Honestly don't see a problem here, unless there was deceit involved.
If you are worried for the future, have to know first if you want one with her.
If no, no problem. If yes, let her decide if she wants it also.
If she ever ask you about where you see you and her 'x' years down the road, I would answer.
" I like you and I would like to be with you. But I try not to be invested too much. You are young, the chances of you leaving me is higher than usual. Until that day, I will cherish the time we have together. "
Is there any potential benefits the girl may gain by being with you ? Same company ? She is an agent, housing or insurance or others ?
I'm her second boyfriend, she told me about her first relationship of two years from her school days, it taught her what she needed to know but it wasn't exactly a happy one.
We met at work, not exactly work, but she was an intern at the other department. We have monthly(sometimes weekly) games as a company, you name it, tennis, badminton, chess, scrabble, blah blah, and of course poker(my boss is crazy about it, he bought a poker table in the office). I don't bother about all the other "games". I just like to win money.
And boy can this girl play, I mean most of us are just amateurs in it for the fun, mingling, and a bit of gambling, but man she's GOOD. Told me she played frequently in an all girls group during her uni days.
So I mustered my courage to have a conversation with her - she kept the conversation two sided which I find it's a turn on. I invited her to a game at my place, one thing led to another and one eventful night, after some drinks, she initiated our first kiss, and it led to one of the best sex in my life - trust me I'm not easily surprised, but she manages to do so time and time again.
I’m 35, I’m just your totally average dude, I have a decent job, and my family are well do to but that’s pretty much it. I never had any luck in sex or relationships, until recently, I got to know this girl under the strangest of circumstances. Although never in my wildest dream would I have expected it to progress to the stage where are are at now.
She’s skinny and pleasant looking, I have a thing for girls like her(don’t like them too pretty, kinda fake/unrealistic) BUT she has an insanely hot body, wild in bed, submissive at the right moments, eager to please, all that a man can wish for. Oh o
boy I can go on and on about her flawless skin, delicious pink pussy, seductive moans, I have never in my 35 years had such mind blowing sex(3 previous partners, I do not partake in paid sex).
The thing is, she’s 21…I know that what’s going on between us it’s legal and consensual a
Just enjoy the fucks, if you all get together then good.
If not, then at least the fucks were enjoyed.
I had a fuck buddy 10y my senior, fucked her over 3 years. She's married, got 2 kids. But we knew we cannot be together. I lost litres of cum in her. But the fucks were good until it ended.
Thank you fellow bros for your input, I've actually been around the forum for many years seen and heard quite abit here, but I lost/forgot my password and email due to inactivity for my previous ID hence a new account.
The age difference is definitely a concern, I know I don't look my age(yet), but honestly what I'm feeling for her right now is downright lust, I'm totally blinded by her body, the amazing sex, and also by being with someone as young as her, as much as I'd hate to admit it.
My previous relationship was rather sexless, and ended in quite a mess, so I know that being with her is a huge 360 degree turnaround in my (sex)life.
That being said I know I'm more than glad to keep her by my side right now. The thing is she's also a good girl, does not drink or smoke, does not ask for anything material in return, only the basics like paying for meals, and sending her home from time to time. Hmm..sometimes I do wonder what does she see in me.
We're headed for a short getaway this week, and guess we'll see where that leads
From what you posted here, can see you are really into this girl and somehow, I can feel deeply in your mind, you think you don't deserve her. If that is the case, my suggestion is "go for it". All the things you posted here shows both of you are into each other. So, just relax and let the things flow naturall. Don't just give up simply and be regret for it in the future.
Just play along u have nothing to lose. If it works out its good, if not you also enjoy her body for that time together. I dont see any loss from this just do it man.