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Originally Posted by dessertboy
All agreed, some extra input for point 2. Not 100% read minds, but to an extend we can read gestures, behaviours, words used etc
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The insignificant nobody thanks you for agreeing with me, but one MUST be careful on reading gestures, behaviours, words used, etc.
Most Humans are only honest folks seeking honest means to achieve their goals in life, & thus such as you suggested are a means to know a person, as a friend or a partner in life.
Unfortunately, there are others whom out of greed or lust, WILL KNOW of such TECHNIQUES & twist it for their own personal gains, in this day & age of widespread social media sharing of knowledge, Do their HOMEWORK, & lay plans to snare victims, be it for financial gain or for one's heart.
In the financial world, due diligence - the thorough study of an investment - properties or stocks, will have to be done either by lawyers or oneself before one puts one's life savings into it, & often based upon 5 yrs of the stock performances.
In the arena for one's heart, the average time of courtship is often 3 yrs, to really know a person, before committing to a life long relationship.
Evil intentions & scams are for short term gains, & its failure is the lack of ability to sustain long term. Humans can be fooled for 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 yr by outworldly forms & appearances..but never for the long term, as no Human is perfect, & only with flaws/lies, with more lies to cover up, becomes evident within months if not within weeks.
Thus, take time to know a person well. There is no such thing as love at 1st sight. As the saying goes - anything that is too good to be true, usually is..
Also, never fear if one loses an opportunity in love, even in life aspects. Love will always set one free, & if it is true, it will return back to you. If it is not true love, then nothing is lost, as the one that went away is not the sustainable true love you desired for....