Why is it so hard to understand girl???

soulblader · #1 22-06-2011, 11:13 AM

Everytime I want to ask a girl out she say not free...

How can we understand each other when we don't get together?
and if we don't understand each other, how can we be together?

like that I am walking in circle..

sick of talking in sms and msn...

maninsinsha · #2 22-06-2011, 11:27 AM

All I can say is: She's NOT into you... Move on...

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #3 22-06-2011, 12:01 PM

That's the thing with people nowadays. Too much msn and sms. Just pick up the phone and call her!!!!
Not free today, tomorrow then ask her when? Next week, next month? Let her know that she's worth the wait without pressuring her. No EMO. Make the date!

If she asked you: Why you want to ask me out? Don't ever say you love to hang out with her, that's all. Just be your cute self!

alan0338 · #4 22-06-2011, 12:03 PM

ang mor way mata will tell u, make more $$$$ and let the tables turn around, let the gals understand u rather than u go and understand the gals.

p/s sometimes some gals just cant click with u, then its time to change target ..

guruking · #5 22-06-2011, 01:46 PM

There is no way to understand a gal/lady/woman...they are from another planet

Ah he · #6 22-06-2011, 03:58 PM

Is like that 1 bro. In BGR girl zha fit
Married life , we guy zha fit.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #7 22-06-2011, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Ah he

Is like that 1 bro. In BGR girl zha fit
Married life , we guy zha fit.

Let me translate "Zha-Fit" meaning In Control or Dorminant

But also need to be careful, if during BGR, the guy is a submissive guy, being controlled and bullied into marriage then after marriage, the girl will be "Zha- Fit" and the guy will "Zha-Lan"

(Note: Zha Lan = Squeeze balls). Must also keep separate hidden bank acounts and don't let the wife to Zha-$$$$ if not you will have no $$$$ to go HFJ/KTV to Zha-Nin (Squeeze boobs). In the event of any divorce and woman charter, then you "Zha" also don't have (Nothing left)

soulblader · #8 22-06-2011, 05:05 PM

What shld I do...stop after reject, or keep on continue?

arsenal_84 · #9 22-06-2011, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by alan0338

p/s sometimes some gals just cant click with u, then its time to change target ..

not forgetting, if in normal sms/msn conversations can argue already, chances are, these type of girls will be hard to click with even in real-time conversations.
when viewpoints are different as friends, is going to be hard to progress to couple stage.

see see only · #10 22-06-2011, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Ah he

Is like that 1 bro. In BGR girl zha fit
Married life , we guy zha fit.

Wahahaha

If one guy, both cases the girl zha fit ..... then that guy is a potential big time failure .... si bo

BTW TS,

I guess it is harder to understand why some guys just dont get it ... if the girls reject your date, - have their reasons for it, be it timing - just got a new bf, be it that she is not short of date partners, be it she not comfortable, be it your writing style did not interest her, be it anything ..... BUT very likely she dont like you

Anyway just keep her in your contact list, once a while ask ask and wait for the right timing.

BTW school holiday si bo ????

darren69 · #11 22-06-2011, 05:42 PM

Does anyone notice TS is asking a lot of questions ?

dylanchow · #12 22-06-2011, 10:26 PM

Just tried but dont tried too hard.
Make your own call. If really difficult...dont waste your time....if you got it...it probably wont last long

If the girl like you. very fast on liao. no need so many pattern

Ah he · #13 22-06-2011, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by see see only

Wahahaha

If one guy, both cases the girl zha fit ..... then that guy is a potential big time failure .... si bo

Yah agree with u . But nowdays got such guy meh ? Lan lan suck thumb under girl command ? 20 years ago maybe have...

see see only · #14 23-06-2011, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Ah he

Yah agree with u . But nowdays got such guy meh ? Lan lan suck thumb under girl command ? 20 years ago maybe have...

Toooooooo many such guys to mention

No see does not mean no have ....

Hahaha i was once a useless and a failure too until she divorced me when i almost brankrupt

So now me inssist to zha fit in all cases

.... the most stay single wont die .......

RealEstateGuy · #15 23-06-2011, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by soulblader

Everytime I want to ask a girl out she say not free...

How can we understand each other when we don't get together?
and if we don't understand each other, how can we be together?

like that I am walking in circle..

sick of talking in sms and msn...

Brother, you are not alpha enough to capture a woman. Basically you need to flirt but dont ask her out. Get her to think she is not at your level. She will throw hints for you to ask her out. Then you just say I have some time if you wnat to join me or I will be there at say 5 to 6 for dinner and you can have dinner with me. Imply that there are lots of other woman desiring to go out with you and she should get on your schedule to have a chance at romance. Other way is to have the confidence to just say we are going. Women llike confidence not some twit scared to ask her out.