FB woes again

[BackstageBambi]

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

He treat you as a fuck toy, therefore doesn't need to entertain your emo feelings.

You said you are not interested in him and he is also your fuck toy, then why emo.

Everyone is interested in fuck only, nobody has time to entertain anyone's emo

[candle2000]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Hey itÂ’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasnÂ’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / wonÂ’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as IÂ’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

HeÂ’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then itÂ’s the main action.

Basically itÂ’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him IÂ’m tired carrying on with him when thereÂ’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesnÂ’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Maybe both of you being together for some time and he lost the spark when he first knew you.

You probably want to try making love instead of just having sex and you not being orgasm during the copulation.

You need to warn him if he continue this way, you leave him.

Tell him that " A pussy in hand is worth a thousand walking in the streets".
He would probable improve the next time both of you copulate.

[Bigbluebird]

Then move on, get a new FB that satisfies you and him together. It's not rocket science nor do you need a PhD and a big group of Samsters to tell you what you need to do next. Unless you are advertising out to potential suitors here with all your criteria listed.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by sbwow

He treat you as a fuck toy, therefore doesn't need to entertain your emo feelings.

You said you are not interested in him and he is also your fuck toy, then why emo.

Everyone is interested in fuck only, nobody has time to entertain anyone's emo

Just need a place to rant that’s all. I understand how the game is played.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by Bigbluebird

Then move on, get a new FB that satisfies you and him together. It's not rocket science nor do you need a PhD and a big group of Samsters to tell you what you need to do next. Unless you are advertising out to potential suitors here with all your criteria listed.

Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

[Bigbluebird]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

Glad you got it. We have no answers for you here except guesses and speculations. I do hope you get the right FB that puts both you and his needs together as a priority

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

In case you are looking for new fb. I can fuck you like it’s the end of the world and still care for you as a buddy. Pm me if you are interested.

[xxFTOxx]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

U are missing the emotional connection that’s all. U want bf material without the commitment…so many guys here will jump to this opportunity. U just have to look ard. Remember it’s FB, fuck and go. If u want ur needs to be fulfilled, look for a proper bf. But remember, what’s the reason u are still with him? Maybe subconsciously u like the way he treats u? I may be wrong

[Tai_zi21]

My suggestion is

Time to find a new FB

Wish u luck cheers

[Jjcoolidge]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Hey bambi, you're not emo. We all have our wants and needs. FB types are as varied as there are people on earth. What you need is not what he is willing to give. Why continue if there is no meeting of minds?

[larue]

You must enjoy being abused since you keep asking for it.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by xxFTOxx

U are missing the emotional connection that’s all. U want bf material without the commitment…so many guys here will jump to this opportunity. U just have to look ard. Remember it’s FB, fuck and go. If u want ur needs to be fulfilled, look for a proper bf. But remember, what’s the reason u are still with him? Maybe subconsciously u like the way he treats u? I may be wrong

I guess I’m just tired of the current dom sub kink.
I’m just looking for a more sensual experience but I just know I probably won’t get it from this guy. For now, I’m still sucking things up as there are other positive factors like physical compatibility and ease of meeting him. Which makes me kinda conflicted.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by Jjcoolidge

Hey bambi, you're not emo. We all have our wants and needs. FB types are as varied as there are people on earth. What you need is not what he is willing to give. Why continue if there is no meeting of minds?

You hit the nail on the head.
there are some other factors - I do like the way he fucks me and physically, we are compatible, plus proximity, we stay quite near each other so when it comes to meeting up, it’s easy) that’s why I’m reluctant to give up now. I don’t know.

[wildpig69]

Not a expert here.... But it seems to me, your FB is not the more mature type.
I just felt that if you have a more mature FB, he should be more willing to listen to your needs. Takes to hand to clap....
Pls hor, i just input a bit of uncle thinking....
Really wish i have such FB like u that is so considerate...