Soft easily! any tips to stay longer

[pleasurehobby]

Originally Posted by dong42

I am 42yo Mix and I have sex regularly.

Recently, I find that my man meat get soft after 5 mins. I used to last at least 25-40mins. It is frustrating.

What is my problems?

Is there any treatment?

Any tips to stay longer?

Thank you guys for any input...

There are too many possibilites for the causes of ED.

The top 2 are often stress and genetic.

My opinion is always to adopt a more wholistic approach.

This means a well balance lifestyle and diet with minimal stress.

On the long run, this will allow the cells in our bodies to regenerate better and increase the overall quality of our DNA.

[freezetheDB]

Bro stay out of meds and only use as last resort.

Sex is mind and body.
Keep your body healthy with exercise and moderate diet

Keep your mind aroused and interested. Sometimes its really because you feel abit bored thats why go soft after awhile.

When we are younger they call it siao chong nao (your sperm flood your brain) thats why it overrides the mind and we get erections easily. Now at the age where many things are no longer that fresh the mind becomes less easily satisfied.

[fluffykite]

Originally Posted by dong42

I am 42yo Mix and I have sex regularly.

Recently, I find that my man meat get soft after 5 mins. I used to last at least 25-40mins. It is frustrating.

What is my problems?

Is there any treatment?

Any tips to stay longer?

Thank you guys for any input...

Hmm.. depends.. does it get soft with the same lady or it reacts like that will all ladies?

If same lady (wife/gd/fb) i think it's lack of freshness like one of the bros said... try taking things easy, foreplay longer... toys/roleplay/ go hotel instead of at home.

or u r too tensed... go for a holiday and recharge. Staycation also can.
No HP/No SMS day might help.

If all go soft even with diff ladies..young n old... then.. try to PCC with porno.. if porno works but real thing doesn't then.. its in the mind..
close ur eyes n imagine during sex n see if it helps.. if not role play..

if not I dunno liao.. see dr?

In my opnion, most issue of staying hard.. is in the mind...
Maybe its stress... but for me it's diff... the more stressed i am the more horny i am...
but some of my frens... more stressed cannot perform then the vicious cycle starts...

[nawtythings80]

try to go for authentic zua gen... it does help

[pleasurehobby]

Originally Posted by dong42

I am 42yo Mix and I have sex regularly.

Recently, I find that my man meat get soft after 5 mins. I used to last at least 25-40mins. It is frustrating.

What is my problems?

Is there any treatment?

Any tips to stay longer?

Thank you guys for any input...

Top 3 most important tips:

1. Exercise more, (cardio is more important, its all about stamina... right?)
2. Balance and well rounded diet (manys bros fail to realise this with too much junk food)
3. Less porn (often overlooked, over mental stimulation can be as bad as over physical stimulation)


Just sharing the years of feedback and experience.