@nyrvana, most of the girls are ok being courted by foreigners, but i always state that this is a short term deal and i hv many girlfriends alr, so i dont even let them think about marrying, if they know u are single all the 'patterns' will come out liao.
@autoroam ofc its ok to go solo, in fact i prefer to go solo, so i wont hv the problem of 1 guy can find a girl and another cannot and feel obligated to go another place until he can a girl he likes
@nyrvana, most of the girls are ok being courted by foreigners, but i always state that this is a short term deal and i hv many girlfriends alr, so i dont even let them think about marrying, if they know u are single all the 'patterns' will come out liao.
@autoroam ofc its ok to go solo, in fact i prefer to go solo, so i wont hv the problem of 1 guy can find a girl and another cannot and feel obligated to go another place until he can a girl he likes
What type of patterns have you encountered so far? For me I told this bargirl that I like her (she look and behave like demure SG girl) but personally I do not believe in marriage because I like to play around, then she like say she want to find a nice guy to have 2 kids in the future, I hope she is not refering to me hahaha
I just feel that it is important to lay down all the expectations and rules, I really dont like using empty promises to woo them. I also want to avoid crazy confrontation situations in the future.
By the way, so far I dont really like to go solo, unless you intend to make friends with the other expats or tourist. I dont know, maybe I too talkative, the local Khmers most of them dont really have the same sense of humour as me hahaha
It is really scary to date a girl there and they ask you for marriage
Think most of us date them for gfe and sex.
Khmer know how to practise gongtau like thai? if yes then dangerous.
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i hv many girlfriends alr, so i dont even let them think about marrying, if they know u are single all the 'patterns' will come out liao.
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What type of patterns have you encountered so far? For me I told this bargirl that I like her (she look and behave like demure SG girl) but personally I do not believe in marriage
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I prefer to seek people for point exchange than ppl seek me.
It is really scary to date a girl there and they ask you for marriage
Think most of us date them for gfe and sex.
Khmer know how to practise gongtau like thai? if yes then dangerous.
Bro, personally I dont even believe in ghost, still scared gongtau meh?
No offence to bros who knows of friends or family who kenna before, but I personally never see before. I dont wanna debate, if any brother here believe in gongtau, then so be it loh. But then again, I am just a city dweller, maybe got gongtau I also dont know...
I just feel that, end of day, you let the girl know you are just there for flings, dont use "family/marriage" to lure them, should be no problem.
basically tries to squeeze as much money from u as possible in the shortest time possible have fun courting
Actually I did some reading/research about bargirls when I returned from Phnom Penh.
I feel that it is the same everyone, in SG KTV, china KTV, Geylang legal house, sometimes if you willing to let the girl take advantage of your kindness. then the person can only blame himself when in the end he is just one of the many roberts the girl is chopping.
I know this friend, 40+, have wife and son. He told me he spent over SG$10k buying luxury goods for a thai FL. Personally I wont do it, but as a friend, it is not my right to flame him for using such a strategy. In the end, the girl go back BKK bar to work, he told me he damn pissed off when she lied to him she already stop working at agogo bar.
This friend is a nice guy somemore, really sad to hear him tell me his story when he returned from Bangkok.
Sure, giving her some money is OK (with a decent salary, a small cash gift is fine), but I think we should all know where to draw the line when the girl starts to make use of us.
Bro, I hope you mean you like to cheong with guys, not cheong for guys hahaha
Eh guys, btw, anyone interested in going together on end of May? Samsters who are unfamiliar with Phnom Penh are welcomed, just PM me or indicate in this thread.
Bro gatwickjingjing, "I like nightlife with guys". Hope you didn't mean what Bro nyrvana is thinking
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Eh guys, btw, anyone interested in going together on end of May? Samsters who are unfamiliar with Phnom Penh are welcomed, just PM me or indicate in this thread.