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Re: Met someone online but I'm married
They do. Just haven't met the right one to appreciate them yet.
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bro, chanced upon this thread while watching Olympics. I'm married too with a kid 1.5 yr old. Last yr for some reason i got too attached to 1 thai FL, felt too comfortable with here i guess.
During her last week in spore, i will buy singha beer for her and try to book her last session for the day so i can stay overnite with her. I will bring my laptop for her so she can log in to her FB and keep in touch with her family. Her little sis knows wat she's doing in spore but not her mother. From first overnite with her onwards, it's not about physically but emotional. I look forward for her company (who wouldnt, young syt who has to work in this line becoz she's poor). Even after she goes back to thailand, i added her as a fren using separate account in FB and i browsed her status update and msgs daily hoping to see her reply. As time goes on, frequency drops and slowly i don even log in anymore. Bro i think this will happen to you too no worries, it won last. After that i've been thinking why/what happened to me. It can be anybody, it does not have to be her., it can be someone like her (there are at least 100k out there). It is the feeling that i am seeking, good news is it nv last. hehe. Of coz, i still love my wife very much, even then and now. That time i just want to try what it is like. I nv had paid sex bfore marriage. My wife's still good, just a bit lazy who keep complaining to want to quit her job. And bro, if u would allow some feedback.... From what you have described,and if it's not talked from spur of emotion-> "I'm fucking sick and tired but I'm trudging on for the sake of my kid. I'll concentrate on my career n concentrate on earning that first million and shall care less about other things". What i feel is, this might not be the most healthy way to approach this. You are just tolerating and it will explode. Your dominant thoughts, the way you act and talk, your kid will absorb everything. In view of this, hope you will feel the urgency to do something.. 1st, forget about your wife. You cannot change her. Forget about changing her for now. She can only help herself, accept that it's out of your control for now. 2nd, You're sick and tired mentally, because of unrealistic expectations of your wife. If.. if you can lower your expectation of her a little bit, you will feel more relaxed. 3rd. Acknowledged that your are selfish if you seek appreciation from your wife. Real selfless intent do not harbour such strong appreciation wants, like doing charity work for the disabled? Do you expect them to thank you with tears in their eyes, no right? lastly.. it's all in the mind bro.. you can do the housework with a smile or with a sour face. You can choose to.. really. it's the thoughts "why is she not helping bla bla bla, why why why am i doing this" that is the culprit. Cut down on such thoughts. Bro this is the best i could muster for now.. coz im still training. remember that this is for the good for your kid. You would want your home to be warm and not full of quarrels. You cannot change your wife, you can only change yourself. If you really can achieve this.. it's the best present to your child. I sense that you are the more giving party to the relationship. It's tough, persevere for your kid. own nagging: Now i do the sweeping/mopping of floor. I also do all the cooking, and i started to learn baking bread and cakes. My wife just eats and sometimes help to clean the dishes (she nv cooks, at the start she cannot even start the stove properly). Sometimes i do get angry, but not at my wife coz i don expect her to help. I get angry at the bread dough and my own clumsiness, and the hot weather. |
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Re: Met someone online but I'm married
Rules for a Happy Marriage
1. Never both be angry at the same time. 2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on Fire. 3. If one of you has an arguement, let it be your mate. 4. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly. 5. Never bring up mistakes of the past. 6. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. 7. Neglect the whole world rather than each other. 8. At least once everyday try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your Life's partner. 9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for Forgiveness. 10. It takes 2 to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking. |
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Learn the art of stepping back and giving in. The Art of Blissful Marriage is being understanding for the sake of Love and Commitment. |
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For the believer, proof is not necessary. For the skeptic, no proof is possible~* |
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You have been hurt badly?
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Even if a nymphomanic that comes along playing "master mind games" please don't take it as a weakness, conquer it and be the player on the player. *YAWN* Crawling back to my cave and sleep, the stars from my mountain are so bright tonight. Have to wake up 8.30am tomorrow and do my morning prayer.*yawn*.
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. . Learn to... be what you are, and learn to resign with a good grace all that you are not.
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