Vietnamese WL

[Antony wong]

Hi maybe i left out some information , before she come singapore we have already agreed that i would not be giving her $2k since she is coming back working.

The first day she step in singapore i told her that i will still support her a bit ask her don need to worry not meeting her sales quota.

To be frank she know that so far from day one we met i have never give her any empty promise, so she have alot of confident in me also.

She told me not to buy any expensive gifts to her anymore , she say she can ask customers to buy because feel i spend too much money on her and she heart pain . SHe say other customer want buy her buy don want also never mind.

I am also controling my money on her because i want to observe her also . As for now i choose to believe her because if i don trust her i rather STOP NOW.

Yesterday she told me if you don trust me you look for singapore girl don find me because you also know i Working . Ya like all bro mention earlier from day 1 i already know she working and this is her job if i want a relantionship with her i have to accept and believe her.

yesterday i was with her best friend and best friend BF , We really talk alot of things like gg out together and next week meeting their another viet good friend and husband .

Let's see whether we can work out , like what you guys mention what is mine will be mine. Thank you all for reading and advising me , i agree with some bro i cheong for 6 yr plus but never put KC in it this is the 1st time i did and i am cueless on what to do and whether to believe or not to believe .

[Antony wong]

Originally Posted by shysaint

It not a problem for the guy to give 2K ... But slowly it will be a problem for the gal because soon 2k will not be enough and will look for a bigger kill ...

Share my buddy case:

My friend have been supprting this VB for 1 yr plus .. every mth about 1k and also support her bro uni education .. not less and not alot ... but then she is a high earner in J51 and M51 ... recently .. a more loaded guy comes into her life (yes very loaded, owns a company, lives in semi-D .. can afford to take drugs) ..never works most of the time when in Sg. when she goes back, he offered her 5k a month to stay in Vn and dun come back here work .. brought her a honda shark which cost about usd 10k ... bring her to thailand tour , bring her to macau tour ... ultimately got pregnant and then final choice of marry him instead of my friend ....all this while , this ger has been keeping my buddy as spare tire in case when time is up and can't find one, she will marries my buddy ...... All in all the time spam for the whole ordeal does not exceeds 6 mths.

So Bro ANthony ... Don't ever think that your 2k is Big F ... since u can afford, yes it a good thing .. what u need most now is to treat her exceptional good that she willing to marry you now and pls dun think your 2k can make wonders ... in normal playground .. 2k is nothing .....

Bro thanks for sharing the story , i also know $2k is not big fuck they will alway be bigger player . My girl told me last time there is a good customer support her with load of money every month for 6 month but my girl choose to leave because the guy is a marry man and also no true feeling to her she say she don want trouble and also know that the guy will alway look for others girl and cannot give her future,

She alway told me that she know customers mind set more than me , She told me last time she also wanna give it a try on me since i am good to her and alway say what i do . She told me don need too rich because rich man no heart and will look for others girl after marry . Money ok can already can stay in small house and take care her and love her she will be happy .

She envy her Viet good friend who marry in singapore and husband took care her very well . She told me they don live big house don drive good car but still happliy together.

She say she really cannot marry me now, because of family reason. She don wanna share with me any detail but she say on a few time she really want but after considering awhile really cannot . Her whole family only depend on her , Big sister no working because in vietnam got Bf cannot work , 2 sister still so young (18 and 14) cannot make money to support family . Only she can work to help .

[Antony wong]

I would like to share my friend story too which he told me in the KTV session.

She met this viet girl in (cannot mention the pub), and after knowing her for a few months my friend fall in love with her .

This viet girl also have feeling for my friends but she know that my friend is marry man and can not give her anything .

When we go to pub , the girl will alway sit with my friends for very long and just go to others customers for maybe 5-10 min. My friends don tips her as he also support her but my friend don support her much .

