Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by THISISSPARTA!!!

From her actions, I can tell that she's just with me for the money but I don't know why I just dun tell her to F off. She treats me hot & cold.

Anyway, money can be earned back (or paid back with 0% interest within 6months), but being "played" I can't quite accept. I am quite worried that some things in my house may go missing. But i doubt that will happen.

The moral of this story is: "THISISSPARTA!!! IS STUPID!!! Maybe I should have registered "IAMSTUPID!!! better.

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NO.....You should register the Nick as "GONG Kia" Joking joking

This gal confirmed only want money from you. So dont waste your time and money on her...not worth it...

I would say 99% of the Viet gals working here, are because of money or family problems..etc... Even now you can give her S$3k, what about next few months? another $3K?? Dun be silly! Money is always a problem to them!! But they dont know everyone in this worlds, needs money as bad as them!!

Not all the Viet gal are "BAD" and money face, Personally I encounter a number of good viet gals.....You should test water first before jumpping into the hole. Wasting money is not a big issue, is the time wasted and the feeling cheated by those gal make you real sad and TU Lan!

Kick her off asap to avoid a "BIG" hole in your pockect ^_^

Just my two cents comment..

Cheers VK('',)

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by THISISSPARTA!!!

She started with "let's be frens, dun talk about money", and I thought, wah, I so fortunate or I so "yan dao".

Almost all the viet WL starts off with no money involved. But very soon, the money issue will be raised. No matter in Vietnam or in Singapore JC, they are mostly the same. Who will be so stupid to give you a free fuck, especially when they fuck to survive......

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by THISISSPARTA!!!

Hi Everyone,

I am very new here. Went "googling" and was directed to this forum. I have yet to read this thread from start to finish. Decided to register and post here as i am facing some sort of problem. Maybe some Bros here can advice.

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Hey Bro, i dun think you are the only one who have encountered this before. There are no viet gals working in Singapore dun wan money. I can say it is very very difficult to find 1 who really loves you. Intially stage would be wanting money from you no matter they are from where, either from these KTV or even Vietnam Brides. Unless after years being together, maybe there are still a bit of hope, but not confirm and you would have spend a big fortune.

Even she really love you, you are also require to feed their family. Everytime problems would pop out of the blue, you will be throwing your money into an endless hole.

I also throwing money into an endless hole. In the initial stage really throw until i almost dry even to the extend to sell my things to get money. That was years ago, but now is better already after married for 2 years and my baby is 6 months old already. Must make her understand that we need money for our baby, both side is also her family. But who is her dearest? Of course her son.. Though now her family also every time needs money apart from monthly allowance which i've given them. I would not help much and my wife would even dun help much unless very important or famiy members sick or what..

I can say till now after years, if she still thinking of her family in Viet and not for her baby and family in Singapore. I think for me also can think of divorce already. Moreover i'm still young, my career path still very long.. And bro THISISSPARTA, what do you think for yourself? Dun have the heart to throw her away ah? Just find some quarrel out of the blues, then ask her to leave lor. Being with her for so long only bonk her once, didn't really makes your money worth. With the money you spend on her, i guaranteed you can bonk at least 10 - 30 good bonks till your little bro surrender..

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by THISISSPARTA!!!

So, I passed her 1.5K and told her the balance will be given to her before she leaves SG. And she stopped work. Here comes the best part: I told her she could move in with me! Stupid? Very.

Fast forward, she's been staying at my place for 1 week plus already. She will be leaving this friday. I only "up" her once nia. gong gong...

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Anyway, money can be earned back (or paid back with 0% interest within 6months), but being "played" I can't quite accept.

Bro, so you gave her $1.5K already, you should up her more. If you cannot tahan being played, I suggest you play her out also.

Since she is already in your house, F her till you think it worth of $1.5K (at least 15 times in 5 days ). Try out all you fantasy you have on her. Always let her have the thinking that you will give her the remaining $1.5k but on fri, just chase her out.

On saturday, you can look for us at sillypore little vn and use the $1.5K to treat us.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Bro, so you gave her $1.5K already, you should up her more. If you cannot tahan being played, I suggest you play her out also.

Since she is already in your house, F her till you think it worth of $1.5K (at least 15 times in 5 days ). Try out all you fantasy you have on her. Always let her have the thinking that you will give her the remaining $1.5k but on fri, just chase her out.

On saturday, you can look for us at sillypore little vn and use the $1.5K to treat us.

Bro, good piece of advice and same thing which I wanted to say....hahaha

[THISISSPARTA!!!]

Hello All Bros.

Thanks for all the advise and jokes and "suan-ing". Very much appreciated.
What some Bros said here actually knocked some sense into me. Some advise given, set me thinking. And some comments, truthful and frank as it is, still stung.

Actually I was contemplating not giving her the remaining money when she leaves, but now, thanks to all the motivation, I will NOT give the the balance 1.5K (but i also cannot treat u all go little VN lah. Money must pay back ah, got interest).

Anyway, let's hope all will be well when my "problem" leaves...

Thanks again.
Maybe I will update when she leaves.

[technofreak]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Always let her have the thinking that you will give her the remaining $1.5k but on fri, just chase her out.

