In love with ML

[Rebornboy]

Any advice?

[Penguin23]

Been there, done that.

If I were to live my life all over again, I would say - don't

There is (usually) no happy ending.

Tried so hard to make our worlds collide but despite my very best efforts, 3 years of my life and a few hundred k$ in the end the bitter truth prevails.

Nowadays, I just look back and hope she is doing all right in life.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Been there, done that.

If I were to live my life all over again, I would say - don't

There is (usually) no happy ending.

Tried so hard to make our worlds collide but despite my very best efforts, 3 years of my life and a few hundred k$ in the end the bitter truth prevails.

Nowadays, I just look back and hope she is doing all right in life.

Wow few hundred k...thats alot of cash...

Agreed dun touch and will not get burned both heart and cash...

[naan1974]

Originally Posted by Rebornboy

Any advice?

Enjoy the moment and bear in mind
not everyone who comes into your life is meant to stay

[donut88]

Don't get conned.

[heroseven2003]

Originally Posted by Rebornboy

Any advice?

just DON'T ....

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Wow few hundred k...thats alot of cash...

Agreed dun touch and will not get burned both heart and cash...

I am lucky, that I am doing quite well in life and I can well afford it

I don't post the amount to show how much I spent, but I want to show that at least for myself, I answered the one question that many Samsters always wonder.....given "enough" money can a guy make ANY relationship work?

I found that the answer was "No". In the end, the girl has to meet you (somewhat) halfway. And sometimes it is a bridge too far, or for those really cynical Samsters, perhaps a (few) hundred K too little.

Just to satisfy my own curiosity, I tried making it work a couple of other times, with different girls. With one particular Viet girl, who was an ang pai in a KTV here, I practically bought back the house which her mother lost to illegal moneylenders, she was grateful for maybe a month....but in the end she dumped me all the same.

I am in a happy, well adjusted relationship now. Yes, with an ex-KTV girl and we met when she was a KTV girl, but she doesn't ask for much money beyond a very reasonable amount for rent and maybe daily necessities while she works an honest living (outside of nightlife) developing a career like a normal person.

So that was my most valuable life lesson - with the right girl, you don't need much money at all to sustain or even to start a relationship.

Hope this helps TS, just from a retired Samster who no longer chiongs, and is thankfully still left with more than enough money for myself.

Usually Samsters who post out these single line messages work a "normal" job, and can hardly afford to support a chionging lifestyle, but they still taste the forbidden fruit of falling for a girl from nightlife....for those "normal" folks reality will usually bite damn hard and damn fast. I think that is actually so merciful. For those with a lot more disposable income, the charade lasts a little longer, the sex is a little better and sometimes more dramatic.....but the ending is the same.

Cheers, over and out.

[SexyDoughBoy]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Been there, done that.

If I were to live my life all over again, I would say - don't

There is (usually) no happy ending.

Tried so hard to make our worlds collide but despite my very best efforts, 3 years of my life and a few hundred k$ in the end the bitter truth prevails.

Nowadays, I just look back and hope she is doing all right in life.

why not have a happy ending?
Some people logically say not to do this, but some people also fall in love.
some of my friends have happy endings. In fact, according to my friend, ML is more grateful than ordinary women. maybe because ML feels lucky so they are grateful for the partner who chooses them

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by Rebornboy

Any advice?

With MLs, its mostly just lust and not love. Make sure to not mix these 2 together.

You are hooked by the ML, or most will say KC'ed. I'd say enjoy the ride, but always have an exit plan. Don't sink into a shithole so deep that you can't dig yourself out of.

[okcieMon]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

I am lucky, that I am doing quite well in life and I can well afford it

I don't post the amount to show how much I spent, but I want to show that at least for myself, I answered the one question that many Samsters always wonder.....given "enough" money can a guy make ANY relationship work?

