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#31
13-07-2009, 05:06 AM
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i think it's best to use just the brain to snag the girl, using the heart word just makes u vulnerable to kc liao  personally i just view them as girls i want to bed simply and what's their price. whack until sian liao just move on.
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#32
13-07-2009, 09:32 AM
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In my personal opinion, when we go out to cheong, we should use our brains and those who feel for the opposite party will one day kenna because they are opening up their armour when they do that.
A lot of people will try to use their brains, but when they see the girl so poor thing, trying to help family lah, trying to earn money to do what lah... their small heads take over... Most of the girls who come here will know what they are in for and have a plan to make as much money as they can while they are here. Just like in the TS's case, the girl latched on to him as soon as he went in. One can only wonder how many guys she latches on to hoping to land that big kill. When they find out the guy is taken, they will "cry" and say that they are so unlucky not to have snagged the guy and how they love him... It moves the guy's heart mah.. But how fast can you fall in love? There may be love at first sight, but it is usually lust for us guys and the love of a walking ATM for the girls. Go out into any street and just pick any girl. If you like her looks and like her ways, you still got to go through the process of chatting her up, bringing her out and after a while, then you start to get physical. It is not a big hurdle to "hook" ang pai's in KTV. They have their ploy to see who is the alpha male or who is the walking carrot head. They will hold out from the other guys and target the carrot head. Then the guy will think "waaaahhh she chose me" and that is the start of the end. It is not only practiced over here, but in almost every KTV in the world. I kenna until I sian in BKK and PRC. And to top it off, sometimes they will even fight amongst themselves for the walking carrot head too, but by the time the customer hears about it, it will seem like they are fighting out of love. Guys... you are just their customer... Please remember that. Just see which girl you like, see how much you are prepared to pay, do it and forget it. If they want to play hard to catch with you, den just don play their game.. There are tonnes of them out there... They go back to VN and wherever and another batch will come. This is the game. Even no matter how many times you RTF, just always be prepared to drop her like a stone into the ocean at any time. Have fun and good luck.
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#33
13-07-2009, 10:09 PM
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Bro barlim21, bro DYBJ is not worked up la, that's the way he writes and in fact, that's the way he speaks too. If he is not bothered about your case, he wouldn't even post.
Nobody says you are a braggart, just that our contexts are quite different when it comes to what is known to be a 'player'. It comes to a single facet in your standpoint that had created the contrast, and that is that once you start to feel for WL/FL, you lost control liao. That means you're in it for hurt, no longer for fun. Problem is you can only discover this after the whole thing is over, or when the hurt already sets in. During that time, too late liao. Well, if you're already going for the next 'kill', just note this in stride. 
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#34
14-07-2009, 02:26 PM
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should haf made the right 1st move!!... lay all the cards on table!!..
let the gals know u r married/attached or watsover.. u should still stand a high chance of the gal sticking with u if u r good looking or well to do!!.. sometimes its the chemistry tat counts as well!!.. i had few VN n thai flings who does accompany me when my OC isnt around.. as long as we treat them well n treat them like human, they will have feelings for u.. but back in their mind, they noe that tis road isnt gonna lead them anywhere... so to break off its not tat bad..
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#35
14-07-2009, 06:34 PM
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everything seemed ok at 1st.. but after some time.. she also didn't accept the arrangement.. want to be PC herslef.. anyway, now everything also in a mess.. which is also another story on its own..
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#36
14-07-2009, 06:55 PM
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#37
15-07-2009, 06:12 PM
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let me recollect my thoughts before making another post on this.. =)
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#38
15-07-2009, 06:40 PM
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#39
02-09-2009, 09:31 AM
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I never tell her upfront about my PC. She surf SBF an found out about me and my vn PC. Initially she accepted to be 2IC. But her thinking changes when she came back. Finally she 'chia tay' with me. I guess she hates me now. Quote:
Nearly lost my vn galfriend of 3 years. Now I am also in a mess as I can't find anyone to replace my 2IC... still having flashes of thoughts about her. Quote:
gals are from venus, guys are from mars. 
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#40
21-09-2009, 12:09 AM
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Always pay for what u have eaten, no feel lunch in this world. If you find that food is good give tips. so u won't feel remorse, cus u paid for it!
But if going to find ons in local territory diff story..
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#41
21-09-2009, 12:19 AM
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Bro,
I am a pro in this. Trust me, she only wanted you because of your nationality and earning power. Tell her you're broke and that you're on Work permit making $1,800 a month and I'm sure she will slowly "unlove" you. I have been there, done that and had it all. Been in this stuff for about 20 years - since I was a teenager. Tiger2009
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#42
21-09-2009, 03:39 PM
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I agree with most of the advice dished out in here regarding the mentality to adopt when cheonging....
I do not know much about PRCs, Thai but i do have a fair bit of experience with vn gals. As has been discussed 1001 times in here, thread with care when u play. No matter how careful you are, there are always potential banana skins lying around in the "jungle". For myself, as one bro pointed out, I always reveal my cards. That is I am married and will never ever leave my OC for anyone. That way, I am being honest up front and if you want to carry on the game, then I'm in. If not then too bad. To address the TS, I can understand how you feel when you say that you feel bad that you might have broken her heart in the course of the relationship. However, to put it into perspective, how deep can you love someone with whom you have spent only such a short time with? I do not know about others and i just wanna speak for myself - that deep genuine feelings can only be developed with time. Still, so long as you are attached, this relationship will lead nowhere. No matter what she says , one day the issue of being recognised as a rightful partner of you will pop up- whether you believe it or not. I have had the benefit of getting out of the KC game not because i was able to stop in time but because the gal that i was involved got us out of it!!  This is what she said: I knew from Day 1 that you are married and attached. However, I want to be with you and i dunno why. Maybe its because over here in SG, i feel lonely and have no true guy friends with whom i can fully communicate with(speak vietnamese). Maybe its something I see in you.(not money here cos the only money I've spent are similar to what you would have spent for dates and definitely not looks cos I do not think I look good). However, as i spend more time with you, the more I realise that there is something wrong with what we are doing. Not that i want you to leave your wife but the guilt in me towards your wife accumulates. In addition, I feel that one day, I will still want to be recognised as your rightful partner. I do not want to wait for the day to come, the day when everything will be messy and ugly. Let's stop when things are sweet and loving. This way, we would only leave behind sweet memories that we keep in our heart and mind till the day we die.... P.S: This is not some story telling session and I have no intention to bullshit. So with that we ended our relationship sad but filled with memories of happy days and moments to which I recall every now and then. Last I have heard, she's getting married! I called her and gave my blessings!... So my point is, we are humans no matter how much of a beast we envisage ourself to be, feelings will be involved. It's how you control yourself that's important. Different people adopt different methods but at the end of the day, Just make sure the result is the same - that is not to be overtly devasted or financially broken from these relationships! You must know how to manage your emotions no matter how loving the moments might be... (hope I din go out of point)
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#43
21-09-2009, 05:51 PM
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plus point for bro who speaks tieng viet attack their weak point and they will be KC-ed
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#44
22-09-2009, 02:27 PM
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However, I must say that although we do get what we want at the end of the ordeal, and get out of it unharmed, Most of the times, the whole process can be emotionally and mentally draining!!
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