Repressed/Unvented sexual urges.
 

Last 5 years, only had intercourse once ( if memory serves correctly)
I can get it whenever where paid is concerned, but just not interested.
I think the diys I have done in past 5 years is equal if not more than the days combined in the past 5 years, sometimes 3-4 times each day, all while being in a full time job.

Its a case of the body is willing, but spirit is weak.
Just not interested in whats for sale, but have been trying hard to work towards going for one, just for the sake of venting.

I am not sure if this is a side effect of not venting, but whenever I interact with non commercial ladies and if they happened to be my type, and when they say something like :

"Is there anything else I can do/help you with "

In my mind I would be screaming/yelling : " Yeah, lets FUCK !!! BLOW ME, SHOW ME YOUR BREASTS !!! BEND OVER AND LET ME HELP MYSELF TO YOU. I WANT YOU TO GIVE ME A GOOD TIME !!! "

The bad thing is that we were interacting in a professional capacity and I had to articulate/express my thoughts but all the time thinking I want to bang you and my other non sexual thoughts.......what thoughts......?

Can't and do not want to have a relationship, and so stuck in Body horny af, spirit goes extra limp.

Guess I am stuck between a hard place and a limp spirit.....

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Maybe go on a vacation? Get out of SG, go somewhere far. Just no JB, please. It will do your morale good.

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I am not sure why anyone want to limit their sex.

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Agree with you.

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Solo travel to japan and do the JAV dream.

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HK also have. More variety and cheaper than Singapore too

He is stressed and probably has some unresolved issues

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Star Wars has a Han Solo. Your house has a Hand Solo. :p

Your job gives you an income which you can spend to release sexual tension. Doesn't have to be a FJ. Even a paid HJ is better than what you are doing now. What's stopping you from going commercial? Religion?

Think of the money spent commercially as money spent protecting your job. At the rate your sexual tension pents up, you might really end up making career ending remarks accidentally

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Phoning Telecom is a good place for you to get hard. HAHAHA.

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Same, not sure why.

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Yes, especially when you think if not now when little bro is working fine, wait until bro retired then too late liao...

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hard place and a limp

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Can't and do not want to have a relationship, and so stuck in Body horny af, spirit goes extra limp.

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Enjoy while still can

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Guess I am stuck between a hard place and a limp spirit.....

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Maybe u can visit the Philippines. Treat some women well and have a good time, they will reward you physically too.

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Chiong ktv, book 1 girl, chat, play, continue to 81.
Ktv girl, variety, got gnd look type lol.
After, no strings attached.

Heard too much diy is not that great for mental health.
3,4 x per day mean high libilo. Got the means, dont waste little bro time on earth:D. Sammyboy provide so many avenue to release, maybe a little bit too much, lol;)
- travel international, Vietnam, Thailand all budget bonk
Travel Japan, Korea or east Europe for more exotic experience

Think if tomorrow no come, with the $ you have, what would you have done, give charity or take it with you to netherland??:rolleyes:

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Look at my signature.

I quit sg 20 years ago, no regrets, no looking back, whether in terms of career opportunities & advancements, sex life, even life partner(s).

In APAC, where our culture is to various (depending on countries) extents very similar, the ladies are more virtuous & willing to please the men than sg gals.

Even in many European countries (btw my xiao3 is German, xiao4 is Swedish), many ladies are also virtuous & willing to please the men. Their definition of "Equality" is more "Equal" than those typical sg woman, not to mention sg's laws.

300,000 maids to choose from. Why don't you just get a few maids? Or find a reason to hire one, then just fuck her till her contract end, then rinse and repeat with a new maid.

That's why my friend's doing.

Glad to hear you quit this small shitty place for 20years ago. This the best choice.

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Best move ever! You can also retire much earlier than this shit place. :D

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Engaging these FLs or bonking with multiple ladies , r u guys afraid of catching stds and HIV?

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After my breakup with my ex, I end up having deprives. DIY was not good for me, so I went traveling around by myself or during business trips. Specially made a trip to Japan to experience the many types of services they offer. And have regular WL and kept ML in SG to have my release.

I KC with ladies overseas especially in BKK who did not think to offer sex then raw + cip them. Looking at those expressions excite me. You can take PREP not to catch HIV, but STDs you will catch it from time to time. Or you can use condom.

Now, I have a partner. She doesn't have much needs, but willing to satisfy my needs. I don't need to visit those places anymore.

You don't want a relationship, but how about considering about having a kept woman or FWB/FB?

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From a certain perspective, I am semi-retiring 😁

Job / career wise, I have been at Regional (APAC) Senior Leadership (Technological) position for quite some years already, few months back EMEA Region was also re-directed to me (sort of promotion). 3 years back, I was offered position of Regional CEO, but I rejected, because I prefer to do technical tasks more than Management (doesn't mean I can't). Furthermore, 1 of the important KPIs of CEO is revenue & profits, which means, Sales (revenue). That is also something I don't quite like to do, and with the Global economy...Being at my current position, salary & benefits, I'm happy & appreciative enough, with very good work-life balance 😊

Sex life wise, my wife can "feed me" more than enough, not to mention my xiao3 & xiao4, (these ang mohs) some times can get quite aggressive & drain me...they regard sex as enjoyment, not chore or duty to husband / partner. That's why I seldom cheong nowadays, and if I do, I go for quality, not quantity