I found that the answer was "No". In the end, the girl has to meet you (somewhat) halfway. And sometimes it is a bridge too far, of (for those really cynical ones) a hundred K too little.

Plus, I tried making it work a couple of other times, with different girls. With one particularly dramatic Viet girl, who was an ang pai in a KTV here, I practically bought back the house which her mother lost to illegal moneylenders, she was grateful for maybe a month....but in the end she dumped me all the same.

I am in a happy, well adjusted relationship now. Yes, with an ex-KTV girl and we met when she was a KTV girl, but she doesn't ask for much money beyond a very reasonable amount for rent and maybe daily necessities while she works an honest living (outside of nightlife) developing a career like a normal person.

So that was my most valuable life lesson - with the right girl, you don't need much money at all to sustain or even to start a relationship.

The answer is the same each time

I agree with this solid advice of yours. It always will boil down to the attitude of the girl and both parties willing to work together. There is no point in a one sided attraction and always giving in to the other party. It's just a shame that you had to spend a few hundred K to find that out.

[WinterMelonTree]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

.. given "enough" money can a guy make ANY relationship work?

couldnt have put it better myself. i see so many guys young and old asking this type of question aka -> is money spent, directly proportionate to genuine love and affection of a girl?

in truth, i think many of these guys knew the answer, but their heads are too full of horniness, obsession and infatuation to think straight.

you've had a wonderful experience in the past. its time to enjoy the new lifestyle.
as we age, good companionship gets more and more important. the prettiest face, tightest pussy, nicest scent also get boring after savouring enough of them.
al the bes bro. Cheers

[WinterMelonTree]

Originally Posted by SexyDoughBoy

why not have a happy ending?
Some people logically say not to do this, but some people also fall in love.
some of my friends have happy endings. In fact, according to my friend, ML is more grateful than ordinary women. maybe because ML feels lucky so they are grateful for the partner who chooses them

because this is the equivalent of a lottery winner advising you to quit your job, sell your house and buy lottery professionally because its a much faster and easier way to get rich. but he forgets that this is probably 1 in a million.

love conquers all.. for the first couple of years. reality sets in really quick.

MLs/FLs full time pro ladies milk men for a living (figuratively and literally).
you can imagine how that will work out after the passion wears off.

regarding the "grateful" part. have you ever had a ML calling you lao gong during sex?

are you actually the lao gong?

or her screaming in orgasmic throes so good so good after you barely put it in. (you could be her 10th customer of the day)

are you johnny sins?

again its not that you cant find a genuine one but the probability is so low, its better to look elsewhere if you're finding love.

[dyelook]

go ahead... enjoy the love else you'll regret... if its not going the way you want then take it as a lesson learned...

[joker1231]

Originally Posted by WinterMelonTree

because this is the equivalent of a lottery winner advising you to quit your job, sell your house and buy lottery professionally because its a much faster and easier way to get rich. but he forgets that this is probably 1 in a million.

love conquers all.. for the first couple of years. reality sets in really quick.

MLs/FLs full time pro ladies milk men for a living (figuratively and literally).
you can imagine how that will work out after the passion wears off.

regarding the "grateful" part. have you ever had a ML calling you lao gong during sex?

are you actually the lao gong?

or her screaming in orgasmic throes so good so good after you barely put it in. (you could be her 10th customer of the day)

are you johnny sins?

again its not that you cant find a genuine one but the probability is so low, its better to look elsewhere if you're finding love.

many different stories. some have happy endings, some don't. You're right bro, it's not impossible but finding one is like looking for a ring that fell on the beach sand. We can find it, but it's difficult. like waiting for luck

[Rebornboy]

Originally Posted by dyelook

go ahead... enjoy the love else you'll regret... if its not going the way you want then take it as a lesson learned...

We were together for a month. Had unprotected sex a few times thus i thought it was true love. Like why would she take the risk as if she were to be pregnant, it will heavily impact her career. But now that it ended, wonder if everything was merely a business transaction.