Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1477

LOTR3 · #**22141** 27-01-2015, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

back in 1985...my ex-colleague a delivery driver earned basic salary $1,200 and after OT around $1,500 per month...those days CPF 25% deduction...he just married and starting to have kids...wife working earns around $ 800 per month...so depends on your expectation...and the type of livelihood you want...

you are correct to worry about all these...then again...why worry...

Yeah. Will be frank with her on the type of livelihood with me at $inkapore. Will post here in future when i need advice.
Thanks guys

xiaoqiang · #**22142** 27-01-2015, 02:14 PM

I work as a courier man too

Basic 1.5 + ot ard 8xx + incentive ard 7xx-1k.

After cpf, take home ard 2.5. Didn't send $ over vn mthly, and when I sent some, it's ard 200-500 sgd only. Wife giving birth anytime from now so I ask my wife to tell my in laws. They are ok with it. I feel that outta rest there will be a handful good if not better one. It's really depend on how u take care of her and her family in order for u to gain respect from them.

naemlo · #**22143** 27-01-2015, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by LOTR3

贫贱夫妻百事哀
Thats why i hesitate to start a family.

It is how u live after marriage life... Does not mean poor cannot marry.

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Originally Posted by milfmilf

can hire her as maid?

Dun think VN is in the list of approved maid.

oreochcolate · #**22144** 27-01-2015, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by xiaoqiang

I work as a courier man too

Basic 1.5 + ot ard 8xx + incentive ard 7xx-1k.

After cpf, take home ard 2.5. Didn't send $ over vn mthly, and when I sent some, it's ard 200-500 sgd only. Wife giving birth anytime from now so I ask my wife to tell my in laws. They are ok with it. I feel that outta rest there will be a handful good if not better one. It's really depend on how u take care of her and her family in order for u to gain respect from them.

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Originally Posted by naemlo

It is how u live after marriage life... Does not mean poor cannot marry.

And doesn't mean rich sure can marry also. Envy bro Xiaoqiang for finding a wife to share his life with. Go through thick and thin. This kind of wife, hard to come by, even more rare in Singapore.

curious76 · #**22145** 27-01-2015, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by xiaoqiang

I work as a courier man too

Basic 1.5 + ot ard 8xx + incentive ard 7xx-1k.

After cpf, take home ard 2.5. Didn't send $ over vn mthly, and when I sent some, it's ard 200-500 sgd only. Wife giving birth anytime from now so I ask my wife to tell my in laws. They are ok with it. I feel that outta rest there will be a handful good if not better one. It's really depend on how u take care of her and her family in order for u to gain respect from them.

I really envy that you find such a good wife..

devilcheong · #**22146** 27-01-2015, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by xiaoqiang

I work as a courier man too

Basic 1.5 + ot ard 8xx + incentive ard 7xx-1k.

After cpf, take home ard 2.5. Didn't send $ over vn mthly, and when I sent some, it's ard 200-500 sgd only. Wife giving birth anytime from now so I ask my wife to tell my in laws. They are ok with it. I feel that outta rest there will be a handful good if not better one. It's really depend on how u take care of her and her family in order for u to gain respect from them.

Congratulations bro xiaoqiang for your newborn child soon.. I think you have done good deeds and God repays you with a wonderful wife and child

Better take good care and treasure them n do not stray after if itchy ya... God bless

SureScore · #**22147** 27-01-2015, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by LOTR3

Yeah. Will be frank with her on the type of livelihood with me at $inkapore.

Brain wash her mind.

shctaw · #**22148** 27-01-2015, 07:08 PM

Congratulation.

Try not to get your baby a passport too early.

My brother has a Thai Wife. Only allow her to apply passport after kid is 3 years old. If in law want to see, please come to Singapore.

Now kid is 5. Passport not kept with the wife.

Son 13, mother hold son passport. Recently she when back to Thailand, the son don't even want to go. Because hot and nothing much to do.

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Originally Posted by xiaoqiang

Wife giving birth anytime from now so I ask my wife to tell my in laws. They are ok with it. I feel that outta rest there will be a handful good if not better one. It's really depend on how u take care of her and her family in order for u to gain respect from them.

milfmilf · #**22149** 27-01-2015, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by xiaoqiang

I work as a courier man too

Basic 1.5 + ot ard 8xx + incentive ard 7xx-1k.

After cpf, take home ard 2.5. Didn't send $ over vn mthly, and when I sent some, it's ard 200-500 sgd only. Wife giving birth anytime from now so I ask my wife to tell my in laws. They are ok with it. I feel that outta rest there will be a handful good if not better one. It's really depend on how u take care of her and her family in order for u to gain respect from them.

so wife family can take care of her expenses?

becks2307 · #**22150** 27-01-2015, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

my advice to you...dun over exert yourself and over-do anything...you are typical sinkees that goes for VB...pls read my posts here if you are trying to go for long distance relationship here...think long haul...and if you cannot go long haul then better make exit plans...had mentioned many times that VBs are not for weak hearted...so better beware...

yeah VBs really not for weak hearted....sometimes don't know whether to trust them or not....

I see some of the girls can have many stand by bfs...

devilcheong · #**22151** 27-01-2015, 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by becks2307

yeah VBs really not for weak hearted....sometimes don't know whether to trust them or not....

I see some of the girls can have many stand by bfs...

Those vbs whom have many standby bfs usually have some qualities in terms of looks and figures

and... they only choose those very potential ones with certain $$$$$ as well

Those normal looking ones may have but limited choices..

becks2307 · #**22152** 27-01-2015, 11:43 PM

hahaha sadly I only go for those with looks and figures....so am I playing with fire?

devilcheong · #**22153** 28-01-2015, 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by becks2307

hahaha sadly I only go for those with looks and figures....so am I playing with fire?

You have to be aware that you can choose them, they also can choose around since they have certain advantages of looks and figures.. but also depends on where u get the those VBs.. hopefully not those wl and fl.. also on their educational backgrounds and upbringing.. Every relationship needs time and experience to understand each others.. if u really needs help here, please do not deceived yourself by keeping mum abt your vb background and be truthful.. surely lots of experience bros here would give u valuable advise and its up to you to accept or not.. if you really take this seriously , you should read this thread from page 1 like I did previously

u will learn more than you expected you'll be.. this is a very good thread to gain and learn precious experience and VB essence

xiaoqiang · #**22154** 28-01-2015, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by milfmilf

so wife family can take care of her expenses?

My mother in law is in sg now standing by to tk care of
My wife when she give birth. Meanwhile my father in law and little brother in law is in viet. They are able to survive from the resource my wife sent home when she's working.

xiaoqiang · #**22155** 28-01-2015, 12:36 AM

As for passport wise, why not to and it when the baby is young, give them a chance to see how her mother and granny life in Vietnam, so that she will appreciate things in life.

Thank you everyone for your blessing. Cny is ard the corner, hence wishes all bro here strike toto 4D or huat ah~😁