my affair with my sis in law - Page 35

#**511** 31-05-2012, 06:20 PM

it's been months since hasn't it ?

Valiant20 · #**512** 01-06-2012, 01:28 AM

Just read through 35 pages at 1 go...

Bro TS, it's been some months hope you're feeling better somewhat..

Agree with what many other bros /sis said... Only time will heal..

Rickey · #**513** 01-06-2012, 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by seowlang

thanks bro.
very often in life, we always think about going back in time, sometimes to reminisce, other times to correct a mistake. in my case it is both. if i could go back in time, i wouldnt want to walk this path to avoid the pain and sufferings we have caused to ourselves.

Yah, me too...believe too in the same sentiment expressed by Bro seowlang...sigh

seowlang · #**514** 30-06-2012, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by reflexk

Sorry to dig this thread up - to a good extent driven by curiosity (as someone who was following this thread closely), and a bit by concern.
Bro TS - how is your relationship with your SIL now?
Mind giving us some updates?

hey, its been awhile. thanks for asking. some things did happened... one of these days when i have some time, will update.

cheers

wonderbeezz · #**515** 01-07-2012, 04:16 AM

Reading it from Page 1 to 35~

Hope you have already manage to get over it.

MarsIswar · #**516** 01-07-2012, 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seowlang

hey, its been awhile. thanks for asking. some things did happened... one of these days when i have some time, will update.

cheers

welcome back dude it been a very long while , looking forward to your update hope it some good new cheers n prost

KAMagic · #**517** 01-07-2012, 11:42 AM

HI TS, I had read all your stories. You are great, and you say something did happen before this thread is being dig up, I am interested in what happened during that period of time... (:

Venus2012 · #**518** 01-07-2012, 03:02 PM

Hi ... Was reading this thread the past 2 hrs or so & must say it was really interesting to know what you have went thru .... Hope all are well....

superhuman · #**519** 01-07-2012, 11:57 PM

i just read it today also.

All the best TS, hope u ok and do let us know if there are any updates.

5ag1_Boar · #**520** 02-07-2012, 10:55 AM

Be thankful that SIL was a nice girl and considerate girl who did not try to ruin your marriage. She also has to consider her own mother and sister's feelings as well.

TS, go back to loving your wife. I'm sure you didn't marry her without good reason. Treat this event as something fantastic that happened, but cannot continue. Be happy you experienced it for7 long months but accept it cannot be.

There is nothing you can do about it, so make the best of what you have: your wife and marriage. It is when we compare with what we can't have that makes us unhappy.

seowlang · #**521** 03-07-2012, 05:51 PM

4 months ago, i went to my friend's bachelor's night party in town on a friday. We were at a ktv near selegie rd. between 12 of us, we ordered 5 bottles of whiskey and with the girls and dice games, it was finished within 3-4 hours! then one of my crazy buddy ordered another 3 bottles! wtf! i knew i was gonna be sloshed that night. i was already slightly slurring in my speech and couldnt even pee or walk straight by 11ish.

the bottles came and we again drank. some were already drank and went off. i remember it was only 4-5 of us left and by 1plus, i had already vomitted and flat on the sofa. the rest of the night was a complete blur. i remember making a call and couldnt remember anything else.. who i called, who helped me back home, etc.

next thing i knew, i was sleeping on my bed. it was already 11am when i woke up. the mother of all hangovers was inevitable. my head was still spinning and i vomitted again. i tried recalling what happened after 1am but was unable to. called my wife who was working and she told me that i had managed to come home myself around 4am. she said i was awake enough to press the door bell but was slumped against the gate dead drunk. then around 1pm, i received an sms.

"u ok?"

It was J.

i was extremely surprised. how the hell did she know that im drunk? i replied her in sms.

"thanks, im not well. still having headache and vomitting. how you know?"

"u called me last night at 2am and was talking gibberish. ur friend took your phone and told me he needed help to bring u home as u r totally drunk"

Fuck! why on earth did i call J? i must have dialed subconsciously. i really cant recall. i hesitated if i should call J to thank her. after awhile, i decided it was the right thing to call her to thank her. somehow, my heart beat faster as i was calling her. she picked up after a few rings.

"hey, sorry for bothering you last night. had a drink too many."

"its ok.

*awkward silence*

i broke the silence and continue: "ok.. thanks again. bye.."

i was waiting for her to say bye to hang up. there was another pause. then she spoke..

"can you manage to get lunch yourself?"

"dont think so. i will cook instant noodles later."

"since i am going out, i will drop by in about and hour and get some food for you."

"oh.. ok. thanks. see you later."

J was coming over. I suddenly felt a little eager to see her and at the same time, anxious and awkward thinking about her arrival in a short while. damn it.

To be continued..

eeemen · #**522** 03-07-2012, 06:24 PM

Thanks for the update. Good to know that your sister in law is still very concerned about you and took the effort to send u home, though on the quiet. Do continue updating us eh? Cheers bro .....................

option69 · #**523** 03-07-2012, 07:07 PM

bro, your story and the song by david tao (the one your sil dedicated to u in the bar) really ring a bell in me and brought back a lot of fond memory of a past relationship.

hope u will continue to update us.

p/s forgot the song name. issit, "love is not easy" or something like dat?

reflexk · #**524** 04-07-2012, 01:25 AM

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Originally Posted by seowlang

hey, its been awhile. thanks for asking. some things did happened... one of these days when i have some time, will update.

cheers

Thanks for honoring my (our) request(s) and coming back to share further happenings!
Really appreciate it. Take care and carry on asap.

seowlang · #**525** 07-07-2012, 12:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by option69

bro, your story and the song by david tao (the one your sil dedicated to u in the bar) really ring a bell in me and brought back a lot of fond memory of a past relationship.

hope u will continue to update us.

p/s forgot the song name. issit, "love is not easy" or something like dat?

its 愛很簡單 David Tao