Single Life vs Married Life

[D-joker]

Please dont fall into this trap bro. I m serious. Your parents dont outlive you. Your friends is not sleeping with your wife or are they meeting your wife every day.

You and only you will face the consequence of getting marry. Alot of us have fallen into the trap of getting marry bcoz of peer pressure, loneliness, wanting to buy hdb, etc.

But when it comes to divorce, who is going to answer? Will your parents, friends or even the government help you? The answer is no. Even if they want to help, they also cant.

What is even worst is if you guys got a baby. WHo suffer the most. Its your kids.

And there are alot of factor which most of the singles dont know. Gf and wife is 2 different thing. Wife and Mummy is another different ball game. And when you marry her, you basically marry everyone in her family. And all their nonsense you have to tahan. You can tahan, your wife able to tahan your family or nt.

Then after marriage the peer pressure to have kids will come. Who is going to take care of them.

Think about your freedom please. They are damn precious. Think about the freedom of choice, the ability to do what you want because you can.

My advise, dont get marry, unless that girl is worth you taking the risk.

Wha

[Ngengheng]

Originally Posted by D-joker

Please dont fall into this trap bro. I m serious. Your parents dont outlive you. Your friends is not sleeping with your wife or are they meeting your wife every day.

You and only you will face the consequence of getting marry. Alot of us have fallen into the trap of getting marry bcoz of peer pressure, loneliness, wanting to buy hdb, etc.

But when it comes to divorce, who is going to answer? Will your parents, friends or even the government help you? The answer is no. Even if they want to help, they also cant.

What is even worst is if you guys got a baby. WHo suffer the most. Its your kids.

And there are alot of factor which most of the singles dont know. Gf and wife is 2 different thing. Wife and Mummy is another different ball game. And when you marry her, you basically marry everyone in her family. And all their nonsense you have to tahan. You can tahan, your wife able to tahan your family or nt.

Then after marriage the peer pressure to have kids will come. Who is going to take care of them.

Think about your freedom please. They are damn precious. Think about the freedom of choice, the ability to do what you want because you can.

My advise, dont get marry, unless that girl is worth you taking the risk.

Wha

Think about your freedom please. They are damn precious. Think about the freedom of choice, the ability to do what you want because you can.

Very wise advice indeed........

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by D-joker

Please dont fall into this trap bro. I m serious. Your parents dont outlive you. Your friends is not sleeping with your wife or are they meeting your wife every day.

You and only you will face the consequence of getting marry. Alot of us have fallen into the trap of getting marry bcoz of peer pressure, loneliness, wanting to buy hdb, etc.

But when it comes to divorce, who is going to answer? Will your parents, friends or even the government help you? The answer is no. Even if they want to help, they also cant.

What is even worst is if you guys got a baby. WHo suffer the most. Its your kids.

And there are alot of factor which most of the singles dont know. Gf and wife is 2 different thing. Wife and Mummy is another different ball game. And when you marry her, you basically marry everyone in her family. And all their nonsense you have to tahan. You can tahan, your wife able to tahan your family or nt.

Then after marriage the peer pressure to have kids will come. Who is going to take care of them.

Think about your freedom please. They are damn precious. Think about the freedom of choice, the ability to do what you want because you can.

My advise, dont get marry, unless that girl is worth you taking the risk.

Wha

After you get married I heard older people will say once you get sick your wife will take care of you, bring you see doctor, cook nutritious food for you, help you take bath, etc. That was before in the early days.

Now husband need to learn DIY when the wife busy working outside, buy own medicine, make own chicken soup, etc. The latest I heard from a single mother with one child it is getting more and more expensive to raise a child these days. So do not get married if you cannot afford it.

Single life is simple, 100% freedom and no need to spend much compared to couples. No need to face nagging from wife, no need to hear in-laws problem, no need to hear money not enough in daily life, no need to deal with wife cheating around after marriage, no need to deal with the pressure having baby after marriage, and all other nonsense. Just live your own life that you wanted to pursue.

[IlikeSYT]

Originally Posted by jnudes

After you get married I heard older people will say once you get sick your wife will take care of you, bring you see doctor, cook nutritious food for you, help you take bath, etc. That was before in the early days.

Now husband need to learn DIY when the wife busy working outside, buy own medicine, make own chicken soup, etc. The latest I heard from a single mother with one child it is getting more and more expensive to raise a child these days. So do not get married if you cannot afford it.

Single life is simple, 100% freedom and no need to spend much compared to couples. No need to face nagging from wife, no need to hear in-laws problem, no need to hear money not enough in daily life, no need to deal with wife cheating around after marriage, no need to deal with the pressure having baby after marriage, and all other nonsense. Just live your own life that you wanted to pursue.

That is because you only choose to hear the negative side of things. There are many successful marriage stories too.

I am not saying right now which is better but my opinion is that you will never be truly happy if you are single or married. Unfortunately this is human being.

So once you have chosen, it is all left to your ability to manage your situations well.

[thewildone]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Single life is simple, 100% freedom and no need to spend much compared to couples. No need to face nagging from wife, no need to hear in-laws problem, no need to hear money not enough in daily life, no need to deal with wife cheating around after marriage, no need to deal with the pressure having baby after marriage, and all other nonsense. Just live your own life that you wanted to pursue.

The above is true if you made a dumb choice in a wife.