Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1484

KangTuo · #**22246** 03-02-2015, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

share another real story...just recent...

a VB who had been to sinkieland a few times brought her 16yr old younger sister to work..

recent only? Did you tell ss08 about your finding of this sssssyt?

KangTuo · #**22247** 03-02-2015, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by FireShark

Recently, saw few Vbs selling vegetables in Teck Whye.

only 1 short fat round milf vb sell vege leh... her language super proficient.

The shop selling under garment near the vege store also got vb
down the lane, outdoor medicure pedicure also vb
kopitiam beside the vege store also got a vb (super beer belly)... her language also super proficient.

Prime also got vb

this area (CCK, BtPJ, TW) many many many vb

curious76 · #**22248** 03-02-2015, 10:01 PM

Boon keng mrt market got a bkt that I know of. The stall owner hire a vietbu who work there for years. Just recently she went back to vietnam for good..

KangTuo · #**22249** 03-02-2015, 11:41 PM

Anyone employ maid to assist your bx in house chores and look after children?
Any problem faced due both maid and bx cannot comms?

smallplayer · #**22250** 03-02-2015, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

only 1 short fat round milf vb sell vege leh... her language super proficient.

The shop selling under garment near the vege store also got vb
down the lane, outdoor medicure pedicure also vb
kopitiam beside the vege store also got a vb (super beer belly)... her language also super proficient.

Prime also got vb

this area (CCK, BtPJ, TW) many many many vb

Actually quite a number of them come to Singapore for down to earth job.
Quite a number now work in bugis street who r on work permit.
I do know 2 personally: )

Their bosses now look to vn to get them to work for their shops there.

Pay is decent and have sufficient to send back Home.

smallplayer · #**22251** 03-02-2015, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Anyone employ maid to assist your bx in house chores and look after children?
Any problem faced due both maid and bx cannot comms?

Experience from a better close friend of mine who is a vn married to sg.
No issues reported.
Instead she helps to monitor the husband sometimes as the vn girl works almost 7 days a week to send money Home and earn her own keep.
Lucky one to have such a maid.
She does buy some tidbit for her occasionally.

smallplayer · #**22252** 03-02-2015, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Not all have better life when married oversea. Many do suffer also.
They are just betting to get better life, some lost some win.
i.e. read many news about vb married to Korea and Taiwan, treated like slave and flee back to vn.

Yeap.. That's why I said "or so they think"
But it's a shot worth to take. Because they know back Home..it will be as it is.

Some of them do get to find proper work here and send money Home.
Luckier ones get to be stay Home mom.
I do know quite a few in these categories.
Their bets have paid off.

smallplayer · #**22253** 03-02-2015, 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by redhill2

If Vietnam girls or PRC girls, they will be better treated with greater respect if they marry wealthy millionaires sporean-chinese businessmen.

Last time I ever done a survey among s'porean-chinese of various profile backgrounds....

But if you are a Malaysian, Pinoy, Burmese, Thai, you should stay in HDB and choose those landlords that are working-class sporean-chinese, they'll treat you with greater kindness and try to avoid staying with wealthy millionaires s'porean-chinese businessmen, they'll look down on you.

IMHO I never liked surveys..always an issue of sample size and composition.
For the sake of discussion...I think it's quite interesting.
Have you thought of reasons behind the points u Got?
Is it because of the work associated?
Or the stigma of what the people of that country?

smallplayer · #**22254** 04-02-2015, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by redhill2

An american once told me it is the same with Jews. The very wealthy American Jews are Very PRO-Israel and PRO-Israel-Jews and have very strong affinity with Isreal-Jews whereas the lower-income or working-class American jews tend to think they are more superior than the Israel-Jews and they tend to look down on the Israel-Jews and have weak affinity with the Israel-Jews.

I'm not smart but my 1 cent worth.
The case u said above stems from religion.

But the earlier case is about nationality.
It's a big different.
My humble point is...the rich looks at money. However certain rich nationals lack class and culture (lack of manners and ethics) and corruption. So this gives them trouble.
On the other hand..the normal people sees people from less developed countries as here to fight for work or worse...for the men.
There r high profile cases where prc and vn do That..so it's a stigma.

Back to the point of normal vb life partner... good eggs and bad eggs all have.
Cannot just brand one kind

Just my own thinking..u can don't agree.

Monopolistic · #**22255** 04-02-2015, 08:17 AM

Sorry to digress ... Anybody knows what time lupsup ktv cater for japs closes in hcm?

smallplayer · #**22256** 04-02-2015, 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by redhill2

you are dead wrong.
...........

Lol...I hope to be only wrong and not dead.

Anyway u see it from ur survey..I see it from the people I work with and know.
...sg and vn (as this is still about vn thread).
Everyone can have their own views.

But I been there myself, had job taken away.
And to me..I don't look at nationality...i blame the ft system as a whole.

curious76 · #**22257** 04-02-2015, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

but on the other hand...there are good family who still values customary ethics and family values...so you need to find them...

In fact most of her ex-colleague in bar condone her behavior to this married man. So I believe that this might be an isolated case. Do not know that I am so unlucky to met such girl in my life..

Hurricane88 · #**22258** 04-02-2015, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by curious76

In fact most of her ex-colleague in bar condone her behavior to this married man. So I believe that this might be an isolated case. Do not know that I am so unlucky to met such girl in my life..

They targeted you and you took the bait...the rest was easy job...

Always give little but take back plenty...is the best policy...

Monopolistic · #**22259** 04-02-2015, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Monopolistic

Sorry to digress ... Anybody knows what time lupsup ktv cater for japs closes in hcm?

The reason I asked this is because my gf in vn ever said she wants to work in ktv japan. But she assure me she wouldn't. But recently had been contacting her but she only reply at 12:30am Singapore time.

naemlo · #**22260** 04-02-2015, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Monopolistic

The reason I asked this is because my gf in vn ever said she wants to work in ktv japan. But she assure me she wouldn't. But recently had been contacting her but she only reply at 12:30am Singapore time.

Move on with another gf.