Married Bros Do You Pay For Everything?

[BatamBro]

Just wondering if the new generation of bros still pay for everything or have joint bank account with wife? Is it still the man provides for everything and the lady uses her salary for the bags and shopping?

Guys with foreigner wifes, I've heard stories that they have to help send back home money every month, is that also common or just depending on what kind of foreigner wife you married to?

For me, I'm married to a Malaysian Mix Dubai girl, so she's the rich one mostly tanking her own things while I tank our house, car and makan

[bendadick]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

Just wondering if the new generation of bros still pay for everything or have joint bank account with wife? Is it still the man provides for everything and the lady uses her salary for the bags and shopping?

Guys with foreigner wifes, I've heard stories that they have to help send back home money every month, is that also common or just depending on what kind of foreigner wife you married to?

For me, I'm married to a Malaysian Mix Dubai girl, so she's the rich one mostly tanking her own things while I tank our house, car and makan

various factors for me.

is she working, what is lifestyle we want? this affects expenditure. house size holiday type of car, domestic helper or not, etc.

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by bendadick

various factors for me.

is she working, what is lifestyle we want? this affects expenditure. house size holiday type of car, domestic helper or not, etc.

So for your current situation hows it like?

[S i l v i a]

Foreign wife, housewife, monthly I gave her $1500, how she spend up to her including how much she want to send back her own family.

Aku tank everything, house, car, kids, makan, marketing etc

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by S i l v i a

Foreign wife, housewife, monthly I gave her $1500, how she spend up to her including how much she want to send back her own family.

Aku tank everything, house, car, kids, makan, marketing etc

wow how much do you need to earn per month to give wife 1.5k?

[papanapa]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

So for your current situation hows it like?

dont know about his but my current situation is hdb wife work i work, expenditure we share approximately 50% 50%.

now dual income hard to husband work wife at home unless husband earn alot

[kujo86]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

Just wondering if the new generation of bros still pay for everything or have joint bank account with wife? Is it still the man provides for everything and the lady uses her salary for the bags and shopping?

Guys with foreigner wifes, I've heard stories that they have to help send back home money every month, is that also common or just depending on what kind of foreigner wife you married to?

For me, I'm married to a Malaysian Mix Dubai girl, so she's the rich one mostly tanking her own things while I tank our house, car and makan

I would measure based on expenditure. If I can afford it all, then I will pay all. If cannot, then the partner will help. If partner want to be stay home wife, then will need to accept whatever living standard my income can afford.

Basically, my income to pay for expenditure is the first priority. (Of course not use up all until i no money for myself), and not enough then wife help.

[bsicassecd]

Originally Posted by kujo86

If I can afford it all, then I will pay all. If cannot, then the partner will help. If partner want to be stay home wife, then will need to accept whatever living standard my income can afford.

i agree with this one

[bendadick]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

So for your current situation hows it like?

previously ? stay tgt with ex gf, she does house work i work n pay almost everything. she got some online sales stuff so her personal stuff she pay herself.

[BreakingZero]

I split 50/50 with the Madam except for housing since I paid it in full.

[ALSS74]

Not married already paying 100%.

That the facts in singapore.

Guys forever lose out

[larue]

Originally Posted by ALSS74

Not married already paying 100%.

That the facts in singapore.

Guys forever lose out

Don't blame something or someone else for the choice/s you make.

[manymanee]

Originally Posted by larue

Don't blame something or someone else for the choice/s you make.

yes i agree. you can choose not to pay.

[freezetheDB]

tank everything as much as I can

[superlibido]

Originally Posted by freezetheDB

tank everything as much as I can

your partner not working ?

for me if partner working then must share. not need exactly 50 / 50 i can pay more

however i do not believe in the ladies bullshit my money our money her money her money. my money is my money.