Sex life after marriage.

[Yellowman]

One of the reasons why I am here lor...but I just read and contribute only la...

[steelhorn]

Ahoy there! Looks like 是你上了贼船。ha ha..
But welcome your embarkation to another ship here.
Ship of love. If you are lucky.

[safeskin]

Thanks for all.the feedback from alll the bros here.

seems am not the only one going through. At times I wanna let her know we men jaf urges. But knowing her, female will.say wht abt me? Seems like females have a few.winning statement. Once they say liao. Win liao loh!!!

Hj? Tht has nvr happen becuase it takes along time milk me. Hand pain or hand numb. She just give up. Even massages lady find it . tiring to milk me.

Wonder how long can I control from FL or GL. Trying my best not too...

[R32wanfun]

Then they women blame us go curi makan?

[Ecuader]

Originally Posted by clapton

My wife is similar

Before married always willing to fuck, and foreplay a lot, BBBJ or sometime CIM.

After married, no more BBBJ & CIM, said what, I don’t know why u ask me to do this, do you love me, do u know how dirty it is… etc

B4 marriage is just like campaigning for election.
After marriage cos you voted. LOL

[Steley]

My didi is rusty n cover with spider web

[sammyboyfor]

Marriage isn't about sex. It's about companionship.

[safeskin]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Companionship and ajust marriage's about companionship.

I do agree marriage is about companionship and not just making love. But spending more time on fb and shopping online. Then to spend time chatting or just sitting beside each other. Last time was farmville now its shopping.

[LouisV]

Bro, there are a few threads on spanish fly. Y dun u try that?

[safeskin]

Originally Posted by LouisV

Bro, there are a few threads on spanish fly. Y dun u try that?

Am actually considering tht. But to try it without letting her know or to let her knw. Thts the tricky part. If to ask her first, surly the ans is No. Been doing research and there seems to be some side effects but thts base on individual. Doing more research into it.

[maxman]

A dwindling sex life and libido in marriage, especially after your kids are born, is not uncommon.


An interesting article: Happy wife, happy life, says a recent study.

It concludes that when the wife is unhappy, sex stops. Then again, the same happens with our girlfriends as well.

http://www.nj.com/healthfit/index.ss...s_ study.html

[LouisV]

Originally Posted by safeskin

Am actually considering tht. But to try it without letting her know or to let her knw. Thts the tricky part. If to ask her first, surly the ans is No. Been doing research and there seems to be some side effects but thts base on individual. Doing more research into it.

The testimonial seems quite real, but no doubt its gd to do your own research.

[MoJoe313]

Sounds familiar. But i think i managed to turn it around.

1. Talk to her on your needs. Be candid enough to say if you can't eat at home, you may have to eat outside and thats not what you want. She needs to understand a man is built differently. If men have no drive, mankind would have ended eons ago. Its not your fault for needing it.

2. Dont bother asking for it on normal week nights. She is tired, you are tired.

3. Have a fixed date night once a week. I have mine every friday night. Next day dont have to work. Not so stressed.

We force ourselves to go out for dinner, a movie, drinks or clubbing. Dump the kids at home. Make it sensual and interesting. Dont go kopi tiam lah. Bring her to a romantic place, choose a sexy dress for her. Then have sex when home or outside.

Once it becomes a routine, you will get it every Friday night. When you two get into the swing of this, weekend also becomes automatic.

4. You should not eat outside especially if you have kids. Kenna caught only is finished.

Good luck!

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by safeskin

Thanks for all.the feedback from alll the bros here.

seems am not the only one going through. At times I wanna let her know we men jaf urges. But knowing her, female will.say wht abt me? Seems like females have a few.winning statement. Once they say liao. Win liao loh!!!

Hj? Tht has nvr happen becuase it takes along time milk me. Hand pain or hand numb. She just give up. Even massages lady find it . tiring to milk me.

Wonder how long can I control from FL or GL. Trying my best not too...

Must be tactical lah. My kids got rabbits. So i showed her, See, it is always the male rabbit chasing after the female rabbit to hump her. Never the other way round. Same for dog. Same for man. Its just the way God made us. The male species always have a stronger drive. So if she cant help you unload, you have to go unload elsewhere....

[kjjsexy]

Hi!

I'm a lady in mid-30's with kids and wanna seek your take on this. My situation is complete opposite. My hubby in his 40's isn't interested to have sex with me on a regular basis, but prefers to masturbate. I'm decent looking and slim though. I wonder why he isn't interested in me sexually.