Keeping your own pocket money

[Tiger Beer]

You can try the following :

1. Open different bank account (say UOB) and use your mother's house as mailing address. Salary say go into POSB account.
2. Arrange with your Finance Manager to transfer all expenses claim for car park, transport, lunch entertainment, overseas expenses etc into UOB account. When she kaypoh asks why, say to monitor all the expenses separately lor. And bring your FM to her favourite sushi bar and to "bribe" her !
3. To counter wfe question, say that expenses claim paid separately.
4. On monthly basis, transfer from UOB to POSB (amount you decide) to do your own "balancing act", to show at least there's reinbursement from company for expenses.
5. Don't get caught !!!!!!

Hope it works for you. It works very well for me. Always got spare cash to use.

[Tiger Beer]

Originally Posted by siamkia1977

Apply another account. eg: posb or uob.
UOB no monthly statement send to ur house.

Btw, u can open an account at SingPost. Send all your private doc. or letter to that address. Can keep ur ATM card inside that box as well..

One of my friend every week going down to Orchard Post Office collect his "confidential" letter. His situation same as u bro.

The problem is where to keep the key. My OC found the key in the car, duplicate the key w/o me knowing. Luckily, my secret bank account letters send to my mother house. The mailbox only for other things and occassionally ask PRC send me their photos.

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by ct75

....Dont be another carrot........

bro, i do understand where u r coming from and ur intention is morally n ehtically right. perhaps u may wanna cool down and PM the threadstarter for a beer chat over the issue. there's really no need to flame him. nobody wanna be carrot yet sometimes the temptations are irresitable. not everyone has a clear conscience when it comes to 'external affairs'.

to threadstarter,
i'm sure u hv a wonderful wife and outstanding career. why taking risks over a PRC? be it a FL or WL or woman-next-door, does it justify the risk? my pal, outside's grass is always greener but ur home is still the warmest. my advise is very simple, take it as f&f (fcuk and forget). trust me, plenty of PRC fishes on the pond and they r easily accessible.

paiseh for my poor singlish. i grad from I'ts The End (ITE). joking hor, no offence ya

jimbo

[ct75]

I am not flaming him. As I said in my previous other posts in other threads, I am acid tongue, brutally honest. I dont like to say things like I will support you brother, brother you take care. All the brother craps means nothing..... What he needs is a wake up call, yes he may be making a mistake, Im reminding him not to.

I dont ask for thank yous, I dont even care if you minus my points or etc... I only care that no samster here gets cheated.....

When people talk nicely to you, you tend to let your guard down, you tend to start making excuses for yourself. But when you hear harsh words, then you wake up to realities of this world.

I have seen so many friends die because of such affairs. Lawyers and Bankers now a shadow of their past glory. Their peers distancing from them cos their marriage failed, and the whole corporate world knowing that it was due to some PRC..... They became ashamed to be seen around.... To the threadstarter.... you want that???

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by ct75

I am not flaming him... To the threadstarter.... you want that???

bro ct75, seems like we share the same mentality (a bit harsh yet honest advice). however, u tend to lose out frens who are sensitive n petty. not everyone see the lights on ur kind words. not everyone can wake up by our wake up calls till they hit the bricks.

ur classical stories of losers are nothing new to me. i've seen it all and immuned to commercial sex. robert is no longer my first name, neither 'chai' is my surname. if the threadstarter cant take ur wake up call, let him taste the bitterness and a good lesson learned. hopefully he will come back here and buy us a beer

jimbo

[darkadvenger]

I agree with the bros here....having fun is ok lor....but dun throw too much $ into it...

anyway...i didnt mean to disagree with u... as a man..i can share ur view...just be careful...cheers

[itsabt6x]

Originally Posted by blue_swatch

Still, the wise saying by all brothers should be heeded, cheong with your small head not with your heart. Don't put feelings into those girls, they are just there for money.

Honestly to sacrifice your marriage for such girls are totally not worth it.

cant agree more...!!!

luckily me n wifey holds separate accounts....never belief in joint accounts in the 1st place....still, i hv a secret a/c...which are fed by co. expense reimbursement n year end ex-gratia payment.....

[snakehead]

Originally Posted by darkadvenger

i have my secret account opened under ocbc

Accounts opened under any bank in Sinkeeland is never secret. I opened mine in Switzerland.

bro snakehead

[hearthrob]

Originally Posted by see see only

1. Be helpful, alway pay for company and keep ur petty cash money secretly lor
2. Bet fball, win $$ keep aside, lose $$ honestly tell her. say friend ask to try try. Or u can lie say u bet, but traf $$ to friend instead.
3. many many more la, u can oso traf to my posb acc, tell her ur friend borrow $$ from u. Me can help explain to her my sad situation. btw 20% commission
4. Best of all. fcuk and forget, be soft to her (ur new found love) now is actually been hard on urself in the future. think many many time.

Thanks for your reply bro. Eventhough I may only take heed of your advise on the 4th point, I'll keep a note to add to your rep points.

[hearthrob]

Originally Posted by siamkia1977

Apply another account. eg: posb or uob.
UOB no monthly statement send to ur house.

Btw, u can open an account at SingPost. Send all your private doc. or letter to that address. Can keep ur ATM card inside that box as well..

One of my friend every week going down to Orchard Post Office collect his "confidential" letter. His situation same as u bro.


