Ladies what would be worse your husband visiting a prostitute or having an affair? - Page 2

papp · #16 17-05-2010, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

visiting pros - paid transaction...fuck and go

affair - feelings involve....risk of losing hubby to the 3rd party if one does not play the game well

homo act - feelings involve....ok its god damn gross

which do u think i will choose?

u choose all, so do I and most of the bros here

shawn1999 · #17 19-05-2010, 12:56 AM

ya totally agree bro.anyway why make so much commitment in an affair ...as long as know how to go back home and be a dutiful husband of cos smart wife or gf also need to close one eye lah man always have physical needs and urges in trying new stuff...but there is only physical contacts....no love involving..only that kind of guys never cheong before in their younger days than will fall in love so easily or so call kana cheated by women...

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Originally Posted by queey

This may be a hot question as we have Mr Woods and Mr Neo who were involved in the recent scandals. Not sure if we have many ladies here but would like to hear their point of view. As a man here I think visiting a prostitute is slightly better as feelings and emotion are not involved as compared to having an affair. I know there are many men who eat outside..but end of day they still maintained a happy family, but how do ladies think?

queey · #18 19-05-2010, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by shawn1999

ya totally agree bro.anyway why make so much commitment in an affair ...as long as know how to go back home and be a dutiful husband of cos smart wife or gf also need to close one eye lah man always have physical needs and urges in trying new stuff...but there is only physical contacts....no love involving..only that kind of guys never cheong before in their younger days than will fall in love so easily or so call kana cheated by women...

Yeah but at the end of the day some marriage fails due to husband eating outside. Was just pondering it could be worst if its and affair but visiting FL or Pros sounds common and do their wives knows about it but keep an eye closed? To save the marriage?

#19 19-05-2010, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by queey

Yeah but at the end of the day some marriage fails due to husband eating outside. Was just pondering it could be worst if its and affair but visiting FL or Pros sounds common and do their wives knows about it but keep an eye closed? To save the marriage?

Believe most of the wives will select to close an eye in prostitute situation to save marriage, especially those > 40s.

a bit sad

shawn1999 · #20 20-05-2010, 02:05 AM

woman must also understand guy needs mah how can everyday eat chicken rice not sian rite...visiting FL or pros or fling outside just basically fooling around out of fun or needs. Actually to be honest as a guy even we fool outside but we must know our limit also dun go over broad... as long as you know your priority.

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Originally Posted by queey

Yeah but at the end of the day some marriage fails due to husband eating outside. Was just pondering it could be worst if its and affair but visiting FL or Pros sounds common and do their wives knows about it but keep an eye closed? To save the marriage?

shawn1999 · #21 20-05-2010, 02:09 AM

ya must see what kind of wife loh..if your wife is an successful business woman sometime they dun give a dam on such thing..might as well divorce ...ladies salvage a marriage sometime is for the kid. we guy still abit of selfishness..no choice god create us in this way. To me as long as i know my limit dun go over board will do.

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Originally Posted by NSman

Believe most of the wives will select to close an eye in prostitute situation to save marriage, especially those > 40s.

a bit sad

mivec · #22 19-10-2010, 12:05 AM

This forum got many ladies to answer this qn meh?

gigigagago · #23 19-10-2010, 02:09 AM

I think the worst is the husband call for FL then the wife appear at the doorstep.

sun814 · #24 19-10-2010, 12:49 PM

what about me? i just bedded one of my wife's best friend (the lady is a fl n married). i paid for it, the sex is fantastic n i think both are getting addicted n also attracted to each other. she says she give me the bonks FOC the next time.

My-Melody · #25 19-10-2010, 01:59 PM

I won't be able to accept both. Unless I'm not willing to satisfy his needs then visiting a prostitute is reasonable. But if I'm willing to, I can't accept him visiting.

Max77 · #26 20-10-2010, 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by silverblue

nothing is worse than knowing your husband is having an affair with.....another guy

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Originally Posted by jdi813

was about to say the same thing when i came across this thread ... nothing can ever beat your man having an affair with or running off with another guy

...somemore tat guys got AIDS and they've been fucking for a long time liao

maxman · #27 21-10-2010, 05:18 AM

Either visiting prostitutes or having an affair are bad, but I think what is worse is that the husband has lost all interest in having sex with his wife. This could due to the wife's deteriorating/aging appearance or unexciting sex acts, or both.

happyfamily · #28 21-10-2010, 01:15 PM

i feel that having a affair is worse then calling a pros.

Schenker · #29 21-10-2010, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by queey

Ladies what would be worse your husband visiting a prostitute or having an affair?

Both are wrong, equally or not, it's subjective depends on the guys' defense.

From the woman's view, once her man's dick is into another CB other than hers, it's unforgiven. Regardless of what excuses given.

Put it another way, what if you have discovered that your girl is being shacked by his good-old-time-ex-boyfrd, during one innocent meet-up, or she is being fucked by different guys during different ONS episodes?

Which is worse, or rather which is more forgiving by you?

tan-tan · #30 21-10-2010, 03:29 PM

If husband run away with another man, wife can only lan lan.

If husband pays for sex outside or has affair, it will be a never ending debate. Outcomes are unlikely to be anything good. What will be left are people who are hurt, known or in silence.

I wrote this post because it reminded me of a conversation I overheard in a pub recently from a group of young executives. One claimed that his wife's colleague was hot and he had plans to bed her. Then another said his wife's sister just came back from overseas study and was very liberal. Their conversation was all plans to have sex with the people around their wives. They could be joking or serious but if things really happened, I can't imagine how their wives will take it. Likely to be worse than this thread title.

I am no saint but I choose to stay away from risky grounds.