Sex life after marriage.

[WertyQ]

Hi Kjjsexy Sis

Sent you a PM with possible reasons. Good luck.

FYI.

[cuties]

Originally Posted by kjjsexy

Hi!

I'm a lady in mid-30's with kids and wanna seek your take on this. My situation is complete opposite. My hubby in his 40's isn't interested to have sex with me on a regular basis, but prefers to masturbate. I'm decent looking and slim though. I wonder why he isn't interested in me sexually.

masturbate may be is more straight forward and simple excitement for him.

[nottiguys]

Originally Posted by cuties

masturbate may be is more straight forward and simple excitement for him.

I agree with it.

[kjjsexy]

Once a week, he'll say 'quota' reached. But I notice, he'll DIY every 3 days. Sigh, is having sex so tiring or not so pleasurable that he doesnt wanna return for more? In bed, he'll have his back towards me. Responsibility to family aside, I feel he's putting in little effort on creating love atmosphere.

[yesscenter]

Originally Posted by safeskin

Like to ask bro here for some advice. Sex life use to be exciting during courtship. Frequent sex and outdoor sex happen pretty often.

After marriage. Wife spends more time on online shopping, Facebook or just simply on farking ipad. Sex has been once a week or fortnight. Being a highsex drive person I am
Its some times gets frustrating and keep wondering why this is happening or sometimes the need for sex is nt fufil. I feel sainz.

Is this normal? I tried talking to her and share with her. But no use, reasons like she is tired or she is not in the mood or spend time on the farking ipad!

Any recommendations or ideas from married bros here? Am . trying hard not.to.find FL or FB ...
Thanks in advance.

Since dhe is surfing the net, whu dun you ask her to go to this website "hornbunny" this will turn her on, enjoy.

[stealthraider]

Originally Posted by kjjsexy

Once a week, he'll say 'quota' reached. But I notice, he'll DIY every 3 days. Sigh, is having sex so tiring or not so pleasurable that he doesnt wanna return for more? In bed, he'll have his back towards me. Responsibility to family aside, I feel he's putting in little effort on creating love atmosphere.

u 2 need to start dating again. love needs maintenance in a marriage. it doesn;t stop with marriage.

[cuties]

Originally Posted by kjjsexy

Hi!

I'm a lady in mid-30's with kids and wanna seek your take on this. My situation is complete opposite. My hubby in his 40's isn't interested to have sex with me on a regular basis, but prefers to masturbate. I'm decent looking and slim though. I wonder why he isn't interested in me sexually.

haizz,it's normal nowadays. masturbate is fast and easy job

40's, tired body,stressful in his job? environment might be an issue too

try make it in holiday?

[Nokia69]

Guys who face a decline in sex frequency are luckier than me.
At least bros have had some decent fun.

My case: no sex before marriage (6 yrs dating), sex after marriage is of poor quality too...no touch here and there. No oral both ways.

We have 2 boys which are the result of "sex with a purpose" to complete her life cycle. I dun have good memories to fall back on.

I hate my life. Bros here, u all are way luckier.

[oldman1969]

I feel u bro, totally the same in mine situation.

Even after talking to wife , the ans is " old already, got kids liao no need to do liao..."

Lucky still got internet....can diy...haiz....sianz...

Although sex is not everything in a relationship, however IMO, Without phyiscal contact then the relationship is not healthy. Of course , like others has point out environment is also important for her to get into the mood.

Most important is both partners has to accomodate each other if you want the relationship to last.

Always remember that once you are caught, it takes alot of effort and time to earn the trust back from wife..if you still have a chance.

Thanks TS that start this thread so that Every married bro can spill their guts.

[ken_v2]

Those still getting once a week/fortnight or even once a month can consider yourselves to be in a better situation. The last time I had it with my wife was like a few years back.

Nothing wrong with the marriage, just we are tired and having a kid sleeping in the same room doesn't help.

[lotsfits80]

Purposely masturbate in her presence, watch AV aloud.

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by lotsfits80

Purposely masturbate in her presence, watch AV aloud.

The best way to let her know that you have sexual urge is to surf sbf in front of her..

[gixxer04]

Agree with bros here

Before on n off have it
after marriage cut down on it
once the 1st child born........dun even remember have it

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by ken_v2

Nothing wrong with the marriage, just we are tired and having a kid sleeping in the same room doesn't help.

Huh? Feeling tired after work?

I guess this is the most common reason I have read or heard for not having sex between the wife and husband.

It makes me wonder how tiring can it be to have sex for like 5-10 min? It is more tiring than running 2.4km?

I reckon the main underlying reason should be not in the mood ba..

In fact researchers found that those people who had sex once or twice a week have a better immune system in their body compared to those who had sex less often.

[highlysex]

Originally Posted by ken_v2

Those still getting once a week/fortnight or even once a month can consider yourselves to be in a better situation. The last time I had it with my wife was like a few years back.

Nothing wrong with the marriage, just we are tired and having a kid sleeping in the same room doesn't help.

Bro same here you're NOT alone