A fling that turn my life upside down

[coolfire69]

Feel sorry for TS...

[davepower]

Continue Pls....Dun stop....

[washabi]

Thanks bros for all your comments and sorry about the title which caused some confusion.

She sms me that she had a boyfriend. I was sad but still I put up a strong front and congratulate her. You can call me an asshole, but then my feeling had sank to the bottomless pit after learning she had a boyfriend and I just felt like chasing her back. I started to flirt with her over the sms and soon our sms became intimate. I confessed to her that I missed her a lot during these two weeks and that I realized I have fallen for her. She replied back that she missed me too but is too late now that she got a boyfriend. I can understand and did not force my way through; after all it was me that “gave her up” initially. We arranged for lunch that day.

After we stopped our sms, there was still 2 hours before we met. I wanted to do something to make her feel happy as I can sense that she was sad over the sms. I search through the internet to find the lyrics of our song, “An Jing”, a song that both of us like. I spent that 2 hours learning that song, I wanted to sing to her and made her smile.

We met and she looked sad. We have our lunch chatting about our work, avoiding the topic on relationship. I can sense that both of us were controlling our emotion. It was one of the worst lunch I had.

Finally we finished our lunch and it was time for her to go back to work. I walked her to her office. Now her office is those older shop house type where there is a crampy wooden staircase that brings you up to the second or third level. I walked her up the staircase and halfway, I stopped her and out of no where I sang that song to her. Mistake! My plan backfired; instead of making her smile, she burst into tears. I panic and started apologizing to her as it was never my intention to make her cried. Somehow we ended up hugging each other tightly as I tried my best to comfort her, trying to make her stop crying. After a while, she stopped crying. She laid back her head from my shoulder and we were still in the position of hugging. Our eyes met and not knowingly, our lips met and we kissed most passionately on that dark, crampy staircase. Soon, she needs to go back to work and we departed. Soon after we departed, she sms me thanking me for the lunch and the song and that she is very touched. She hopes that we can still be friend. That night, we chatted on the phone and it was then I knew that she is now staying with her boyfriend and that her boyfriend is in the retail line.

For the next few days, we met quite often for lunch again, but we always avoid the topic on “us”. She didn’t want to leave her boyfriend and I didn’t want to force her as long as I can get to be with her. She didn’t tell her boyfriend about me and we can’t go out as much as we used to as her boyfriend would call and check on her.

I thought we can just be friends and as long as I can spent time with her, I am happy; but I was wrong, it didn’t work that way. We continue to have lunch everyday and one day as I sent her back to office, something happened.

[washabi]

Her boyfriend called and he was waiting at her office downstairs. She told me what happened after she put down the phone and I make a 45 degree turn, no question asked. I never get a chance then to see her boyfriend, but the feeling was terrible.

The next day which is a Saturday, she called me up early in the morning and chit chat. I have to admit I missed her and so I asked her whether she want lunch together since her boyfriend was working. At first, she didn’t want; say she can’t go to town in case her boyfriend called to check on her. I told her that I didn’t mind going to her area or rather her boyfriend area since she is staying with him now. She agreed.

Just as I was about the leave the house, she called me to asked me whether I am going out later as she bought something for me and knowing I wouldn’t like to carry it with me if I am going out. I told her yes and insisted to know what she has bought as I didn’t want any expensive present from her.

Me : Aiya, what you buy for me? I don’t want any present from you lah.
DD : Is ok, anyway I have already buy. It’s just a brief (underwear). Thought it look nice on you.
Me : Don’t know lah. Anyway later I go out, don’t want take a box of underwear around. (thinking why all my girlfriends like to buy brief for me. Those I buy also not ugly)
DD : Hmmmmm…..why not you come don’t wear, later u go kopithiam toilet to put on.

After much here and there, finally I relent.

Finally I reached her place, it was from one corner of Singapore to another, but to me is worth it. I called her and asked her to come down meet me, but she say she was not ready and needed a while more with her housework and ask me to go up waited for her.