Ermm...Think this not a good idea bro. Karma!! Better chase her out now n let her work the remaining days before she returns...

Originally Posted by v.killers

Not all the Viet gal are "BAD" and money face, Personally I encounter a number of good viet gals.....You should test water first before jumpping into the hole.

Too late he's already in the hole...Should bail out now to cut losses.

Originally Posted by SingViet

Who will be so stupid to give you a free fuck, especially when they fuck to survive....

Exactly master SV...This applies to all WLs actually The exception only being they are very in love with u (tio ur kong-tao)

[jackbl]

If u going to low-end pub, jio me. these 2 weeks i wil be watching EURO 2008 2.45am mostly at home

Originally Posted by boysaigon

me still resting...

will get my field days in about 2 weeks time

[jackbl]

Yeah, after i use vdict to find out the meaning, i realised that it is not so accurate. Then i go find long hair dictionary and got translated. She said that the person who write this sentence has good command of Vietnamese.... So how can i not up u? Give u 4 banh mi to ease your Hunger!!! Cheers!!!

Originally Posted by fullboost2bar

pls up my points if you know the meaning... Now translate to english got up or not..no up nevermind juz dun deduct

[Honey Boon]

that's a very expensive shot .....

Originally Posted by THISISSPARTA!!!

So, I passed her 1.5K ...............I only "up" her once nia. gong gong...

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by THISISSPARTA!!!

She started with "let's be frens, dun talk about money", and I thought, wah, I so fortunate or I so "yan dao". Needless to say, now i realise I am the stupidest person in SG. Soon, I was feeling down at the thought of her going to work as I know what these gals "Do" while working. So we had a quarrel as she did not really understand my sms. So we had a talk and she gave me the sob story about needing money for family. So i asked her how much she needed. I was willing to fork out around 1 - 2K just so she can stop work for the remaining 2 weeks. She say she needed 3K. Wah liao. I high liao, so i promised her that. But she had to stop work. She say ok. But come Monday, she say she want to go work. Then quarrel again. She say if she stop work then i dun give her money then how? I told her the money would be ready in a week's time. Then she replied "when u have money then i stop work" WAH. This was the signal that i should have recieved loud & clear for me to faster run away liao lor. But... hook, line & sinker lah.

So, I passed her 1.5K and told her the balance will be given to her before she leaves SG. And she stopped work. Here comes the best part: I told her she could move in with me! Stupid? Very.

Fast forward, she's been staying at my place for 1 week plus already. She will be leaving this friday. I only "up" her once nia. gong gong...

From her actions, I can tell that she's just with me for the money but I don't know why I just dun tell her to F off. She treats me hot & cold.


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Bro, there is no such thing as free lunch in this world. All Vn WLs coming to Singapore are here to earn $$$ and will resort to any tactics to achieve their objectives. If you had read some of the earlier posts then you will understand what I meant and how some brothers had went thru their ordeals.

Save your 1.5K and f**k her off now while you still can. Take the money and travel to Vietnam to find a good girl there or enjoy yourself with some of the brothers who always chiong HCM.

If you have time read the thread on Vietnam - HCM by brother xocturnal. I think you will find t useful and more fruitful.

** To all brothers, please help to up my points if you can and I shall return you the favour when I have enough power to do so.

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by THISISSPARTA!!!

Hello All Bros.

Actually I was contemplating not giving her the remaining money when she leaves, but now, thanks to all the motivation, I will NOT give the the balance 1.5K (but i also cannot treat u all go little VN lah. Money must pay back ah, got interest).

Thanks again.
Maybe I will update when she leaves.

Bro, balance of the 1.5k which other bros ask you to treat them, is just suan-ing you nia... Normally we cheong together with other bros, everyone got to pay a fair share on the total amount! So dont worries about that...

Good that you had make up your mind and choices! Lives still goes on...

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by technofreak

[COLOR="Blue"]Too late he's already in the hole...Should bail out now to cut losses.

Exactly master SV...This applies to all WLs actually. The exception only being they are very in love with u (tio ur kong-tao)

Nnkc...you are the first one, in our group to go inside KC trap first hor

Now even everynite time also must chu "ba-mi-ton"

[technofreak]

Originally Posted by v.killers

Nnkc...you are the first one, in our group to go inside KC trap first hor.

Now even everynite time also must chu "ba-mi-ton"

There's where you are wrong bro...I only lo-mancing her.

Money is seldom involved as she can earn her own money...At least i get to see n hug when I like. You are rightly the first one to fall in the KC trap...In SZ I suppose...

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by technofreak

There's where you are wrong bro...I only lo-mancing her.

Money is seldom involved as she can earn her own money...At least i get to see n hug when I like. You are rightly the first one to fall in the KC trap...In SZ I suppose...

NNKC....I am talking about Viet, now you talking about PRC in Viet thread?? KNS.....

ONLY lo-mancing and Money seldom involved meh Soon or later you will pay in different ways only Turtle dont laugh at tortise no hairs hor

SZ one? No worries man, I am too willing to help her

Dont talk too much cock, later see you in JC51 around 8.30pm or in AH Beng coffeeshop?

Cheers VK ('',)