Keeping your own pocket money

[asdfghjkl]

ah.. digger spotted.. kekeke.. but this topic is interesting.. bros here hand over how much money to OC monthly?

[no_faith]

Originally Posted by Forever Young

Wow bro NF, you can really dig out .... 2 year liao leh this thread... but still good job

juz feel it is interesting and sum gd info to share share loh but still got ppl zap me.
maybe harsh words are not gd to ears for sum.

[darrendon]

Originally Posted by hearthrob

So much for my ridiculous emotional turmoil, now back to my question, are there any good innovative ways to keep pocket money without letting my wife knows about it given the situation that she can easily access my bank accounts?


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Bro,

There is such a thing called internet banking account where there are no bank book to keep. There is only an ATM card which I believe you can keep it in your company or somewhere else. And I believe you can even opt out of the ATM card services. You just have to go to the bank and collect money using your IC but I think there is a charge by doing so each time you collect money from the bank. But nevertheless, it is better than nothing.

[Red_Tirak1099]

Best way is not to let CO know your income & income sources. If need then reveal onli 30%

Bank accounts, investments etc must guard like secrets & keep inside safe or safe deposit boxes

[submarinez]

Hi bro. Seems like you got yourself into a KC trap. I'm in my thirties so I can understand the "boredom" and at the same time try to look for alternate activities to inject some excitement into our boring lives.

But if you would take a step back and look at the big picture. Is it worth it going through all these just to support your new fling? Where do you see yourself in the future? Still with you wife and kids or with this girl? Are you going to leave your family for this girl? Is this girl after your heart or just for your money? Is this girl willing to go through thick and thin with you should the worst happen?

My advise to you is just have your fun and not to put your heart into it. It's hard as we men are all searching for that "feeling" that seems unattainable from my spouses. And we find this "feeling" with another girl so it easy for us to be "blinded" from reality.

Of course it's easier said than done. But I would remind myself of the consequences whenever these thoughts come into my mind as a form of deterrence.

Just some points for you to ponder upon...

[STK01]

Originally Posted by Red_Tirak1099

Best way is not to let CO know your income & income sources. If need then reveal onli 30%

Bank accounts, investments etc must guard like secrets & keep inside safe or safe deposit boxes

I guess it's ok to let your CO know your income & income sources. But for me, I never let my CO know how exactly how much savings I have in my bank account.

She knows that I save every month but really how much in bank, she do not know. So my CO can never track how I spent my money.. hehe

[tomvoyeur]

Originally Posted by STK01

I guess it's ok to let your CO know your income & income sources. But for me, I never let my CO know how exactly how much savings I have in my bank account.

She knows that I save every month but really how much in bank, she do not know. So my CO can never track how I spent my money.. hehe

Bro, if she knows your income then its not hard for her to track your spending. So you will only have your previous savings to tide you through your cheonging. Take care bro!

[STK01]

Originally Posted by tomvoyeur

Bro, if she knows your income then its not hard for her to track your spending. So you will only have your previous savings to tide you through your cheonging. Take care bro!

You can put in in this way also.. I guess that's all I can do. Income level hard to keep it from her anyway...