Seriously, I wasn’t thinking of anything initially, but when she asked me go up, my lower head started to think of something before my top head. I went up and she invited me in saying she need more time. Then she led me to the room, passed me the underwear and asked me to change. She left without closing the door, leaving me hard and don’t know what to think of. I started to unzip my jeans when I heard her coming in; she was holding some laundry and she just put it on the chair next to me. By then, my jeans is already half way down, showing my hard cock. She looked at it, move to me, and ask me “Can I?” I knew what she meant and responded with a yes. She knelt down and started to suck me. The feeling of my cock in her mouth was good, and after a while, I pulled her up, kissed her while at the same time, undressing both of us. Soon, we were in bed, dragon fighting the phoenix. I stayed there from 11am to 8pm.

After that, things change; we didn’t remain just lunch mates, but every Saturday, when her boyfriend was off to work, I would sneak in and spent time with her.

Two month later, I can’t take this relationship anymore. Ironically I asked her to choose between one of us. She asked me not to force her, but I insisted as I don’t feel right about this relationship at all. Finally after some arguement, she gave in and asked me to give her 1 week to think through.

We still maintained our lunch meetings for the next two days which on the third day, she asked me whether I would like to go over to her place as she was on leave and her boyfriend was on an oversea trip for four days. Of course I went over, and yes we fucked most of the time, but for the next few days it was special.

We took leave on the next day, both of us. We woke up and she made me breakfast, on her computer for me to play, bring me hot tea to drink, make lunch for me, fuck a bit in the afternoon, boiled home make barley, took a nap together, cook dinner together, watch tv together and we didn’t do all these just on that day but for the next two days. I have to leave on the fourth day as her boyfriend would be coming back. Those three days was heaven to me.

Yes I know I am an asshole, but I was madly in love then, and during that 3 days, she assured me she will leave her boyfriend and even planned with me how to break with him.

7 days is up, I asked for an answer, she told me her boyfriend is giving her a hard time, she needed another week to tell him. I consented.

Another 7 days passed, she called me and asked to meet me at Toa Payoh, where she broke the news that she is breaking up with me. She said she couldn’t leave her boyfriend and when I pressed for an answer, she refused to tell me and walked away, saying she is sorry; leaving me puzzled and hating her and heart broken.

[xaiverviii]

bro look on the bright side.. @ least u "tan tio" a few days of great sex...

[otacon]

i want more, pls continue!!!

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by washabi

Another 7 days passed, she called me and asked to meet me at Toa Payoh, where she broke the news that she is breaking up with me. She said she couldn’t leave her boyfriend and when I pressed for an answer, she refused to tell me and walked away, saying she is sorry; leaving me puzzled and hating her and heart broken.

You up her first, refuse to commit, she LL go get a committed BF, you up her again, then ask her to break up with her BF that you push her to in the first place.

You are puzzled? Bro... you are an asshole. Why you want her to be with an asshole?

You hate her? You should thank your lucky star that she don't hate you instead for almost destroying her life... a SECOND time.

And your heart is broken? You broke hers first what.

Maybe you should ask her to arrange for her BF to meet up with you. Print out these few pages from SBF and pass it to him. After that, take it like a man.

[Thom07]

Originally Posted by Cheonging101

You up her first, refuse to commit, she LL go get a committed BF, you up her again, then ask her to break up with her BF that you push her to in the first place.

You are puzzled? Bro... you are an asshole. Why you want her to be with an asshole?

You hate her? You should thank your lucky star that she don't hate you instead for almost destroying her life... a SECOND time.

And your heart is broken? You broke hers first what.

Well said. Claps claps.


People always dont know how to treasure what they had until the day they lost it but it is too late for regrets.

[coolfire69]

Somehow, I got a feeling that she will still go back to TS....and a storm is brewing... imho...

Nevertheless, very nice to read!

[Stingerking]

Maybe her BF was Dennis.............

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by Stingerking

Maybe her BF was Dennis.............

Yeah, probably they may scheme to let TS kena gan kar chng by Dennis as revenge.

[old_yet_horny]

Very nice story...

[washabi]

Thanks all bros who take time to read and comments.