Good luck

My heartfelt thanks to your reply bro. I'll add on to your rep points as soon as the cycle comes around.

[hearthrob]

To all the bros who had replied, be it informing me some good methods or some encourgaing words or even wakeup call, my sincere thanks to all of you. I'll add to your rep points when the cycle turns around.

[hearthrob]

Originally Posted by jng1103

bro ct75, seems like we share the same mentality (a bit harsh yet honest advice). however, u tend to lose out frens who are sensitive n petty. not everyone see the lights on ur kind words. not everyone can wake up by our wake up calls till they hit the bricks.

ur classical stories of losers are nothing new to me. i've seen it all and immuned to commercial sex. robert is no longer my first name, neither 'chai' is my surname. if the threadstarter cant take ur wake up call, let him taste the bitterness and a good lesson learned. hopefully he will come back here and buy us a beer

jimbo

No worries bro jng1103 and ct75, I am not at all offended. In fact, I am gateful for your wake up call. I should really simmer down and spend more time with my wife....

[susuyamyam]

Bro,

take the other's advice, just f&f. I was almost in the same boat as you are.
broke off with ex. felt down. biz trip to china.....
went ktv alone at night while drunk, coz the stupid ang moh and others are too nerdy to ask them to join me.

had fun in ktv, well kinda.. coz me so fucking drunk and horny cannot remember wat shit i asked for, or maybe i so chin chai and let the two gals order the drinks. Eyed one of them. at the end of the day, fucking bill comes to RMB15k... thats like Sgd3k dude.

but manage to bed one of the gal, she claim 21 (she really looked young), student and stuff. Said i'm the second guy in her life, felt touch, wanted to go back to take care of her... well can feel she was nervous when i bonked her... raw somemore... shit... (must be case of small head taking over big one.. while i fucking drunk).

Came back.. wake my big head up. DAMN i'm stupid. So now i'm taking a break from bonking... need to go check up. and most importantly i manage to forget abt her. Coz after reasoning..... hmm i find that if she really cares or wanted a r/s or so called sugar daddy, she wouldn't have ordered the most expensive cocktail in the house right? To add further, after bonking the next day, she told me i'm the second dude in her life after her bf in uni. And asked me to look her up on my next trip, buy her laptop and ask me not to waste my fucking money in the club.

Now.... come to think of it, i think she wanted to slaughter me or MAYBE not or MAYBE she is sincere. BUt wat the heck.... i'm gonna F&F. Think she mentioned her family is ok doing and she dun felt like studying further... felt for her but... life is a fuck mess, forget and live on

So bro, take the heed,,,,, just fuck and forget.

[hearthrob]

Originally Posted by susuyamyam

Bro,

take the other's advice, just f&f. I was almost in the same boat as you are.
broke off with ex. felt down. biz trip to china.....
went ktv alone at night while drunk, coz the stupid ang moh and others are too nerdy to ask them to join me.

So bro, take the heed,,,,, just fuck and forget.

Thanks bro susuyamyam for your sound advise. I've taken heed of the advises and perhaps if I drowned myself with works for the time being, I can forget about her....

[ct75]

Originally Posted by susuyamyam

Bro,

take the other's advice, just f&f. I was almost in the same boat as you are.
broke off with ex. felt down. biz trip to china.....
went ktv alone at night while drunk, coz the stupid ang moh and others are too nerdy to ask them to join me.

had fun in ktv, well kinda.. coz me so fucking drunk and horny cannot remember wat shit i asked for, or maybe i so chin chai and let the two gals order the drinks. Eyed one of them. at the end of the day, fucking bill comes to RMB15k... thats like Sgd3k dude.

but manage to bed one of the gal, she claim 21 (she really looked young), student and stuff. Said i'm the second guy in her life, felt touch, wanted to go back to take care of her... well can feel she was nervous when i bonked her... raw somemore... shit... (must be case of small head taking over big one.. while i fucking drunk).

Came back.. wake my big head up. DAMN i'm stupid. So now i'm taking a break from bonking... need to go check up. and most importantly i manage to forget abt her. Coz after reasoning..... hmm i find that if she really cares or wanted a r/s or so called sugar daddy, she wouldn't have ordered the most expensive cocktail in the house right? To add further, after bonking the next day, she told me i'm the second dude in her life after her bf in uni. And asked me to look her up on my next trip, buy her laptop and ask me not to waste my fucking money in the club.

Now.... come to think of it, i think she wanted to slaughter me or MAYBE not or MAYBE she is sincere. BUt wat the heck.... i'm gonna F&F. Think she mentioned her family is ok doing and she dun felt like studying further... felt for her but... life is a fuck mess, forget and live on

So bro, take the heed,,,,, just fuck and forget.

When I was in Japan for business, I learnt this from my Japanese contact over there. He told me of this pretty new trend called duck clubs in Japan. Basically due to bad economy, many young men are turning into becoming ducks or male hostesses in clubs for women. These guys are young and handsome and have heard that their looks can beat any Japanese actor in the market now.

Hence these OLs or office ladies come to the club for the experience. They are targeted by individual ducks who befriend them. The next step would then to tell them not to waste money by coming to the club but have a "love affair" instead. Of course needless to say what happens next is the girls get their life savings cleared out by these ducks. Doesnt the mode of operation sound just about the same??? Ask you not to waste money go to the club so that she can devour you all by herself.....