Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by naemlo

My own view, I rather find an office lady who works n stays in big city. It is easier to meet and they r more knowledgeable.

Originally Posted by SingViet

yes, i do agree with your view. Countryside gals lack common knowledge due to lower education and often, they do not even know basic things. To makes matter worse, they are stubborn and think that they are correct. So you will need lots of time to explain to her. To each their own, each have their own pros and cons.

Yes. Each have their pros and cons.
I like village gals who are less knowledgeable... as they will be easier target for me (vn gals in JC/GL).

But I do not think that all viallage gal will always think they are correct. I like less knowledgeable gal as partner as they will listen to you. Less arguement...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

My own view, I rather find an office lady who works n stays in big city. It is easier to meet and they r more knowledgeable.

Agree with that...at least dun have to travel so many hours on some festivals trying to rush back...can take your time to rest in hcmc upon arrival which only takes about 2 hours flight...

Some of the village gals dun even know how to operate some electronics products...

[happy000]

I never know that country side babes are so 'open' - wearing low cut. They must be more open minded than Singapore gals.

Originally Posted by X_plorer

In country side where cars can't even go in but you know what i see? A cafe with lots of pretty babes wearing low cut showing their assets.. And when they know you are from other countries.. They are flocking to you sia.. Good expereince there...

[Spud_Boy]

Originally Posted by retsoor

Spud_Boy, I like your signature.



I am also a serial monogamist when it comes to true love. But I am always trying to improve, my ideal is universal love^^

i like Universal Love.. haha..

it's a thin line of difference between like & love.. for me, to differeniate between the 2.. if can do w/o her, it's jus purely like (& of cuz lust).. if can't do w/o her, it's love.. =)

[jackbl]

Huhuhu.... some village gals use iPhone or those smart phones better than me. I still using those Nokia non-camera phone

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Some of the village gals dun even know how to operate some electronics products...

[JaViEr84]

hi to all bros here.. some bros may know mi thru another thread "tieng viet" cos i posted my hear affair thru there wrongly.. http://sammyboyforum.fun/adult-d...-club-199.html

i just wish to speak out in the correct area..

I had manage to coaxed her back last last fri when we meet to talk again as i saw her face want me to coax her back but want to have a step to step down.. so i try to coax and succeeed ... then on last wed she say want to go on a trip ask to find a plce to go on thurs i say go batXX intially she agreed(say she nvr see me for a few day want to make up to me by going vacation spent time with me ) but after listening to her friend she tell me she want to go GXnXiXG and KXLxC from thurs to sun.. which left me a day to search out book everything.. lucky golden mile there still got space but quite ex so use visa(the only shop that can use) .. cos i left $350 of budget also need to prepare to spend there..

i briefed her on all the details of our trip with intention to let her at least roughly know ow we get there all these( i think its basic respect to let her know the itinerary) but after our GXnXiXG trip(we din manage to go KXLxC cos she got recall by her company so lan lan no choice had to forfeit he KXLxC trip book bus go back on sat) the same whole thing of break up continue say i counted a lot of things i mention thee trip cost to her for what .. she is not supposed to know how much i spent say i am selfish to count everything i do.. say she love me and did her best for me which i dun really feel it .. the ratio is like i try to satisfy her 15 times she only did hers for 1-2 time this ratio...up till now i am heart grey and cold i think i had try my best.. but nothing seems to work... i decide not to sms her again from today..after she rejected to see me when i rush to her house there when she initiated the breakup on msn at last night 10pm.. initially i say i wait for her outside her door to talk things out rather on msn but she refused even threatened to call police .. in the end i message her say i wait for her at the park.. till midnight still nvr come down.. lucky i have a brother who jiang yi qi company me there if not i sure dunno wat to do.. as some bros say ppreviously she is playing some game with me as she know my weakness for heer.. i just casually told her the cost like inform her details of trip like that but she take it i counting with her.. so no choice since she tink i am like that i also cant say much (i even let her keep the RM 600+ i changed under her care.)

we only steady each other a month + and i am really feeling more unhappy n stress than happy times.. which i think its very unhealthy and she do not want to talk out our difference face to face... like discussion she just keep it which i had told her during the 1st breakup that couples do need to talk out discuss unhappy things and move on from there not keep it and let it explode..she even brought up on the trip morning itself before we go at night to take bus say she want a vaio lappy which i say i will buy when my bonus come in dec.. yesterday during our message at night she say she only testing me with the lappy issue i cant do it for her and say i cant do what she likes , thus i cant do any other thing for her.. she already know i am not a rich family person when we start out together so i do not really know wat she mean i cant do what she like..

