do not want to force their gf or wife to blow for them if their partner dislike, is because they would certainly not enjoy it...

It may not mean that they love u but rather they feel that it is pointless to force someone to do something that they don't like... No point right?

Have a nice wkend with your bf...

lovely
09-09-2002, 02:25 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
Lovely,

The only reason as to why Men do not want to force their gf or wife to blow for them if their partner dislike, is because they would certainly not enjoy it...

It may not mean that they love u but rather they feel that it is pointless to force someone to do something that they don't like... No point right?

Have a nice wkend with your bf...


tks anyway hope ur wife do more BJ for u. :D

tantjpx
09-09-2002, 02:30 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
Lovely,

The only reason as to why Men do not want to force their gf or wife to blow for them if their partner dislike, is because they would certainly not enjoy it...

It may not mean that they love u but rather they feel that it is pointless to force someone to do something that they don't like... No point right?

Have a nice wkend with your bf...

i agree
since they dun like
pay some $$$$ n do outside lor

Blowjob_lover
09-09-2002, 09:03 PM
Thanks lovely... I do hope that too but I will also remember your advice to other men here that we should not force our wife/gf to do blowjob just bec. we like it...

Do u also think that do blowjob for your bf is disgusting?

lovely
12-09-2002, 02:18 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
Thanks lovely... I do hope that too but I will also remember your advice to other men here that we should not force our wife/gf to do blowjob just bec. we like it...

Do u also think that do blowjob for your bf is disgusting?

erm...partly is disgusting partly is i dun like it lor. :D

PrinceD@rkness
12-09-2002, 03:36 PM
Originally posted by lovely


erm...partly is disgusting partly is i dun like it lor. :D


sex is not dirty, but wonderful. we guys likes blowjobs as much as gals likes us to go down on them. juz close ur eyes n enjoy lah, n dun think so much lor:D

lovely
12-09-2002, 05:49 PM
Originally posted by PrinceD@rkness



sex is not dirty, but wonderful. we guys likes blowjobs as much as gals likes us to go down on them. juz close ur eyes n enjoy lah, n dun think so much lor:D


i nv say dirty lah just dun like it lor. Why must u change my point of view on BJ leh bro prince?

PrinceD@rkness
12-09-2002, 09:35 PM
Originally posted by lovely



i nv say dirty lah just dun like it lor. Why must u change my point of view on BJ leh bro prince?

me not changing ur point of view la, juz a comment only

lovely
12-09-2002, 11:45 PM
Originally posted by PrinceD@rkness


me not changing ur point of view la, juz a comment only

ok lah ur comments are accepted ok? diff ppl will haf diff views of cos all guys like BJ. lolZ

PrinceD@rkness
13-09-2002, 02:03 PM
Originally posted by lovely


ok lah ur comments are accepted ok? diff ppl will haf diff views of cos all guys like BJ. lolZ

same same la, gals also like guys to go down on them:D

lovely
14-09-2002, 03:55 PM
Originally posted by PrinceD@rkness


same same la, gals also like guys to go down on them:D

hahha bro prince u are wrong abt tt. I dun like it tts why i dun gif or receive. Fair for him n me. ^_^

CumExplorer
14-09-2002, 09:04 PM
Originally posted by lovely


hahha bro prince u are wrong abt tt. I dun

So u like the back door instaed lar, hehehehe

lovely
15-09-2002, 02:22 PM
Originally posted by CumExplorer


So u like the back door instaed lar, hehehehe


if u wan to be funny wif me then u got the wrong person. U can go try other female samster lah. Pls tok abt the topic i dun wish to get scold for nothing.

cheechee
15-09-2002, 05:44 PM
Hey, i also faced the same problem. While doing with my gf if i am above i cant really come and sometimes work out for quite long time yet still could not.. Until i damn tired.

But if we try the she above position i can come just normally. Sighhh.. At first tot that I am abnormal, luckily know tht someone out there face the same thing.

Anyway, my observations though, when I am below, i realized tht i will occasionally squeeze my leg muscle (dun know how to explain but try my best to) and thus unknowingly it also squeeze some muscle on the butt. Then make me come very fast.

I can ctrl and never shoot while trying normal postiion is becoz the muscle squeeze above never occcured as i am either kneeling down or standing.

Do you experiance the same thing?

Cheers

PrinceD@rkness
17-09-2002, 04:09 AM
Originally posted by cheechee
Hey, i also faced the same problem. While doing with my gf if i am above i cant really come and sometimes work out for quite long time yet still could not.. Until i damn tired.

