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02-06-2005, 12:02 AM
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wah~ sure tio shock sia..kenna the gal liddat "xian hai" will have alot of explaining to do..
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02-06-2005, 12:03 AM
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#213
02-06-2005, 12:32 AM
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i will be around till wednesday. let me know which night is best by email. cant wait... 
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02-06-2005, 12:48 AM
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02-06-2005, 05:14 AM
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#216
02-06-2005, 10:27 AM
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Why are we waiting !!!
How in the end is she pregnant ? Whats the ending All of us wants to know... Come on brother QUICK Must quicky go get 1 more pkt of chips and drink and continue to wait for ending U know what brothers ... Olden people say they rather offend 'Xiao Ren' than offend woman.. Woman can be very very ruthless when they turn the table against u.
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#218
02-06-2005, 02:32 PM
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Bros,
Very busy today...only able to write the following part....Will try to write more later if time permits.... “WHO WAS THAT??!!” My wife asked. “ER….er……that’s …that’s….Matt’s PA…..she joined us for drinks at the club earlier….?” I lied in a feeble attempt to reduce the disaster that’s unfolding itself… “Let me talk to HER!” My wife commanded….as I pulled out my earpiece and opened up my 9210i so it’s in ‘speaker’ mode…. “Who are you? Did I do something that offended you? Although we’ve met occasionally in social gatherings, I never knew you were the RUDE sort?” My wife rattled away and after what seemed like an eternity in silence, she replied “I’m just quite bothered that you keep calling Harrier so often when he already said he will buy you supper and be home soon! Do you derive pleasure from calling to check his whereabouts?!” “Hmm….interesting….MAY I know how you are related to us that you have to bother about what I say and do to MY husband? Is he so charming that you are smitten with him and am jealous that he has a loving wife at home waiting up for him?” My wife continued in a somewhat mocking tone……..
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#219
02-06-2005, 02:39 PM
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Wow, it is getting hot.
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#221
02-06-2005, 03:03 PM
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If this is the first time that you were caught "red handed"
 , there is some predictable scenario,1) Wife will trust the husband fully and due to business relation, there is no choice but to entertain so she will more or less trust you but will question your girlfriend's boss if she knows him. 2) Wife usually thinks that girlfriend is hitting on you so will meet up with your girlfriend and talk abt it. 3) Give you a super cold shoulder for a week and see judge how will you perform. If (1) were to happen, that depends on whether your friend(Mathew) will cover for you. But still you will be in deep shit. If (2) were to happen, you are in deeper shit but it all depends on what girlfriend tells your wife and if a statement like " harrier says he don't love u any but for the daughter's sake he is staying put " Worst case is a divorce but it depends on how you calm wife down to stay in the marriage and how you dump girlfriend over the phone infront of her. Wife may rethink about what she has done wrong in the relationship and maybe if it's worth the while you can still patch it. If (3) happens, sure gone case. Wife thinks its no fault of hers but its all your doing and responsibility. An informal seperation will begin at home and will lead to to legal seperation. Anyway, girlfriend thinks she is in a position to challenge your wife so all this will happen. Sometime its good to use girlfriend like tissue paper, use and throw or at least make her feel that way to instill a fear that anytime you might dump her. But common problem in man is that " It's just make us feel soooo good screwing a nice chick while we are married " We just want more and more or small brain are doing all the thinking. Ask yourself all the married man that is reading this episode, " don't we all want this to happen at least once in our married life ?? " Harrier, I can see the love, I can see the sex , I can see the thrill and now is to see the regret and pain and so on and so on. No matter what turns out, do not ever slack in your work cos there is the sweat, blood and pride that you have put in and build. In singapore, we are not judge by the size of our family, we are judge by the size of our company. When you have nothing left, your company is the only thing you can turn too. Cheers Sugardad p.s. provided you hav got no new "off-spring"
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#222
03-06-2005, 01:09 PM
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“Well…..i must say that HE is a charming man and I’m definitely attracted to him. So I’m gonna fight with you for his attention and see if he can waver to me!” With that I decided that it was gonna be a never ending bicker and I could really suffer for it. Hence, I plugged in my earpiece and closed the phone cover and said “ Tell you what, I’ll talk to you when I get home…..should be back in 15 mins or so….Bye…” “OK, bye…”
After hanging up the phone, I yelled “ What the hell do you think you’re trying to prove? Why did you have to do that???!!!” “I just couldn’t control anymore, you know how much I love you and how much I need you…….I couldn’t bear to see you in pain whenever she calls….!” “BULLSHIT! That is pure BULLSHIT!!! You were trying to wreck my marriage so that she would file for divorce and hence I’d be with you? How thick could you get?!” “……..er………” She was rather speechless as she’s never seen me blow my top before. I continued “ I despise it when you do things your typical self-centred way to achieve whatever you want….BUT we’re dealing with delicate emotions here and if you take a simpler and more passive method…things will work out better, don’t your agree?” “Well, passive styles would work for you BUT I have been very patient already!” As I stopped my car outside her gate, I said coldly “Tell you what, talk 2 you tomorrow when you’ve cooled down…I’m tired anyway…..BYE” “NO! I do not want you to go home! Stay with me…..please!....” She begged as I could see tears welling up again….. “NO! I cannot and will not! Please be rational and we could get the best out of this situation if we all deal with it in a COOL manner…..” I lowered my tone in an attempt to pacify and calm her down. “NO! If you do not stay with me….Then I refuse to get down and I'll follow you to your home!!!!” 
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#223
03-06-2005, 01:18 PM
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Well said Sugardad!
Well.....I'm definitely for the work part as I've built my companies almost from scratch and will definitely not sacrifice them for the sake of a woman. But having that said, it's sometimes rather difficult to focus when you have these emotional problems...... Sigh. To be absolutly honest, I will still say i would love to have a chick to hang around whenever i feel like it BUT MINUs the emotional shit....which becomes inevitable with the passing of time...... Btw, I will require more time to write as it's rather difficult trying to remember the exact contents of the quarrels and dramatic fights we had....... Please bear with me....
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#224
03-06-2005, 01:26 PM
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wow...serious stuff...is tis for real
 I think the best way to "steal eat" (cantonese direct translation) is to pay for it....no string attached....yah
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#225
03-06-2005, 03:25 PM
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I rem a married guy told me something
Courtship time, Yes there is true love but when married slowly from true love becomes responsibilty. AS time really really goes by, for men its only responsibilty more than love. AS long as he can provide bread for family, its good enuff. Not only men need a young chick to proof that he still got the charm but we gers also need to proof that we still got charm.
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