Sexless single life - Page 3

infinitus · #31 01-01-2013, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by pakalolo

I don't mind being the chosen one

Don't worry lah... she won't choose you for sure... hahahaha

Kakilang88 · #32 01-01-2013, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by lilian85

My mail aint full but thnx to those who messages mi for encouragement.

I miss sex and i jz understand what is a TS (thread starter)

it let me ponder for a while what is it.

Im a lady well let me do some posting of myself to show u that in time.

So dont doubt me yet

dear lilian, plz show some posting to me... cheer.

Blue_gal · #33 01-01-2013, 12:41 PM

6 months only..I was SEXLESS for 7 yrss.. hahaha...since the day I left Blue Uncle....while concentrate on works...family a lot..need to move on....

But once you re READY to meet guys again..dun worry ..SEX will pick up for SURE...

SEX is like DRUG.. once u cold turkey IT ...u will not touch IT for a while.. but once U GO BACK to it... u will ask for MORE...be selective...

Have lots of FUN while u are YOUNG!! be SAFE!

Cheer!

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Originally Posted by lilian85

I am sure here isnt any agony page but discussing sexual issues wise maybe.

Anyone here does undergo experiences of a sexless single life after being seperated for almost 6 months?

Is it the urge in us died down or is it because we cant let go.

To start a sexual open life again, how moral is it anyway.

peanut123 · #34 01-01-2013, 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by fairman

I almost 1 yr wirhout sex too

. My wife keep reject me. Sign..

Then your wife is not being fair to you. When she took the marriage vows, surely she knew that keeping your gun unloaded is part of her wifely duties, just like it's yours to keep her fed and satisfied.

If she dun cook, she cannot blame you for eating outside. If she dun fuck, she also cannot blame you for seeking satisfaction elsewhere.

Rickey · #35 01-01-2013, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by peanut123

Then your wife is not being fair to you. When she took the marriage vows, surely she knew that keeping your gun unloaded is part of her wifely duties, just like it's yours to keep her fed and satisfied.

If she dun cook, she cannot blame you for eating outside. If she dun fuck, she also cannot blame you for seeking satisfaction elsewhere.

Yup, you're rite, bro peanut...But its sad tat quite a no of wifeys like tis dun tink the way u n most others do...abt being fair i.e...they wanna hv the whole cake by themselves...they wanna take but not giv back in return...dun wanna giv n yet expect u to be happy n live wif it...yes, tats selfish n inconsiderate, but there's little HBs like bro fairman can do abt tis...tats why there's so many bros everywhere having unhappy marriages..sigh...if only they 'know' TATS their wifely duty

Meow^^ · #36 01-01-2013, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Rickey

Yup, you're rite, bro peanut...But its sad tat quite a no of wifeys like tis dun tink the way u n most others do...abt being fair i.e...they wanna hv the whole cake by themselves...they wanna take but not giv back in return...dun wanna giv n yet expect u to be happy n live wif it...yes, tats selfish n inconsiderate, but there's little HBs like bro fairman can do abt tis...tats why there's so many bros everywhere having unhappy marriages..sigh...if only they 'know' TATS their wifely duty

Fulfilling the 'duty' as a wife/husband is something that is not written when couple get married as 'both' of them knew it in the back of their mind. But when the love life turned out to be just another 'normal' and not so 'exciting' journey i guess it will lead to this conclusion.

In every relationship new sparks are needed so the journey will be more exciting and adventurous. Who don't want to live happily ever after? or still holding hands strolling the streets with your love one when both are like in their golden years? There must be some miscommunication or barrel to the address problem and is the duty of both of them to sort it out.

In the end of the day, we all need someone who love us and we love and we live happily

singlicious · #37 02-01-2013, 12:20 AM

haha I've been single for 5 years alr. sexless life since then.

Rickey · #38 02-01-2013, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Meow^^

Fulfilling the 'duty' as a wife/husband is something that is not written when couple get married as 'both' of them knew it in the back of their mind. But when the love life turned out to be just another 'normal' and not so 'exciting' journey i guess it will lead to this conclusion.

