Goodbye sbf after 12 years

[coffeeo]

I figured this would be the most appropriate forum to post this here. haha

First heard of this sbf forum during my part-time job before my JC started... from the older "ah-beng" type co-workers who were describing it and sharing on their own "adventures" . curious me went home and surfed and was very intrigued by all the information about FLs, WLs, massage... it was like opening up a world of possibilities. even though i was very curious, i deliberated for many months before i took the plunge... and one fine day decided to walk in and try my first "special" massage and never looked back. i am quite at a beefy, tall stature and matured faster than my peers so the ladies did not think of me as a 'xiao didi' and reject me at the door, thankfully. i walked out thinking: "wow, this will not be the last time."

It was also when i made this account as I soon realised, some gem spots (or playgrounds as some old samsters called it) will not be stated in the threads and they would only give to trusted samsters. doing my part to also find playgrounds to share... Also started to be more daring and try FLs in apartments which was another thrill in itself, and even pop by our neighbour JB to try the cuisine across the causeway.

This was how I lived my life for years, up until right during COVID period where i got hitched. I transitted from a poster to go back as a regular reader and then eventually I hiatus for months as we moved our relationship very fast and marriage woes from living together came. I then came back to SBF as it's a good place to read about what fellow samsters are facing in their relationship so it can give me new perspective about my situation.

A major thing changed in me when the Mrs and I discovered she was pregnant at the Q1 of this year. And then, it was as though a flip has switched in my brain, all my relationship problems look so small now and I just wanted to focus on being a good parent.

I look back at the beginning of when I discovered this sbf forum and the good times when I was a young fresh faced man. and now I am ready to close this chapter. to all the Samsters and Boss here, thank you and all the best!

signing off,
coffeeo