Yes, I am an asshole. I have no right to be angry or “hate” her. But at that moment I have to admit, I did have these feelings. She has assured me she will choose me; we even planned on ways she can break with her boyfriend, but why the sudden change. My world came crushing down. What happen? She refused to tell me. I called her up after she walked away seeking for an answer but she just refused to tell me. Was it that he had something over her? What happened? She just refused to tell me. All she say was she is sorry and she still loves me.

My anger turned into disappointment and worry by the end of the day, still worrying what had happened. Disappointed because I was all geared up to be with her; I was ready to take back my rental unit to stay with her, forgoing my $2500 monthly rental; everyday dreaming about spending time with her; enjoying our world; but it crushed all of a sudden and not even knowing why. Worried because I didn’t know what happen; is he holding something against her.

For the next few days I earnestly seek an answer, but she just refused, crying saying she is sorry, she didn’t mean it and that she still loves me. Finally I gave up after she assured me she is ok and nothing is held against her by her boyfriend. She asked me whether can we still be friends and would love to continue to meet up with me for lunch. I told her yes, at least to me I can still spent time with her. However we understand that things can never be the same again and we make a pact that we stop meeting in private, no more lovely dovely, no more kisses and of course no more sex. I guessed that is the best we can do since the break up.

We still met for lunch but not that often; but each time I met her, it was a terrible feeling inside. It was like we love each other but yet we can’t respond to that love. I knew she wasn’t happy at all and it hurts me to see that.

One week later the break up, after our lunch, I sent her back to her office. As usual, by then I would take my leave; but she asked me whether I can accompany her up. I knew something is coming and I knew is against our pact and is unfair to her boyfriend; but I can’t help it. I accompany her up. Half way the staircase at a corner, she asked me whether she can hug me as she missed me; without further ado, like a hungry lion, I grabbed her and we kissed violently. Yes, we have sex on that staircase that afternoon; a quickie. She was hungrily unzipping me and pulling out my dick while I turned her around, pull up her skirt and down her panties. Yes I am again an asshole. Yes, we wanted each other so much that we just let things happen. No, I didn’t shoot into her. Yes, that staircase contains my sperm.

After that, for the next few meet up with her, even a blind man can see that she is more cheerful, happy. About our sex life, yes, we continued back to meet every Saturday and also having exciting quickies on the staircase.

By now, I think most bros are tired of our break up and patch back. But the key question to me then is still what make her broke her promise to me by refusing to be with me. She rather has a secret love affair with me than to be my girlfriend.

One Saturday, as usual I was with her. I was meddling with her notebook as she was busy doing the household chores. I came across, through her history, her blog. She never mentioned to me she has a blog. I read it; it was normal, nothing much as she didn’t update it much. One blog leads to another; I clicked on it and realized it was her boyfriend’s blog. I read it from the beginning and as I read, then something from the blog shocked me.

[JIKED D]

woooo ... what was written on the blog ??? quick tell : )

anyway ... I have the same type of experience ... involved with a girl who is already attached ... I tried to hint to her to leave that guy but after a while, I realized she won't do it ...

there are a few reasons that I guess are holding her back

1) she don't want to be the person to break her partner's heart ... she told me she will be happy to find out that her partner is having affair but I guess after many years together, it's hard for her to leave

2) she don't want to take the risk ... our relationship maybe hot n caring now as it's an affair but if we become bgf, our sparks might die down and becoming as boring as the relationship that she is having now

3) maybe I am not the man that she want to settle down with. tho she complain abt the boring sex life with her partner n how boring he is, he is able to provide her a big house and relative safe n stable life.

4) last but not least, maybe she is greedy .... just like men who like to have wife n mistress outside .... she might be having the best of both worlds ... and sadly, I am the "mistress"

anyway ... I did want to leave her but at the end of the day ... i realized, once I acknowledge my position and come to terms with what we can only have ... I am at peace with that and no longer wish to ask her to leave him

and plus ... why give up on a good shag partner for some petty emotions? that my 2 cents worth

[Frankiestine]

Let me guess her so call bf is actually gay...