My friends know many people in the places (I mean really many people there because of some reason ) . When customers jio the girl for st or ov the girl will reject them even some offer good prices . When my friend was there she would tell all her customer, boyfriend is here or boyfriend come already cannot go ST or ON. How my firend know is becasue some of the customer offer her are my friend friends . they told my friend this girl told everybody she have a good boyfriend . The people working there and staffs are close friend with my friend so they are can prove.

So basically all regular customer know that my friend is her bf but still sit with her but of course tips are not alot . the girl still manage to earn $4000 to $5000 avg. this goes on for 3 years.

few month ago they are no longer together . i ask my friend what happen he do not want to share with us his cases. All of ours friend share the same idea sure the girl cheat my friend or new bf already .

yesterday we are in KTV he know that i kana already so he told me , some time have to trust and he told me he left the girl not the girl cheat him or wrong to him . Is because my friend wife very good to him and have deliever twin children to him and he don want to carry on and break up his family . He say he feel sad but he already marry , he told me i diff because i single and can give her future.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Antony wong

Big sister no working because in vietnam got Bf cannot work , 2 sister still so young (18 and 14) cannot make money to support family . Only she can work to help .

In VN got bf liao cannot work?!? 1st time hearing this, thought it is got bf must work to give bf $$. 18 cannot go work? If they wan, 13, 14 also can start working. My bxa told me she 12 go work liao. My wife's nephew now 17 already working a yr liao. Youngters in VN go work young, not like singkie youngters still can go watch movie, go disco, enjoy life.

Bro u said u trust her 50%, from the looks of it i say yur 50% used to trust the wrong things.... Really bo tay.

[Antony wong]

Originally Posted by vietboy

In VN got bf liao cannot work?!? 1st time hearing this, thought it is got bf must work to give bf $$. 18 cannot go work? If they wan, 13, 14 also can start working. My bxa told me she 12 go work liao. My wife's nephew now 17 already working a yr liao. Youngters in VN go work young, not like singkie youngters still can go watch movie, go disco, enjoy life.

Bro u said u trust her 50%, from the looks of it i say yur 50% used to trust the wrong things.... Really bo tay.

For this I got say her many time before also , I say your whole family cannot depend on her alone, I told her not fair . She told me she also know her big sister can work but bf don allow her because he got support her too but not alot. She told me she that period have no bf and best friend ask her to come so she come with her. The 3Rd sister is working and studying but she don want her sister tired and money little so she ask her to focus on studies.

I told her your sister all shaking leg at home waiting for you to support the whole family but next time who will take care you when you are old and unable to work anymore, her reply you don understand Vietnamese, family important others thing next time than say.

She always told me she don expect to really have the chance to marry a good Singapore man because all guy who cheong are no good man. She say when she earn enough come back find Vietnam boy lo.

I every time tell her think for yourself think for yourself and when I am in Vietnam before I keep saying and she did think before because she ask me you really want marry me or not ? I told her yes , she ask me many thing like Marry stay where and other stuffs. I away told her if you think I lie to you ,tomorrow we go register together .

After a few month I always say and do what I promise her that why what I told her she always believe Me. I one thing also never lie to her. I even told her at first I just wanna bed her, but now really serious about her and wanna be together.

[Antony wong]

After this few days I really think I have no right to suspect her doing anything wrong to me for this moment because every night she after work she is with me till ard 4am and we meet in the afternoon 4pm to 5pm for dinner daily .

She always collect her tips very early because she wanna spend many time with me and she told me she no heart to work also.

Just like what some bro mention , Maybe not all wl are no heart they know who is true and who is fake . When they like somebody their heart are really with them.

End of the day just stay positive but also cannot love blindly , we would know in the future . We are very happy at the moment because we communicate more than before.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Antony wong

I know with the $2000 i top up a bit more can have a great car. All man like owns a good car but now also cannot drive and have to take lesson again . damn sianz. (TO ALL BRO HERE;Please when you want go out cheong never drive beacause you will not know what will happen on the day).

Even i got my licene back i might or might not buy car again as i stay in centrel area and Car really waste money . I rather take cab because sometime also drive till sianz rather be a passager than driver.

