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#19
22-09-2024, 12:51 PM
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Re: How We Got Together
All I will say bro, is you lucked it out, this is a real gem.
It is rare that a SO will tolerate or (whether candidly or not) accept, as your K has, her partner/bf/hubby coming to view any post or comment here. 
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#20
22-09-2024, 10:44 PM
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Also Zorro539, yes, she is a real gem to me . She honestly doesn’t mind reading the forum with me and she will say, “oooh! must try ‘this’ or ‘that’, but only with me.” She knows about my past and is practical enough to know after I broke up with C, there would have been self service with visual aids, but no commercial escapades. Likewise I know her past and she has said she has also had self service sessions but her visual aids were erotic stories, not pictures or porn. The important thing is we trust each other and she has said many times before, “a woman always knows deep down in her heart of hearts if her partner is lying or being unfaithful, it’s just wether she wants to admit or see it or not.” When we post the next part, we will try to make it clearer. We have no secrets. 
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#21
22-09-2024, 11:20 PM
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#22
23-09-2024, 06:48 AM
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Re: How We Got Together
The next chapter...
I remember the drive home being surreal. It was still early so traffic was light but my mind was racing with many thoughts and unformed ideas. Back home I couldn't really concentrate on work. I remember reading the same page many times, reading the words, understanding the meaning of the words but not comprehending the contents of the page. I usually speed read but couldn't do that now. It was frustrating but deep down I knew it was because my mind was occupied by the night before. Eventually I gave up, went to the sofa closed my eyes and started to think. K was a great person but why did I never see her in a romantic light. I realised if I was going to be honest with myself that i had always put the friendship barrier in place because of my past relationship with C. I also was finally prepared to admit I always had affection and a soft spot for K but I had always thought she was not looking for a relationship because of past hurt and because she was dedicated to her work. Then something struck me. I realised my stomach was burning. Not because I was hungry but there was this burning desire to be sitting next to K. I suddenly had the veil lifted and clearly saw that we didn't have sex. Yes, the act was sex, but we actually made love. I don’t know if anyone reading this knows what I mean. Yes, we banged, bonked, fucked or however you want to put it. The physical act happened. But there was such a deep emotional element where we were present to each other. I saw other things clearly now too. We didn’t talk or text every day. Yet, when I received a text from her it always made me smile. We didn't meet every day or every week. Yet when we did meet it felt like we had always been together. I need to travel regularly for work and apart from my mum, she’s the only person to message me to see if I had arrived and how my day was. Finally, last night, she didn’t call me baby or dear, she called my name as we were making love. That’s when I knew I wanted K in my life. I dropped K a message to say I needed to talk to her and she replied, “see you at 6 my place?” I replied ok and tried to get back to work with time passing so slowly. I remember constantly looking at my watch and finally I got ready and headed over to see K. I buzzed her intercom and she let me in. Her front door was open and I closed it behind me. I walked to her sitting room and saw K sitting on her sofa. She has her oversized t-shirt on and her knees were pulled to her chest with her t-shirt covering her legs and her doggy sitting beside her. I sat on the other end of the sofa and looked at K. She looked stunningly gorgeous. Big brown eyes, hair pushed back with a hairband but still there was an air of vulnerability. She just said,”hey, you ok?” I replied, “yes, but we need to talk.” She looked down and said softly, “I know.” After a couple of minutes of silence, I said I’d go first and she just nodded but still looking down with her chin against her knees. I told her I’d done a lot of thinking and I explained what had gone through my mind. She listened quietly and kept stroking her doggy. I realised I was taking too long to get to the end point so I said, “K, I do care for you a lot and I really do want you in my life and to find out together where we go from here.” I looked up and saw K was looking directly at me. She was smiling and hugging her legs as she softly whispered, “I’d like that too.” She got up, walked over to me and rested her head on my shoulders as she sat down. I told her that there are a couple of issues though like her relationship with C and how this would change. K said she knows but this felt right. It felt right for a while and the feeling in her heart kept getting stronger. She said I just grew on her and she never felt so comfortable with anyone else before, not even her ex. Then she melted my heart again when she said, “I dream of you when I go to sleep and think of you when I wake. At work you’re on my mind and no matter what happens thinking of you makes it better. I’ve hid it and shut it in a box but the box couldn't contain the feelings any more. If you had left last night I would have buried the box but now I can open the box and breathe.” I asked her again, “why me when you can have literally anyone, people are always trying to get your attention.” She replied, “because you see me for me and I can be me around you.” The next thing I said to her was how do we tell her parents and when would be a good time. Her reply really made me want to shrink and disappear. She said she already told her mum a couple of months ago how she felt about me and how the feelings were getting stronger. Her mum advised her to talk to me honestly. Then she dropped the bombshell…. That afternoon she told her mum we had spent the night together. If my eyes opened any wider I think my eyes would have fallen out of my skull. I asked her, “is your mum pissed or upset?” K replied, “Nah, she just asked how it was, did everything work as it should, and did you perform adequately so I told her pass on all fronts and it was great.” Like I said, her family are close and share everything. She said her mum replied that was good and now we needed to decide what we wanted and how to move forward. K did then say very plainly, “for this to work from my end you have to promise me three things. Don’t ever cheat on me, don’t ever lie to me and don’t disrespect my family. I promise I will do the same for you.” I told her no problem there and she said ok. She told me about all the hurts with her ex, how she had never had an orgasm with him, how in her subconscious she must never have fully trusted him because she never let him touch her without a condom and how she was prepared to forget about the money he owed her just to be rid of him. Likewise I told her about C; many things she already knew because apparently girls share more with each other than guys do. She cracked a joke that still gets me. She said, “for all you put up with, you’re either a saint or a dumbass, either way it works out well for me,” as she gave her beaming smile. These are the moments with K I’ll always remember. She very matter of factly then said, “ok, I am booked for a contraceptive shot tomorrow so at the same time we can get an STD screen and then forget about condoms because I really want to feel you.” Just like that, decision made, no need to discuss, topic closed and on to the next thing. LOL. That night we just sat and talked about many things, openly and truthfully. We didn't make love, we just talked and it was as beautiful as the night before. Her family accepted me. The first time I went to her parents place after we decided to be together I was nervous. Her mum knew we had been intimate so how would she view me? What about her dad and siblings? Every time I asked K, she just said it would be ok, but guys, you know the anxiety I’m sure. So as we walked in the home, her mum gave me a hug, so did her siblings which surprised me. Her dad said hello, shook my hand and said we would talk later. After dinner, we went to the dad’s study and after some general small talk asked if I was serious about K. I said yes, I was, very serious. He sat back in his chair, looked at me and said just don’t hurt her. I promised I would not and he shook my hand again and that was it. My mum loves K like a daughter enough that she sides with K more than me….. COVID came shortly after and we decided to move in together before the CB kicked in but she had to go to work for extended periods. She would come home so very exhausted after work but still smile. No matter how bad that day had been she would always try and be positive. She did break down a couple of times and would just want to be held. Yet, she is such a strong person that I can draw from her strength. Every day we seem to get closer and as she says, “alone, I am not afraid to face anything but with you beside me, it’s so much easier.” We have been together over four years now and I agree fully.
