Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[milfmilf]

that trick for younger guys
ok better let go them a live road for decent gals

[MIFAcafe]

Decent girls does not meant they are dumb or easy to hook. Maybe it is them whom give us a live road. 👹

Especially some that hardly got bfs.

Originally Posted by milfmilf

that trick for younger guys
ok better let go them a live road for decent gals

[volcano]

Originally Posted by SingViet

It really depends on which segment of society you are mixing with. For the normal Viets, an IPhone 6 is already something very expensive. For the higher income viets, Iphone 6 is nothing. Same goes for cars, for the normal viets, having a bike is already a luxury, but for the higher income viets, it will depend on the value of the car. Same goes for Singapore, the rich will view MB E250 as B & B car as its all over the roads. Their Bentley will be something of better value. For the rich in Singapore, 2m condo is normal too as their penthhouse may cost around 20m. So different segments of society have different expectations. No matter what, as long as you have worked hard for it, you deserve the respect.

yes....Iphone 6 is nothing in the eyes of the super rich...

super rich are using Vertu...and using "power" phone number that is worth $50k-$100k Usd

Iphone 6 only able to attract attention from VBs working in service industry

[KangTuo]

who will you choose?
WL with heart of gold, no bad habit (i.e gamble, drink) and not playful
Decent girl who got evil thinking, big spender and got bad habit

who will you date if you cannot commit?
WL
Decent girls

who will you bonk with terms and condition?
WL
Decent girls

who will you want to be life partner?
WL who will turn out to be good bx (seen enough and wanted stable life)
Decent girls who slowly turn bad (just exposed to the real world so slowly learn bad stuff)

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

who will you want to be life partner?
WL who will turn out to be good bx (seen enough and wanted stable life)
Decent girls who slowly turn bad (just exposed to the real world so slowly learn bad stuff)

very difficult to tell how sincere the WL is ...
a vb I know was in the trade for a short period and long to stay away and indeed stopped for many months ... but still she seems to be hiding something

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

who will you choose?
WL with heart of gold, no bad habit (i.e gamble, drink) and not playful
Decent girl who got evil thinking, big spender and got bad habit

who will you date if you cannot commit?
WL
Decent girls

who will you bonk with terms and condition?
WL
Decent girls

who will you want to be life partner?
WL who will turn out to be good bx (seen enough and wanted stable life)
Decent girls who slowly turn bad (just exposed to the real world so slowly learn bad stuff)

Not all decent gals will slowly turn bad and only a small number of WL will have seen enough and wants to get their life straight.

We need to know what made the gal become a WL. Most of the time, it will be family burden that made the gal become WL . Their family members will be used to a lazy life after being fed by the WL daughter for a long time. Choosing a WL who has seen enough and wants to get her life straight is a GOOD CHOICE but she has to be able to handle the demands of her family. Her family has to be able to go to work and support themselves. Next thing is , how do you know the WL you have chosen as wife has seen enough? Its like a gamble unless you have been through a long time with her to have observed that. Most WL will propose marriage to the Singaporean man in the shortest period of time after meeting him .

Decent gals, if able to remain decent in such environment in VN, has less likelihood to turn bad. The family should be quite strict or she has the thinking of remaining good. I remember when i was in VN, i had some good time with 2 University students in i met on the internet chat room. They were looking for foreigners to support them (both of them together). When i met them for twice a week for bonking, they told me its 1 million VND per session (for both of them) . They needed me to meet them twice a week so that they can earn 2 million a week. They ride good and new motorbikes, looks decent, comes from middle income families but just wanted to earn some extra cash. If you look for decent gals and kana such type, then forget it.

Each type has its pros and cons. Channelnewsasia reported yesterday that transnational families face lots of problems in children's education , finances etc. My take is simple. if the foreign spouse stop sending money back to their village to build house, buy motorbike, brother's wedding etc, the Singaporean husband will not be so poor.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

how do you know the WL you have chosen as wife has seen enough? Its like a gamble unless you have been through a long time with her to have observed that. Most WL will propose marriage to the Singaporean man in the shortest period of time after meeting him .

You said right..."Gamble"...the moment you get involved is a gamble...only time can tell the future...dun rush into marriage...big mistakes to rush into marriage without observing a relationship...

when dealing with VB...best let relationship lasts more than 2 years...my observations many relationships cannot last longer than 6 months...

a person marriage is fated....whether your wife turns out good or bad is karma of your parents and your previous life...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

whether your wife turns out good or bad is karma of your parents and your previous life...

interesting... how is it related to parents previous life?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

i had some good time with 2 University students in i met on the internet chat room. They were looking for foreigners to support them (both of them together). When i met them for twice a week for bonking, they told me its 1 million VND per session (for both of them) . They needed me to meet them twice a week so that they can earn 2 million a week.

They come seperately or in a package?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

They come seperately or in a package?

Bro, they come in a package. Cannot just take 1 as they are good friends. Those were the cheongong days.

[MIFAcafe]

Life is like gamble all along.

People you meet together with knowledge and experience we can make better judgement and improve our odds.

Just like this thread......
A lot of sinkees dare to married a VB thinking the BX is some ordinary babe.

My cousin married a 31 year old VB in 2013. I did not know until we met at my frequent coffeeshop. She was speaking in TV over the phone saying my cousin do not like working and give her very little money.

I ask my cousin "Do you know what she is saying....? She say you not working and give a very little money". I speak in cantonese so her bx cannot catch.

When my cousin question her then she realise there are someone whom can understand TV sitting in this table. Next thing you know she is walking away and continue talking at a distant.

This type of woman......... haizzzzz........

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

My cousin married a 31 year old VB in 2013. I did not know until we met at my frequent coffeeshop. She was speaking in TV over the phone saying my cousin do not like working and give her very little money.

This type of woman......... haizzzzz........

maybe the other party see she got foriegn husband and call to ask for money.. she reply them this way... then no hiazzzzz....

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, they come in a package. Cannot just take 1 as they are good friends. Those were the cheongong days.

kaoz... thru my chionging days, i only did a lousy xuanfei with stand street prc

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Most WL will propose marriage to the Singaporean man in the shortest period of time after meeting him .

I think its not only WL, it is Viet culture.
1) few vb i know also think 6 mths of relationship is long enough to get married. When i told them that my bx waites me for 6 years then marry, all of them say they will not wait that long.

2) few vb friends i know post in fb say marrying vn bf soon... try gown, book wedding place. but nearer to date, all arguement and breakoff.

3) my bx youngest bro also talk about marriage after knowing a vb after 3 mths. Planned the wedding after TET. my bx and whole family don't approve initially and asked him to observe for 1-2 years than say. but my bx bro insist.. LL all got to accept since the vb willing to learn amd convert to catholic. the whole family hope their marriage last

[elth]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I think its not only WL, it is Viet culture.
1) few vb i know also think 6 mths of relationship is long enough to get married. When i told them that my bx waites me for 6 years then marry, all of them say they will not wait that long.

2) few vb friends i know post in fb say marrying vn bf soon... try gown, book wedding place. but nearer to date, all arguement and breakoff.

3) my bx youngest bro also talk about marriage after knowing a vb after 3 mths. Planned the wedding after TET. my bx and whole family don't approve initially and asked him to observe for 1-2 years than say. but my bx bro insist.. LL all got to accept since the vb willing to learn amd convert to catholic. the whole family hope their marriage last

my friend know a gal from Hanoi.. the gal working as an english teacher + translator. they got to know each other from a skype group...and after 6 months they wanna get married next year my friend can speak very good TV