Dated a FL/WL who became a FB. And my new fetish is....
 

I have a "new fetish" and I don't know is it because I don't feel good dating a ex WL/FL as a FB/GF

And I tend to be wary when guys smile at her, so I wonder if they are ex customers. Or her phone rings and I wonder is it her regular.

And the fetish is a wanting to know how's she in bed with customers, if she's as hot and intense with me, as she is with the ones who pay.

You want to ask, but you cant handle the truth.

And sometimes out of frustration when she rejects your moves or advances you tend to flare up, if I pay you would you do it for me now?

So to handle the pressure I go to videos of FL/WL to imagine how she is like with customers.

I find that after I get frustrated with her past, I fuck her really hard in bed to get it all out.

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So what is the fetish????

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Did she just do HJs like she said she did?

Was it like this, completely clothed?

https://xhamster.com/videos/asian-ma...parlor-6304338

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Or was the handjob more like this

https://xhamster.com/videos/handjob-...parlor-3611543

and thinking about her servicing other men makes me angry and horny

Cant understand it but I have been imagining her doing her old trade

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those who date FL/WL and Ex ones, anyone had a fetish to imagine her serving her customer?

how spontaneous was she? was she very wet? did she scream louder than with me?

did she enjoy being fucked by strange men? Did she have feelings for some of these men, finding them good looking that's why she enjoyed her job more?

How many did she screw?

It started with her telling me she mainly did HJ and BJs, but later I dug more and found out it was so much more....

to be continued.....

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Please carry on bro, nice story

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Nice thread. Ex WL? Although I have never dated any WL before, but I still get into contact with a particular ex WL and to 81 sometimes. Since we are only of friend relationship, I didn't think about her serving customers. Some more she has already quit this line. Used to think about what you have described above when she was still in that line. Like everyday she has to serve customers, all races, FJ, BJ or HJ all these. Sending Shivers when I think about those.

But no use digging and thinking lah, will affect your own mood when making comparisons with other customers. Furthermore you already mentioned dating an ex WL, move on and look to the future and don't think about her past. My 2 cents.....

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Here to support TS,,
Hmmm,,, But is this for real or this is just story?

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When we met, she even made the effort to disguise her work as a beautician. Was so naïve, and I should have figured it out when she said it was at Orchard Towers.

I went online and search for videos on orchard towers, and lo and behold I saw a brother's sniped video of her soliciting for customers with her short tight dress, electric eyes, touchy hands and girlish smile.

My heart broke. I had just started with her, nothing serious yet. But many of the blanks were filled in. Felt so torn. I suspected it, but watching a video of her getting customers was a stab into my heart.

Do I continue with her? Do I walk away. Can I walk away? A part of me wanted to be with her, she really captured my heart. But another part of me was torn. I have never been with a FL/WL emotionally

My logical mind told me to walk away

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I couldn't sleep

all night I replayed that video

I finally messaged her and told her, I have something to show you.

She saw the video and said, we cannot talk anymore. Please stop calling me.

I was crushed.

I fell asleep dreaming I was a customer at orchard towers, perhaps she really seldom did full service. maybe just clothed handjobs. Or just blowjobs without CIM. With condoms, no roaming. The more I thought about it, the more torn apart I was.

How I wish I was a customer receiving a handjob or blowjob from her. Was she nude? Did she take off all? Was the customers she solicit good looking? Orchard towers so they were all well hung because most patrons were ang mos?

Yanked myself off watching videos as such.

https://xhamster.com/videos/tugging-...=video_related

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I also interested to know .

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Nice story and just sharing my views bout dating those in the flesh trade.

I've dated current and ex FL/ML few times before. One rule I stick by: Never go ask bout her work and go think bout wat's happening behind closed doors. No point thinking about it if I can't afford to give her enough to leave the trade, just pure torture. Even if I'm able to give her enough, no guarantee she will not do shady stuff behind my back.

Eg I got so call FBs who used to work in those beauty salons and mps, one of them also from Orchard Towers. They left the trade for various reasons like got baoed or raided or married or husband/bf found out they working in this trade from online sources etc. I still meeting them regularly but always during office hours on weekdays, only on rare occasion weekends. I even went holidays overseas with them, no sure what kind if excuse they cooked up for their other halfs. Those who used to work in joints or locations which are frequently discussed online would remind me don't mention anything in detail online to safeguard our secret meetups. This had been going on for years.

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If you want to date a prositutes, try not to think about the times she spent with other guys. Dont ever discuss about her job. It does you and her no good. She also doesnt want you to keep asking about her work.

You can tell if she really like you by the following :

1) She gets naturally wet while having sex with you. Imagine after a whole day of fucking other customers and yet still can get wet with you, it means she enjoy ya company.

2) She calls you at the end of the day.

3) She sends you selfies of herself out of a sudden with and without makeup

4) She never reject your request for sex

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If this is for real, not just a story. Then I will say, like what a few other bros already said, don't go think about what she did with her clients or go online search. Just imagine she is an ang pai and has a thread in SBF with plenty of FRs and discussions about her, it will just make you feel alot worse. What for go open up a can of worms when the outcome could be too much for you to bear. If these thoughts can't be cast out of the mind, then don't go try to date them.

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Dated a fl.from.orchaed tower too.pick her after work n she go 81 with me n no cash involved too.are we talking abt the same fl..Hahaha

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This is a very good rule to follow .