My bro just told me to give up on this gal not worth my effort and time cos i cant see a future with her cos she is a wp employee and the company may not extend her contract in sg after next yr april..and she treats me like that say i selfish crazy .. he ask mi not to soft heart even if she change nature and initiate patch back.. which i really scared she do that cos my heart will surely melt one..but i am also scared if i get back with her she will repeat this whole cycle and my heart willl once again be hurt even more again..


Right now i had 2 failed relationships with 2 Vietnamese gals both not wls as mentioned ... now i really got no confidence mayb even scared to know viet gals anymore.. its like once beaten twice shy.. this 2nd relationship though its short in 1 and a half months but its very very painful than the prev 3 yr relationship i had with my 1st one..Now i just feel like this .. Single although lonely at least its not painfull..

[Honey Boon]

I think if the applicant is PRC, then Household book is required. I just done for my boss in July... father, mother, brother and sister.. all need to fill in.

Originally Posted by SingViet

You will not need the Household book for submission for PR. But the Viet birth certificate is surely needed. If you are not in VN, then you can have it translated and certified at the Vietnamese embassy in Singapore. You may also need your wife's educational certificates, if she has any.

[Honey Boon]

well... it might be a thin line between Love and Lust

Originally Posted by Spud_Boy

i like Universal Love.. haha..

it's a thin line of difference between like & love.. for me, to differeniate between the 2.. if can do w/o her, it's jus purely like (& of cuz lust).. if can't do w/o her, it's love.. =)

[SING_IN_HCMC]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I going back to Hanoi this tues. Time to rumble again.

Wah, you surfed at this time?

I will be in Hanoi from 7 to 10 Nov. Will be able to catch you there?

[jackbl]

Please dun be discourage by the downs.... Stand up and walk further

Originally Posted by JaViEr84

Right now i had 2 failed relationships with 2 Vietnamese gals both not wls as mentioned ... now i really got no confidence mayb even scared to know viet gals anymore.. its like once beaten twice shy.. this 2nd relationship though its short in 1 and a half months but its very very painful than the prev 3 yr relationship i had with my 1st one..Now i just feel like this .. Single although lonely at least its not painfull..

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SING_IN_HCMC

Wah, you surfed at this time?

I will be in Hanoi from 7 to 10 Nov. Will be able to catch you there?

Not confirm...

[SING_IN_HCMC]

Originally Posted by naemlo

So good boy?? At home surf net?? Not going out?

Sorry, no choice lah, BX around.

[JaViEr84]

thanks for the encouragement bro jackbl

i just feel things are not settled with her yet through a meet up talk.. but this time i will not try do anything more i will let her find me cos i think i had done enough for her on my part... its just that she tot i am not caring for her or love her deep enough .. i had sms her yesterday that if she is feeling fine to meetup to talk then let me know.. i did not bother to explain through sms the things she say bout me cos i think all these things need to talk in face , i told her its best to meet up and clear up everything , this is mutual respect we should give each other in a relationship no matter what the result is.

I am not sure if its rational to do this anot but i just feel i want to end things in a nice way..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by JaViEr84

thanks for the encouragement bro jackbl

i just feel things are not settled with her yet through a meet up talk.. but this time i will not try do anything more i will let her find me cos i think i had done enough for her on my part... its just that she tot i am not caring for her or love her deep enough .. i had sms her yesterday that if she is feeling fine to meetup to talk then let me know.. i did not bother to explain through sms the things she say bout me cos i think all these things need to talk in face , i told her its best to meet up and clear up everything , this is mutual respect we should give each other in a relationship no matter what the result is.

I am not sure if its rational to do this anot but i just feel i want to end things in a nice way..

When you deal with vn gal always expect the unexpected...i think you are too soft to handle this vn gals...you must learn to pull and push dealing with vn gals...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Huhuhu.... some village gals use iPhone or those smart phones better than me. I still using those Nokia non-camera phone

True but also true that these gals ever worked and lived in hcm or bigger town... what i was refering are those who have never left their villages...