Damn! I missed a target today

[d(^_^)b]

This thread reminds me of a recent failure.

I was at this cambodian restaurant w relatives, e moment I stepped in, instincts tell me in the 11 oclock direction, caught this aussie chick with her fat gal friend about 24 y/o in a short tee n jeans with shoulder length hair n she wasn't considered that pretty but it's juz her natural plain look that attracted her.

U guys know that kinda "simplicity @ it's best" kinda feelin?

Anyway, I sat about 3 tables away and her back was facing me. She saw me lookin at her. 1st eye contact was made.
Ordered our food n while eatin, we were like stealin glances at each other.

I was like damn, I wanna know her. Will the opportunity come!?

Carried on eatin. Next thing I know, target gone. I was like "WTF?" Dun needa pay bill? Scan counter, nobody. Siao liao. Cannot be left through main entrance coz I was sittin near main entrance. So where's she? Back alley. Car park.

Brain started to act fast. Told relatives, "I need a pen in my car". Yeah. That's the dumbest sentence that came outta my mind. They gave me the, "Huh, U siao or wat? Eatin here need pen?"

Cuttin it short, I raced to the back. I found her.

As I approached her, I couldn't see her friend. I spoke. Told her I wanted to know her. Got her name, 2nd sentence I "wanna" say was if I could get her number, BUT before I could say anythin, her handphone rang. CCB!!! Nevermind, can hear her talk, her voice was sweet n I know she desperately wanna put the phone down, to continue our convo. My pen was ready. My handphone was oso ready. She hung up, 2nd sentence was about to be spoke, her friend who juz came out from the toilet came back. !@#%^&*, still I asked if I could have Ur number. Her friend was starin at us. BIATCH! She was hesitatin, then she says somethin very unconvincing, "I.... have a.... BF". Then she gave me a "it's not that I dun wanna give U my number" kinda stare.

I almost fainted on the spot. So near yet so far. So LL gotta walk back empty handed. With only the pen in my hand. Fat friend, I'll always remember U...!!!

To add toppin to my dessert of failure was it started to drizzle...

Even the ones up there are teasin me...

O well. Till then...

[wildnhard2005]

Not sure if it is me, or other bros also have the same experience.
Whenever we are overseas, it always seems that we are more daring, balls seems to get bigger to approach girls. But at at home ground, always worry this, scare that, and never dare to directly approach.
Any bro care to comment?

[d(^_^)b]

It's not daring or not daring.

It's about I'm overseas!!! I wanna CONQUER!!!



Jokes aside, she juz melted my heart, I juz wanted to know her badly.
It's the MOTIVATION.

Not the FUCKS.

One more friend, one less enemy.

[pokeman71]

bro, chinese say, lossing a horse might not be a loss

I rem in one of the jam and hop, my fren told me about a ger interested in me and got him to intro us, then I was too fixated in another ger, din pay attention, later realised that ger very wild in bed and hook up with another fren of mine .... and the one I was goin after, church goin and hold hand also bo ... haiz

[Xgenre]

This thread came to mind when I thought of a recent experience. Was on leave so went to irc to chat. Spoke to a guy who's wife is an insurance agent. After some chit-chatting, he told me his wife is pretty but sales is bad. Sometimes he wonder how she makes end meet and he always feared she sleeps around for deals. I pitied him as I agree that a lot of guys like to aim for insurance ladies. So I asked if I may help in any way. After some discussion, he told me to test his wife and gave me her msn address. Said her wife should be logged onto msn at this point in time at work. He's on leave at home.

I changed my intro in msn to something insurance related. Then i added his wife's msn address. She asked who I am and I gave a lame excuse (eg, instead of adding $$$80@..., I added her $$$81@... by mistake). I think she saw my intro and thought I was a possible client and thus continued to chat with me. She said she's married lar, dun sleep around but petting is ok if I give her deals. To make her point, she sent me many sexy photos of herself. I asked for her number and she give me willingly, hoping to meet me for sales. Now his wife is damn hot and I was honestly a bit gian. All this while, i updated the husband via irc. (didn't tell him about the sleeping or petting bit)

I told the wife if I had met u 2 yrs ago before you are married, I will surely go after u. and that she look 24 when she is actually 28... Blar blar blar, all those sweet talk. Suddenly, she says I make her feel hot and wanted. She suggested we meet immediately. Go where up to me. I was like hor sey liao! but thinking of the poor husband whom i'm was still chatting with in irc, i said i'm not free. Told the husband over irc that his wife doesn't sleep around for sales to give him peace of mind. (It's a lie.) Told the wife I'm got something urgent to attend and logged off...

It's a target and moment in time lost. Would you guys sleep with the wife since the husband dun know? Sometimes as husband, you got to be careful of who you want to use to test your wife, if I had been more bastard, I may be able to satisfy both husband (by lying and say his wife is an angel who doesn't sleep around) and wife (by screwing the daylights out of her.)

comments?