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I couldn't sleep and the same night she said not to contact her anymore, I tried to stop thinking about her but I couldn't

I tried to call her but her phone was switched off. Now I know I was in trouble. I kept getting her voice, and finally at 4am she turned on her phone

In a sad voice I said, please don't shut me out. I don't mind your past, almost begging. In my heart I know I did, but my feelings were already given to her. I couldn't take it back.

I asked her, how about breakfast? And I drove across the island for breakfast. Tired from lack of sleep, I was happy to hug her.

I cant understand it, but she is the only girl I see that I have a instant hard on. After a passionate kiss and hug. I send her home and went home to sleep. But in my heart, I know I still had the fact she was a WL/FL as a thorn in the flesh

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Shadow warrior. Man to man please wake up ur idea.

The Chinese once said that even the strongest of heroes will fall to a woman.

We were all mesmerised by that one woman who stole our hearts and cocks at the same time but you will need to ask yourself if you can sustain both emotionally and financially.

Unfortunately based on ur story, both u also cannot so please cut loss and sell. If not, the next thing u will be selling will be ur dignity.


Cheers bro

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Interested to know too .

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As I always say: the problem with the chickens is not their rotten pussies, but their distorted mindset. They will bring troubles to their own life and whoever that shares life with them.

It's alright to have some fun with them. But if you are looking for a serious relationship, you are in a wrong department, my friend.

My advice is: go enjoy the "love", the "romance",... whatever you wanna call it. When the time is up, just back off and get another chicken as your new "girlfriend". :D

Every time I see a man making a chicken his girlfriend, I feel like they are playing with firecrackers. It's dangerous but it's fun.

How not to get yourself hurt is up to how soon you throw the firecrackers out of your hand after you lit it. :o

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The best way is to find another target.

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I ever dated a FL in those "barber shop" in China, it is like the cheapest place to find sex and you get the see the girl before you book.

You enter a secret room behind the shop for a RMB100 quickie, or bring the girl to your hotel for overnight at RMB300.

One night, I found an innocent looking young girl with a body to die for in those barber shop, which is really a rare find because girls end up there is of lowest quality or need $$ urgently. She told me it was her first day of work (which i don't believe at first, because every FL will say that they are fresh in the trade) and I was the 3rd customer of that day.

We exchange contact so that I can book her directly in future, and later i found out that what she said is true after google her name and address. She used to run a business which failed, that's why she got to sell her body and repay debt. She quit FL after 2 weeks as she found a decent job. However, I still continue to meet her overnight for sex, and pay her as usual because she need money.

Few months later, she stopped accepting my money, because she said she fallen in love with me. We even met her family for meals and I was introduced as her friend. She knows that I will never accept her as gf because of her past, but we still continue to meet and have sex until I came back to Singapore for good.

We still keep in contact after 8 years, never had any bf since then and started another business. I know that she needs money because her mum fall sick and business not doing well, but she never ask me for $$ and told me she will never go back to do FL.

She is still waiting for me to return after 8 years!! so guilty and confused now...:(

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I used to date a FL before as well, it started off as just meeting once or twice a month and she was really cute and easy to talk to.
One particular meet up I was hungry afterwards so I asked if she wanted to go eat, from that time onwards whenever we met up I would bring her to go eat outside and treat her to food.
Things continued a a month or two like that then I noticed a change in her behavior and eventually she refused to take money from me, admitting she had feelings for me.
We started to meet more regularly after that but she continued meeting other men outside as she needed the money and I was in no position to settle all her debts or spending needs.
We eventually ended, she lost feelings for me and we became friends.
We still meet occasionally every few months to eat and we text to check up on one another once in awhile.
She is still working at the moment in this trade but has stopped advertising as she has a few regulars she keeps to now.

Her mentality was that since we were close friends, I couldn't pay her to fuck me anymore, nor would she as she said it was weird to be fucking her friend. Plus if I did insist, I we wouldn't be friends anymore and she would cut off contact with me. Damn weird.

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Iam currently writing a story of a FL and this is her perspective: keep romance and work/play separate. Whether you are fl or a customer, romance should never come into areas where you work or where you play. If you get them mix up, there will be hell to pay. The emotional baggage is enough to torment you. Please remember: Its better to be alone and lonely than to be embroiled in the complex relationship with a FL or the customer. It’s like fire. Why play with fire when you know it can burn you? But humans are like that: we tend to gravitate towards danger zones for it excite us..

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Can share her contact with me so I can book her n find out why u have fallen for her ?

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Can share her contact please ?

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Can share her contact with me so I can go contribute to her wallet and spearm bank please ?

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She's not meeting anyone else new anymore. But thanks for the interest :)

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Her mentality was that since we were close friends, I couldn't pay her to fuck me anymore, nor would she as she said it was weird to be fucking her friend. Plus if I did insist, I we wouldn't be friends anymore and she would cut off contact with me. Damn weird.[/QUOTE]

Guessed different MLs have different definitions of friends. Some will reject sex from customers they sees as friends because of the weird feeling to F a friend. Others still continue to allow but still accepts $$ from their so call friend customers.


So, imagine customers became friends with ML still need to pay for FJ also. There are also some MLs who sees customers as friends and ask them to buy them stuffs like phones , tablets etc.

Enjoy the friendship moments cos we won’t know when it would change