Sex life after marriage.

safeskin · #1 15-09-2014, 12:12 AM

Like to ask bro here for some advice. Sex life use to be exciting during courtship. Frequent sex and outdoor sex happen pretty often.

After marriage. Wife spends more time on online shopping, Facebook or just simply on farking ipad. Sex has been once a week or fortnight. Being a highsex drive person I am
Its some times gets frustrating and keep wondering why this is happening or sometimes the need for sex is nt fufil. I feel sainz.

Is this normal? I tried talking to her and share with her. But no use, reasons like she is tired or she is not in the mood or spend time on the farking ipad!

Any recommendations or ideas from married bros here? Am . trying hard not.to.find FL or FB ...
Thanks in advance.

R32wanfun · #2 15-09-2014, 12:26 AM

Get her to stop sufing net and get the mood ON....

parrotkid · #3 15-09-2014, 01:08 AM

Be thankful that you are getting it once a week or 2 weeks. Many bros here go without sex with wife for months.

S i l v i a · #4 15-09-2014, 01:14 AM

U are not alone bro

archer69 · #5 15-09-2014, 01:53 AM

It means she don't feel you are attractive.
You must work on this.
Looks fresh, smell fresh and so many ways.

safeskin · #6 15-09-2014, 08:03 AM

[QUOTwanfun;11792258]Get her to stop sufing net and get the mood ON....[/QUOTE]

Have tried tht. Ended she goes to sleep!

safeskin · #7 15-09-2014, 08:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by parrotkid

Be thankful that you are getting it once a week or 2 weeks. Many bros here go without sex with wife for months.

Serious? ?? Was nt aware there.r others bros going through the same thing. .have actually consider Spanish fly n suck but mt sure is it safe for her?

safeskin · #8 15-09-2014, 08:07 AM

[Qarcher69;11792591]It means she don't feel you are attractive.
You must work on this.
Looks fresh, smell fresh and so many ways.[/QUOTE]

I think this might nt be the reason. I groom myself everyday and I coach guys what and how to wear clothes. So looking neat, fresh and smelling fresh may nt be the reason.

Jamesleejamesle · #9 15-09-2014, 08:18 AM

Heheh..
Welcome to marriage world bro.
Same here. Before marriage, we were fucking every moment we can get, indoors and outdoors...or whenever I want, which is all the time. Maybe it's because we were not staying with each other.
After the honey moon, the frequency lessened. And as one of our bros mentioned, it's once or twice a week and then the frequency dwindles down even further. Especially after you have one or two children.
I am also sex hungry. I don't want to force my wife to make out if she's not in the mood. It's no fun that way. So I guess, it's a couple of times a week visit to Domes 1, 2 or 3. I try not to take FLs because of the frequency of my needs, it can become quite expensive. I used to have 2 other buddies n we go to GL weekly but they are both working overseas now. So I am left hunting alone.
Of course, I do service my wife at least once or twice a week (twice a week is being lucky! Heheh).
I keep away from having FBs because it's time consuming, though the thought of having one always lurk in my mind. It would be nice to have a SYT for yourself. Staying in small Singapore, I believe having FBs when you are married, I am sure you are bound to bump into someone you know and the cat is out of the bag. I have friends whose marriage is gone because of FBs.
Today is Monday. It is horny day for me. I am looking through the FRs now on who to satisfy my needs...oh well...
Wish you the best with your wife. Hope you don't have to go the same path.

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xmodconnects · #11 15-09-2014, 09:46 AM

you should always marry the person you dont expect to fuck. no expectations, no disappointments.

clapton · #12 15-09-2014, 10:03 AM

My wife is similar

Before married always willing to fuck, and foreplay a lot, BBBJ or sometime CIM.

After married, no more BBBJ & CIM, said what, I don’t know why u ask me to do this, do you love me, do u know how dirty it is… etc

Refuse to do long foreplay and still question why I was not horny enough….

WTF, herself like a dead fish and want me hard like hell… DAMN

loneyheart · #13 15-09-2014, 10:21 AM

Human r animal ... b4 u urge more n wanting more as u hv not stay together looking forward to meet n tent to please each other .... once u married n stay together n see every days 1 party may lost t urge as not so trill anymore ... once u hv kids more worst she may put more attention to them ... as kids grow up she may share w then rather then u .... as years go by more like responsibilities then love ..... tats married

man more like a productive tools nowadays

ch1818 · #14 15-09-2014, 10:32 AM

Sex life will be lagi worst off after having the first kid lor.......

Soltt · #15 15-09-2014, 10:40 AM

Wait till you have baby.
Only then u will know that being able to have sex with wife is like dio 4-d .

My sex life with my wife dropped drastically after we have our first baby , but to be fair to her , it's really tiring to look after a baby the whole day thus sometimes we also need to feel for our wife. That being said , my wife sometimes still will make it a point to have sex with me which I appreciate it alot.

She also will help me hj or BJ when she is still recovering from birth.
The best thing is she allows me to DIY Infront of her / watch porn when she is really tired that day cause I told her it's damn frustrating to have blue balls .

It all depends on how u instill that mindset into your wife.
Make her understand that we have sexual urges too.