Keeping your own pocket money

[PASSIONAETE04]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Hello pal, why so hot? SPG's economy improving rite? My pay still not improved lay. But why there's a sudden increase of carrots? I also a carrot sometimes, by gg to KTVs and stuff, keke~ but I make sure they work doubly hard for those carrots that I paid for.

Well, maybe Sin man are getting more emotional end sympathy........My experience on these PRC is to have Fun then put a full-stop to the whole episode........No string attached. Just like one Bro mention, unless you decide to divorce your wife and go for the PRC, else forget the whole thing. Why stick to one flower when there is a big Garden to explore ?

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by ct75

The next step would then to tell them not to waste money by coming to the club but have a "love affair" instead. Of course needless to say what happens next is the girls get their life savings cleared out by these ducks. Doesnt the mode of operation sound just about the same??? Ask you not to waste money go to the club so that she can devour you all by herself.....

they are actually saying the money spent on drinks and whatever, may as well be given to them...

but if all of them work in this mode of operation successfully, the club towkay will not get any regular customers.

[Big Sexy]

bro..

since u are in business... should be easier.

1. tell her u need money to invest in shares or other investment.

2. U can open another account with a different address.. no problem.. i did that..apply online banking and you can then e-transfer money to your gal account monthly

oh man.. what am i doing.. teaching my bro to cheat on the wife..

Originally Posted by hearthrob

Last month, during one of my business trip, my life was changed forever - I met a gal whom I shall named as Hui....

I've thought of opening another bank account secretly but there would be problem of where to mail the account statements


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Originally Posted by Tiger Beer

You can try the following :

1. Open different bank account (say UOB) and use your mother's house as mailing address. Salary say go into POSB account.
2. Arrange with your Finance Manager to transfer all expenses claim for car park, transport, lunch entertainment, overseas expenses etc into UOB account. When she kaypoh asks why, say to monitor all the expenses separately lor. And bring your FM to her favourite sushi bar and to "bribe" her !
3. To counter wfe question, say that expenses claim paid separately.
4. On monthly basis, transfer from UOB to POSB (amount you decide) to do your own "balancing act", to show at least there's reinbursement from company for expenses.
5. Don't get caught !!!!!!

Hope it works for you. It works very well for me. Always got spare cash to use.

Good idea and suggestion...will try it out too...OC always monitor my accounts..

keke

[ct75]

Of course the ducks dont stop only at clearing them out of their life savings. Besides its the ducks that get the commission, their bosses earn the majority of it. This duck thing is so well known in Japan that many talk shows talk about it. Even have instances of victims going in national TV and they managed to get the duck and make him confess.

Many of these girls even get tricked into becoming hostesses themselves or pros to pay their debts at the clubs.

Originally Posted by hearthrob

You see, I've been married for many years now and my wife knows the passwords to my bank accounts and internet banking. Every month she will help me settle all the bills using my account. Sometimes when she noticed I draw amount more than 200 dollars in a single transaction, she will begin her questioning or if I draw out $ too frequently, she will also "nicely" ask for the reason, cos' she knows too well the average amount of $ I had to spend every month. .

Bro,
It seems that we are in the same boat. I don't go through those hassle of having 2nd acc, etc. All I did when question is simply to tell her that I've lost in 4D, EPL, etc.
Due to such constrains, I'm only limited to cheong about 1~2 time a month. So far so good, for me.
Hopefully, it works for you.

[sdfr]

Originally Posted by hearthrob

You see, I've been married for many years now and my wife knows the passwords to my bank accounts and internet banking. Every month she will help me settle all the bills using my account. Sometimes when she noticed I draw amount more than 200 dollars in a single transaction, she will begin her questioning or if I draw out $ too frequently, she will also "nicely" ask for the reason, cos' she knows too well the average amount of $ I had to spend every month.

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it is very difficult to hide your cash flow and expenses away from ur wife if she is holding on to your passwd etc. U can squirrel away some here and there, but no way u can do it consistently.

One way i can think of is to get a new credit card, tell ur wife it's corporate card, send all bills to your office, and at the same time lose ur current credit card (thus canceling ur giro and etc). The reason u can give is that the corporate cc. membership fee is sponsored by ur company and u can claim some of the expenses, which will be credited back to your corporate card account. This will deflect some of the cash flow visibility away from ur wife. So every month u can withdraw $$ excess using ur ATM and said that it is for your corporate card.

However,if ur wife is the smart type (as most girls are concerning MONEY!!!) she will definitely suspect something after a while.

Is the new girl a china girl.

Altho' i don't like to give advice when not asked, but i think better to not risk ur marriage, bro. Not worth it. If u want, just fuuuuccck and enjoy it. If this china girl really likes u , u don't have to spend too much money on her anyway!