In every relationship new sparks are needed so the journey will be more exciting and adventurous. Who don't want to live happily ever after? or still holding hands strolling the streets with your love one when both are like in their golden years? There must be some miscommunication or barrel to the address problem and is the duty of both of them to sort it out.

In the end of the day, we all need someone who love us and we love and we live happily

Yes, totally agree wif sis Meow too !

...when we marry, we r jus merely signing on the Marriage Certificate which is but only a small n simply designed document the state uses to legalize n make all marriages official as proof the couple are 2 but in 1...n yes, i believe we all know at the same time, there is tis unspoken or unwritten understanding tat after the wedding, the couple shd engage n continue to engage in sex as often as possible not only for their own enjoyment but maybe oso wif the hope of producing a child for themselves in a legal environment.

We hv often heard tat "new broom sweeps clean"...after the initial euphoria n happiness of the wedding, it is normal tat problems begin to set in for the couple, as they begin to deal wif real life situations tgt... tis is when another familiar phrase takes over which is "familiarity breeds contempt"...so sis meow is oso rite to say tat "new sparks" r needed to revive marriages as "wear n tear" takes its toll in the r/s wif the passing of time...n yes, she is right too tat tis is often cos of some communication breakdown between the couple.. the problem in tis case being bro fairman's wife denying him his conjugal rights by refusing him sex...thus his is a sexless marriage n we all know he is not the only 1 affected by tis problem, after reading the sharing n testimonies of so many other bros in tis forum...

yes, ideally in all comm problems, both parties must co-operate n sort the problems out between themselves...but sigh in the case of sex in marriage, quite a no of wifeys are not co-operating n are very adamant against having to continue to hv sex wif their husbands as the yrs go by as shared by so many bros in a few other threads here e.g "Wife don't like sex" n "Wife & Sex - Going th'ru the motions only" n display a "couldn't care less" attitude to their husbands esp after the arrival of the kids n towards menopause which they do not seem to realise will drive their Hbs into the arms of other women, a phenomenon which is currently staring them in their faces as well as ours...they jus simply dun see the need nor hv the urge to do so...but its still a problem tat no1 can find a solution up to now, cos its not a easy problem to solve...if only one can find a solution which finds the HBs never needing to stray frm their wives for any reason, there would be joy for all married men n women...if tat day ever comes, the world's oldest profession will oso see its demise once n for all..

Yes, sis, its human nature for us all, to want to love n be loved n live our lives happily ever after

...tats why many HBs still cannot comprehend the reasons (other than good ones like not feeling well at tat time, etc) why their wives are not willing to giv them the sex they r asking for, some even after begging for it...sigh

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Originally Posted by Blue_gal

6 months only..I was SEXLESS for 7 yrss.. hahaha...since the day I left Blue Uncle....while concentrate on works...family a lot..need to move on....

But once you re READY to meet guys again..dun worry ..SEX will pick up for SURE...

SEX is like DRUG.. once u cold turkey IT ...u will not touch IT for a while.. but once U GO BACK to it... u will ask for MORE...be selective...

Have lots of FUN while u are YOUNG!! be SAFE!

Cheer!

Very true, wat the sis said ...Good advice frm sis Blue_gal !!...TQ

LovePotion · #39 02-01-2013, 10:29 PM

yup have fun no need worry when u r still young... but nevertheless be safe and u wont regret later

pakalolo · #40 03-01-2013, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by infinitus

Don't worry lah... she won't choose you for sure... hahahaha

How you know?she's your mum? On 2nd thought I don't think so, as very unlikely she will have a pea brain brat like you as son or kateoy.However if for some unlucky reason that she is really your mum then I won't mind she is not choosing me as i don't want a pea brain brat as a step son or step kateoy!!

infinitus · #41 03-01-2013, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by pakalolo

How you know?she's your mum? On 2nd thought I don't think so, as very unlikely she will have a pea brain brat like you as son or kateoy.However if for some unlucky reason that she is really your mum then I won't mind she is not choosing me as i don't want a pea brain brat as a step son or step kateoy!!