But if we try the she above position i can come just normally. Sighhh.. At first tot that I am abnormal, luckily know tht someone out there face the same thing.

Anyway, my observations though, when I am below, i realized tht i will occasionally squeeze my leg muscle (dun know how to explain but try my best to) and thus unknowingly it also squeeze some muscle on the butt. Then make me come very fast.

I can ctrl and never shoot while trying normal postiion is becoz the muscle squeeze above never occcured as i am either kneeling down or standing.

Do you experiance the same thing?Cheers


wah....like this everytime u go toilet shit, accidently squeeze ur butt muscles u cum liao.........cool.....like this no need to pcc like me, fast n easy:D

obiwan
19-09-2002, 11:09 PM
Originally posted by cheechee
Hey, i also faced the same problem. While doing with my gf if i am above i cant really come and sometimes work out for quite long time yet still could not.. Until i damn tired.

But if we try the she above position i can come just normally. Sighhh.. At first tot that I am abnormal, luckily know tht someone out there face the same thing.

Anyway, my observations though, when I am below, i realized tht i will occasionally squeeze my leg muscle (dun know how to explain but try my best to) and thus unknowingly it also squeeze some muscle on the butt. Then make me come very fast.

I can ctrl and never shoot while trying normal postiion is becoz the muscle squeeze above never occcured as i am either kneeling down or standing.

Do you experiance the same thing?

Cheers

hi cheechee,

I'm experiencing the same thing, from what I know the cause of this might be that from frequent DIY handjobs. If you are a frequent DIY, then we're on the same boat.

PrinceD@rkness
20-09-2002, 02:42 AM
very easy to noe if u pcc often, cos ur right arm will be more mucular then ur left arm:D

lovely
20-09-2002, 09:48 AM
Originally posted by PrinceD@rkness
very easy to noe if u pcc often, cos ur right arm will be more mucular then ur left arm:D


wat kind of logic is tt?

obiwan
20-09-2002, 09:44 PM
Originally posted by lovely



wat kind of logic is tt?

err.. one palm will also be darker than the other one.. :D

unless u use both hands then its harder to tell... :eek:

Blowjob_lover
21-09-2002, 05:09 PM
Nice to hear that a no of bros here are in similar situation... Well, I do handjobs by myself quite often... once a day... or else, I will feel really horny...

PrinceD@rkness
21-09-2002, 05:11 PM
Originally posted by lovely



wat kind of logic is tt?

its juz like a workout on ur right arm only

obiwan
21-09-2002, 06:18 PM
Originally posted by PrinceD@rkness


its juz like a workout on ur right arm only

for me its my left arm, becoz I'm left handed. :D

cheechee
02-10-2002, 11:53 PM
Originally posted by obiwan


hi cheechee,

I'm experiencing the same thing, from what I know the cause of this might be that from frequent DIY handjobs. If you are a frequent DIY, then we're on the same boat.

Oooo... gee man... What a coincidence.. Seems like it is the DIY handjobs.. Sighh... Sad then....

Blowjob_lover
07-10-2002, 05:37 AM
Is there any way where I would be able to ejacuate with myself on top... sigh... My wife told me that she is easily tired and said that it makes her feel tired with her always having to be on top before I can ejacuate...

Another thing that I would like to verify with u bros... My wife did say that she heard from her friends that if the man is on top, chances are that the woman will give birth to a baby boy if she gets pregnant... so far sounds true as my first 2 children are both females...

Anyone can verify or disprove this...

cheechee
07-10-2002, 12:51 PM
Originally posted by Blowjob_lover
Is there any way where I would be able to ejacuate with myself on top... sigh... My wife told me that she is easily tired and said that it makes her feel tired with her always having to be on top before I can ejacuate...

Another thing that I would like to verify with u bros... My wife did say that she heard from her friends that if the man is on top, chances are that the woman will give birth to a baby boy if she gets pregnant... so far sounds true as my first 2 children are both females...

Anyone can verify or disprove this...

On top? Sigh... I think the only way is to have a really long long sex.... Which might be very tiring.

Managed only once to ejacuate while on top, one time when i somewhat insisted in doing trying this, took abt 1 hour to really manage to do this, and also only by straightening my legs.. sigh..

maybe u wanna try to see can or not...

Blowjob_lover
08-10-2002, 05:58 AM
I will give it a try... thanks ...