[hearthrob]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

bro..

since u are in business... should be easier.

1. tell her u need money to invest in shares or other investment.

2. U can open another account with a different address.. no problem.. i did that..apply online banking and you can then e-transfer money to your gal account monthly

oh man.. what am i doing.. teaching my bro to cheat on the wife..

Hey bro, after my MIA for the last eight months, your rep pts have became too scarily high...

Strange many thought my new found sweetheart is a PRC....how come cannot be an India who looks like a bollywood star?...
Some of the wake up calls from bros' replies does help me put things in perspective to a certain extend.

I'm not fearing of being a carrot head....eventhough I know for sure I'll not be one in this case. But then a sudden fear of hurting my wife came about as I was reading the responses from the other bros. And that would be the last thing in the whole world I'll wanted to do.....I just got to get a grip of myself to tide over this period of my life. Maybe its that emptiness in my heart that causes me the yearning for that long lost "chu lian" feeling.....whatever it is, being a responsible man for what he has comitted to is more important...and that committment is still his family.



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[steamystreamsg]

Originally Posted by hearthrob

whatever it is, being a responsible man for what he has comitted to is more important...and that committment is still his family.

Heng Tai,
Glad to hear that. Always remember to go back to where you belong, that's your home after whatever you did outside. And stay committed to your family, esp if you've kids as they are the most innocent party.

[singexpat]

Originally Posted by hearthrob

Maybe its that emptiness in my heart that causes me the yearning for that long lost "chu lian" feeling.....whatever it is, being a responsible man for what he has comitted to is more important...and that committment is still his family.

Bro.. tht emptiness in ur heart, wat causes it anyway??

how abt lookin for tht "chu lian" feelin with ur wife??
afterall, she's e one tht u suppose to spend ur rest of ur life with, n to love her n take care of her rite??

Do u mean to say tht if ur wife feels empty in her heart n wans the "chu lian" feelin" she can look for it outside like wat u doin now??

Pls don b pissed with me.. juz my humble opinions n tots...

Cheers...

[shengge]

Originally Posted by hearthrob

And now there is such a great need for me to hide some pocket money to visit Hui, and to provide for her so that her life can be improve....etc. .

Dear Bro hearthrob,
On the $$$ issue, when there is a will, there is a way.
By providing her with $$$ so that her life can be improved, TRUE! What is the objective you are trying to achieve by doing so? (sorry! no offence)
I don't believe in giving them money, small gift is ok, I think the best way is pay her as you bonk.

I understand the kind of feeling that you have, but if you really wanted to, do make sure that your family members life are always improving. As many senior bros have said, don't keep a cow if you just want to drink milk.

Cheers!

[ct75]

Originally Posted by hearthrob

Hey bro, after my MIA for the last eight months, your rep pts have became too scarily high...

Strange many thought my new found sweetheart is a PRC....how come cannot be an India who looks like a bollywood star?...
Some of the wake up calls from bros' replies does help me put things in perspective to a certain extend.

I'm not fearing of being a carrot head....eventhough I know for sure I'll not be one in this case. But then a sudden fear of hurting my wife came about as I was reading the responses from the other bros. And that would be the last thing in the whole world I'll wanted to do.....I just got to get a grip of myself to tide over this period of my life. Maybe its that emptiness in my heart that causes me the yearning for that long lost "chu lian" feeling.....whatever it is, being a responsible man for what he has comitted to is more important...and that committment is still his family.



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Dude no offence... the moment you thought of hiding money to give to this girl that "you fell in love" with you have changed your name to ROBERT AKA CARROT. Give her money to improve her lot??? You might not be the only guy giving her money to improve her lot dude.....

Even if you dont love your wife anymore, love yourself..... when she decided to sue for divorce, firstly your reputation is going to go down the lokang.... I can be sure that she will blow the matter sky high that you are having affair with foreign girl. Second you are going to be paying maintanance until you are silly.... The Judge is not going to let you off with just a divorce... Thirdly are you going to marry this Hui???

Dont be so complacent and think that no lah I wont become carrot..... cos that is the first step to becoming one... Admiting that you are or have the possibility will make you guard against it. Denying it will give you a false sense of security and it will hit you when you least expect it.

[no_faith]

sum gd advice by bros.

by giving her money and think u r her white horse prince, u r juz another source of income for her.
play the game if u can afford to play.

[Forever Young]

Originally Posted by no_faith

sum gd advice by bros.

by giving her money and think u r her white horse prince, u r juz another source of income for her.
play the game if u can afford to play.

Wow bro NF, you can really dig out .... 2 year liao leh this thread ... but still good job

[soundworks]

I rather use the spare money on my kids...Maybe i dont have a happy childhood that y i always wanted to give my children the best in the world within my reach.