[veriton]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

It's a target and moment in time lost. Would you guys sleep with the wife since the husband dun know? Sometimes as husband, you got to be careful of who you want to use to test your wife, if I had been more bastard, I may be able to satisfy both husband (by lying and say his wife is an angel who doesn't sleep around) and wife (by screwing the daylights out of her.)

comments?

The hubby could be a boring guy giving u the msn to test you... u r talking to the same person, posing as hubby and wife, jus to kill time...

when I saw the subject, to me, I hv never been successful at all ... and TS, miss one nia like damn jialat ....

[myluckyguy]

i know the feelin....hehe

[xxxlargexxxx]

i remember once i pass my pager to a gal i have chemistry with when i was in the bus going home.
The gal 's mother was with her then.

[js0n]

haha..adding more sadness here

I miss mine on friday.

Was in 1 of the clubs wif a group of friends...i dun reali enjoy dancing.so end up watching ppl play pool and played a few games of pool..u know..those winner stay thingy..hahaha..well.managed to stay a few games and whenever i was at the side pocket..aiming at the far left pocket..i realise this syt was smiling at me..din approach her as shes always surrounded by her group of guys.

Damn it..miss her sweet smile now!

[qw2op]

Originally Posted by js0n

... I miss mine on friday ... Damn it..miss her sweet smile now!

go play pool again nex friday ... ... gd luck!

[qw2op]

Originally Posted by pentel

oh man, i miss mine juz 2 days ago. i entered the train at yishun, den i wasnt looking ard cuz was reading the papers ...

take train @ same time again ... make sure oso go to same carriage ... ... gd luck ...

[no_faith]

i too missed a target but not today, is forever liao.
Since reading few of bros incidents, so I tot of sharing. In fact I dun really wan to bring myself back into the memory. Furthermore, I was juz broke up wif my gf.

there was this gal, sweet and cheerful. she is not a pretty lass but i feel relax and nature when I see her. she is my fren's fren.
it was tat day, my friend jio me to Sentosa, Mahalo(apologize if wrong spelling) beach, he said he met up frenz there too so we can like play volleyball and swimming. i reject at first but after sum persuasion, i went.

hot sunny day, we reached the beach and finally i saw her. i feel nothing at first.
Juz another ordinary gal mah. We still intro ourselves and chat a bit loh.

Then we started to have a volleyball game. I dunno how to play volleyball and I was team wif her. So indeed I have eat up sand when I try to save the ball hitting the ground. She make fun of me. And when the time she eat sand, I laugh out loud. Along the game, we are mocking and joking at each other.

Then suddenly one ball hit her cuz she missed. Me too, suddenly feel hurt. Rush to her side, asking here if she alright, she smile and say im fine. The I saw her tat she is alrite, I mock at her, saying you weak lah….hahahhaa, aiya, the ball hit u at the wrong area..hahahhaa

She then want to hit me, I dodge. I laughed @ her again, cannot hit me. She stood up and chase me. we ran almost the whole beach, she chased, I ran, very drama. Night falls, we group of frenz had few drinks at the bar. We have few chats.

We went to the bus stop to exit to the sg island. While at the bus stop, my frenz pull me to one side and asking me both of u playing catch in the day, looks like couple bickering at each other. They told me she is not attach, I can try as they feel they she might a feeling for me too. But at tat day, I nvr say anything tat is related to boy and gal relationship.

When we board the bus, my fren ask her to go out wif us the next wkend. She agreed. We went home tat night, me, without any contact details of her.

The nxt wkend came, it was late evening. I met up my frenz and we met her up at the mrt station.
Omg, she is so different. She dolls up herself well, pretty dress, nice hairdo, brushes, light make up. Wear not so high heels, lucky or else she will be obvious taller than me. Looks so natural. I was stunned, eyes big and she came forward and say hello. I was pai she sia, my clothing was so so only, same wif my look.

We went to a café in town, have sum beverages and play board games.
Chat and joke. Everyting grow so natural.

The worst came for me. we were talking abt ourselves. She said in the past, she was drug abuser, she played wif frenz including guys….. my mind start to wonder, what happen when u were high? am I wear how many ppl’s shoes? Am I picking up sumting tat ppl have finished playing? yeah, u can call me a jerk.

My mood changed. I stopped joking and chatting wif her, I keep silence most of the time.
My fren also feel strange, key siao jio me outside the café and smoke.

He asked me wat happen. Then I told him abt my thoughts. He said past liao. Forget it lah. I told him I cant take it.

The whole night was silence. After the night, there was no more outings cuz I cant get over it.
Days passed, I start to regret, I kan cheong to find her.
She was missed forever.


ps: apologize if the story is long winded. I tried to summarize liao.

[js0n]

Originally Posted by qw2op

go play pool again nex friday ... ... gd luck!

haha.thanks bro for ur encouragement..hmm..but i guess lightning wouldnt strike 2x.

but if given another chance another syt do same thing as her..i will not hesitate to put my cue aside and go straight for her hp.haha..not for a ons..but well..get to know another pretty ger!weehoOO!