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#23
23-09-2024, 07:46 AM
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Came for sex... stayed for the love story.
Wish you guys the best of luck and happiness. And... knn... 4 years liao still waiting for what 😆
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#24
23-09-2024, 08:19 AM
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We have spoken about getting married, we bought each other rings and around her family and relatives she often calls me hubby. We do want to take it slow though for a couple of reasons. The biggest being what happened before. Her parents have said don’t don’t need to be married as long as you’re prepared to care for each other so we don’t have pressure. Since you came for the sex and a couple of people have also asked for more juicy detail she’s ok with us sharing a little detail. She was (and still is) quite shy. I guess most ladies are… The first time I tried to give her oral sex she kept saying no and pulled me up or pushed my head to the side. She never had oral sex before, neither giving nor receiving. So one night when she was asleep I went down on her and she woke up moaning and ran her fingers through my hair and when she had an orgasm, she literally screamed and pulled my mouth so tightly against herself I could feel her pussy muscles spasm against my tongue and taste her silky nectar flowing. She couldn't talk or move for about 10 minutes after. The first time she gave me oral sex came out of the blue. We were making love and I was getting close. She was on top of me. As the feeling reached the climax point, she literally jumped off and starting sucking me and the feeling was so intense I thought my head imploded. But I was struggling because I didn’t know how she would react but she kept going till I exploded in her mouth but she didn’t stop and kept going. When she finally released me from her mouth she was grinning like the Cheshire cat, came up to my ears and whispered, “your semen tasted amazing and now it's going to be absorbed into my body and you'll always be in me and with me.” I cannot explain how loved and special what she said made me feel. One day, she was getting ready to go to work and I couldn't stop myself from just throwing her down and taking her, she had no time to wash up again so put her panties on smacking my arm telling me how terrible I was and rushed out to work. That day she would send me texts say things like, “OMG, I can feel your semen inside me and it’s making me so horny.” The last message was, “be home in 45 and you better be ready cos I am going to fuck your brains out.” K is usually not so graphic with her words but this shows you how turned on she was and yup, when she got home I was punished adequately 
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#28
23-09-2024, 02:58 PM
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Enjoy it to the fullest. Explore all your fantasies and kinks. Trust me... there's a ticking clock, marriage and baby will probably come, and come quick once it starts. You... esp her... will be very tired once that journey starts. Enjoy your youth now, make memories... screw screw screw...😆
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#30
23-09-2024, 10:00 PM
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Re: How We Got Together
Fuck, i have a crush on a friend too, knew her since sec school, for 18 years already, but our contact is very on and off.
Was having r/s issue when she came back into my life on my bday after my insta post. She said something that struck me good and i guess it started there kinda, my ex broke up with me a few days later so i guess i didn't cheat...? Then we kept in regular contact since and I've help her with her work since i'm the only one she knows who can do that stuff. At first i thought i was just being used but i cannot help being, i wouldn't say attracted but well, attracted to her. Then, finally, i think we asked each other out mutually, since we haven't met for a long time and some of the work is easier done together. I got more excited, not like super excited but there's something stirring, as the day got closer. And when im showering before heading out, my brain just go full R and said "im going on a date!" to which i had to tell it to STFU and stop being stupid. I met her, alone for the first time and god i can only say she's so womanly now (was tomboyish back then) and for weird reason i am comfortable with her as it goes, like actually comfortable. I didn't freeze in silence much and things flowed well. We have lunch, then work and urgh her side view when she's focused. We met more, both alone and with a mutual friend quite a lot since and she's quite open in talking to me about many stuff. We play games a lot with each other and all. But here's the kicker, she calls me brother and have quite openly told me im bro-zoned. So yea, on hand i don't know what to do, sometimes the liking goes away but the moment she messages me it's back. Being with her is so comfortable, even in total silence it's not awkward, i've never felt that way before in such entirety. I know i left out a lot of details but im also kinda tired so yea. Maybe i might make a thread for proper advice, but i guess i wanna leave this here first.
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