Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 400

SingViet · #**5986** 20-08-2009, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by happy000

When I was in PRC recently when my gf call me 老公前，老公后 I became worried as I know my pocket will burn a hole. For PRC when the gal is too good to you, you need to be careful of your pocket

i do agree that i will get a bit scared if the lady whom i am not officially married too calls me 老公前，老公后. This means i will be burning a hole in my pocket soon.

jackbl · #**5987** 21-08-2009, 12:04 AM

When i heard viet gal using handphone and talk to the guy at the other end of the phone, calling him ONG XA and address herself as BA XA, I want to laugh and vomit.... They really can XAO NHIEU NHIEU

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Originally Posted by SingViet

i do agree that i will get a bit scared if the lady whom i am not officially married too calls me 老公前，老公后. This means i will be burning a hole in my pocket soon.

maxrex · #**5988** 21-08-2009, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by ekemono

Yes. Most viet wife do treat their husband better.

Sure, a lot of Vietnamese wives are great in taking care of their husbands. My Hanoian wife always shell the prawns and also pull out the bones from cooked fish. If I want any drink, I will tell her and she will make the drink and bring it to me. She will also cut my fingernails and toenails every 2 weeks. What more can I ask for?

Hurricane88 · #**5989** 21-08-2009, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by maxrex

Sure, a lot of Vietnamese wives are great in taking care of their husbands. My Hanoian wife always shell the prawns and also pull out the bones from cooked fish. If I want any drink, I will tell her and she will make the drink and bring it to me. She will also cut my fingernails and toenails every 2 weeks. What more can I ask for?

Actually this culture existed in my parents generations and older generations...but lost due to modernization and westernization...so Vnese still has this culture and who knows how long this will last and maybe lost in future generations...so enjoy while you have it....

Did your baxa help to ensure you eat enough before she gets to eat...

iCoPuLaTe · #**5990** 23-08-2009, 04:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

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hahaha...that is why good Viet wife is precious...when I am in HCM, I am treated like that...

Yup, when i go other buddies to attend this buddy(marry viet wife) ceremony, see till eyes big big..then during the drink tea/kopi session under tree, stil got massage, feeling so the good..Wanted to try bed a girl there but friend advice not to, wait kanna chop to pieces..

Men there seems quite gd life, everyday sit below tree drinking tea/kopi, then wife tend shop..Know a taiwan guy tat open the pawn shop there also say, he say 1, his viet wife will never ever say 1.5

reach home sure got food follow by massage & sex..

iCoPuLaTe · #**5991** 23-08-2009, 04:43 AM

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Originally Posted by happy000

When I was in PRC recently when my gf call me 老公前，老公后 I became worried as I know my pocket will burn a hole. For PRC when the gal is too good to you, you need to be careful of your pocket

Hmm..i think it depends cos i interact wid many prc girls as my work needs me,like year 08, total time in china is bout 5 months, some are really good,some bad but many seems sex starved.. Maybe ur gf really into u lea, or u can see her inner self liao..?

Be a player, make her earn $ for u lor..

SingViet · #**5992** 23-08-2009, 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by iCoPuLaTe

Be a player, make her earn $ for u lor..

i totally disagree with this. If you are serious with that particular lady, educate her and let her know that money don't fall from the skies in Singapore. As for other gals, just fuck, pay and let go. Its not a good idea to make the gal earn money for you while you sit back and relax. Too many viet man are doing this. Asian man have to maintain some pride

iCoPuLaTe · #**5993** 23-08-2009, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

i totally disagree with this. If you are serious with that particular lady, educate her and let her know that money don't fall from the skies in Singapore. As for other gals, just fuck, pay and let go. Its not a good idea to make the gal earn money for you while you sit back and relax. Too many viet man are doing this. Asian man have to maintain some pride

Yes, i too agree wid your views, we stil hv pride, need face.Must be me type too fast without thinking, or think the "eat lo to" way..No sleep?

SingViet · #**5994** 23-08-2009, 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by iCoPuLaTe

Yes, i too agree wid your views, we stil hv pride, need face.Must be me type too fast without thinking, or think the "eat lo to" way..No sleep?

Let me relate an incident to illustrate how useless and timid are vietnamese man. Back in 2005 when my wife was running the Frog Porridge business in Q7, Tan my, my wife's brother came to assist us with the business. As i ply between HCMC and Singapore often, my bike will be left at the shop for my wife to use when i am back in Singapore. My bike is a bigger scooter, the Yamaha Majesty. My wife was busy at the kitchen and she needed something from the main branch, which is around 10 mins by bike. So she requested that her brother ride my bike to help her, but the brother replied that he didn't dare to ride such a big bike. My wife was damm pissed. She finally had to ride the bike back herself. If my wife can ride that bike, how come the brother cannot ride? Typical uselss vietnamese man from the province.

chen_zhen · #**5995** 23-08-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Its not a good idea to make the gal earn money for you while you sit back and relax. Too many viet man are doing this. Asian man have to maintain some pride

This is a very good statement, is true we must maintain that we r not 'sickman of the east'

Hurricane88 · #**5996** 23-08-2009, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Let me relate an incident to illustrate how useless and timid are vietnamese man. Back in 2005 when my wife was running the Frog Porridge business in Q7, Tan my, my wife's brother came to assist us with the business. As i ply between HCMC and Singapore often, my bike will be left at the shop for my wife to use when i am back in Singapore. My bike is a bigger scooter, the Yamaha Majesty. My wife was busy at the kitchen and she needed something from the main branch, which is around 10 mins by bike. So she requested that her brother ride my bike to help her, but the brother replied that he didn't dare to ride such a big bike. My wife was damm pissed. She finally had to ride the bike back herself. If my wife can ride that bike, how come the brother cannot ride? Typical uselss vietnamese man from the province.

Hahaha...a typical case of good for nothing male vn man...heard alot of them just keep asking their mum and sisters for money...or try to coerce the mum to ask sisters to buy motorbike or mobile phones...after buying within 3 months also sold and money down the drain....

ekemono · #**5997** 23-08-2009, 12:22 PM

If we ever had to make our wife, be it any nationalities to earn money for us, it is a sure way of asking her to leave you sooner or later.
Asian will always regards the men to be the main breadwinner, it is your essential role and capability in life.

chen_zhen · #**5998** 24-08-2009, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

or try to coerce the mum to ask sisters to buy motorbike or mobile phones...after buying within 3 months also sold and money down the drain....

The sisters in turns will pressurise their foreign husbands for the $$$ to send back to vn.

Many bros here are the victims of circumstances ........

jackbl · #**5999** 24-08-2009, 09:11 AM

Congrats to you for finding a good wife and really envy u

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Originally Posted by maxrex

Sure, a lot of Vietnamese wives are great in taking care of their husbands. My Hanoian wife always shell the prawns and also pull out the bones from cooked fish. If I want any drink, I will tell her and she will make the drink and bring it to me. She will also cut my fingernails and toenails every 2 weeks. What more can I ask for?

KangTuo · #**6000** 24-08-2009, 04:42 PM

My galfriend knowing that I am not able to legally marry her now, she asked me to have a customary wedding first as to fulfill her old parents wish. She wanted it by this year, but I told her my situation (kept from her for 3 years liao), so we agree to hold it in early 2010.

No need to have a resturant wedding in HCMC or her home town, Mekong. She request just to go through a customary and have a lunch in her house at Mekong. Cooking by family only.

She say she can wait for me to settle my divorce (3 or 4 years seperation) before legalizing the marriage with her.

What esle can i ask for, I have to agree to her proposal.

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