Lame reason.... i am not 13 years old......

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Antony wong

After this few days I really think I have no right to suspect her doing anything wrong to me for this moment because every night she after work she is with me till ard 4am and we meet in the afternoon 4pm to 5pm for dinner daily .

Just like what some bro mention , Maybe not all wl are no heart they know who is true and who is fake . When they like somebody their heart are really with them.

anyway...good luck to u...always remember u have a long way to go...guarantee your ride will be full of turbulent...life is never a bed of roses...just keep us updated...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Antony wong

I would like to share my friend story too which he told me in the KTV session. ....

I wanted to share yesterday after this post but I deleted ... wanna saves my breath ... but then after what u post today ... sighzzzz .. must comment abit , so free nothing to do .. hahahha

To me , u operates based on stories u heard and told to u ... I seriously not sure how much are u into vietnam and its cultures . I can guessed you simply do not understand how vietnamese think ... and whats their cultures ... what is MOST valuable to them ... how is their lifestyle .. reasons why things are done this way and not way .. and etc ....

Originally Posted by Antony wong

I every time tell her think for yourself think for yourself

That's why I said you DON'T understand Vietnamese ..... (Please don't try to argue and proof otherwise ... I & the bros here know what you will do after reading this remarks)

Its not that they do not want to think about themself , they have their committment and prioritisation ... I can tell you .. they can even asked u to F**ked off if their family are being compromised .. don't think u are her bf and/or husband .. every mth give a x number of $$$ .. u will be her no.1.

Originally Posted by Antony wong

... she ask me many thing like Marry stay where and other stuffs.

YEs ,, she will ask ...

Just to tell u that :

1. she is not concern about the $$$ ...
2. she is not concern about your love for her ...
3. she is not concern about u f**king around with other woman ..

Her main concern is that after marrying and stays in Singapore ... she CANNOT help & take care her family back on Vietnam ...

THats why I said ... YOU still DON"T UNDERSTAND VIETNAMESE & THEIR CULTURES ....

Based on your posts .. I can only WisH you Good Luck ... WIll stay tune here for your progress is you are still hre to shares.

[SingViet]

A PM to me from mr wong, and my reply :

Originally Posted by Antony wong

bro , send me your private e mail address? i want to send you my court orders . I don like ppl frame me .

but you cannot disclose my personal information .

I write in the forum is to ask for advise and not coming out with stories to attrach attention or whatever reason.

I don mind you comment me on anything but don't like people not beliving me.

I think if you want others to believe you, stop bragging about that 2k thingy. You are only 28 years old, how much can you earn a month to give that gal 2k ? No need to eat and drink huh ? Its too typical for young chaps to brag in the forum. Have you bought a house since you are so rich ? Please la, there are plentiful of experienced bros in the forum that can see thru your brag. Give us a break.

[SingViet]

40% of salary = 2k
So 100% of salary ( after deducting 20% CPF ) = 5k ( not sure if my maths pass)

If add another 20% before deducting CPF = $6k.

Wah, what are you working as ? 28 years old can have salary of 6k a month

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by SingViet

40% of salary = 2k
So 100% of salary ( after deducting 20% CPF ) = 5k ( not sure if my maths pass)

If add another 20% before deducting CPF = $6k.

Wah, what are you working as ? 28 years old can have salary of 6k a month

I 28 years old earn $1k only with poly diploma.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

You are only 28 years old, how much can you earn a month to give that gal 2k ?

YEs Possible ... AH Long or Ah Long Runner loh ... Collect 4Ds .. Collect ToTos ... Collect $$$ ... Collects footballs bettings loh ...

This is what I think of him

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Hope next time got chance to meet again. But dunno when.

U can arrange with your bx to get weekly off-pass.

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by SingViet

40% of salary = 2k
So 100% of salary ( after deducting 20% CPF ) = 5k ( not sure if my maths pass)

If add another 20% before deducting CPF = $6k.

Wah, what are you working as ? 28 years old can have salary of 6k a month

Lucky I 30 liao...