Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 438

Hurricane88 · #**6556** 08-12-2009, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

So for bros who are not married yet, don't take marriage like a game. It's never a game. Its a game of responsbilities that bring some joy and happiness. If you marry because of sex, then forget it. Better pay , fuck and forget.c

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

I only agree that you say that marriage is about responsibility. But responsibility is not about $$$. Responsibility is about giving up everything and start thinking of family as 1st priority. The only worry for me is that i may get too used to my current lifestyle and still carry on after marriage.

Both sets of arguments had your merits...so to be fair it is even stevens...marriage is definitely not a game and comes with lots of responsibilities...worst when children are involved....

Sha_Gua75 · #**6557** 08-12-2009, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Probably only city gals do that.

my wife is a city gal

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

If their friends live in condo, then I buy condo for her? If their friends hubby got big cars and I take MRT, does it mean she will demand me to have a car. Such girls can throw aside liao.

Opposite my house now is PIE and Condo....my wife when standing at window will tell me, she can see 2 dreams...one is the condo and the other is the car...I tell her no money. She say jokingly to our baby "haiz...marry wrong husband...baby baby next time choose a richer one than your dad. Dont be like your mum"

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

drawing fixed monthly salary may be tough to take care a family... but if having a happy marriage and living within one means, everything will be fine even eating porridge daily. Some guys draw fix monthly salary of 10K won't find it tough mah.

I dont earn 10k but I live within my means, refer to above

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

The only worry for me is that i may get too used to my current lifestyle and still carry on after marriage.

You need to change...becos whenever there is raid...confirm u are there the night before

naemlo · #**6558** 08-12-2009, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

so the 4 pax is you, me, SingViet and _______

I'm wondering who is that ______

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

never go so long liao lor...u never jio how to go...u jio i also scare the way u drink

Dun say me, u yourself too. U forget how much u drank when we always together. 2 persons most of the times 4-6 jugs.

KangTuo · #**6559** 08-12-2009, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

You need to change...becos whenever there is raid...confirm u are there the night before

no more such bad luck liao

girls i like also never get caught and send back liao but rather they heard news about me hugging other gals, then they call me to 'chia tay' with me.

SingViet · #**6560** 08-12-2009, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

so the 4 pax is you, me, SingViet and _______

I have not seen Sha Qua for damm long liao. The very last time i met a samster is the dinner with you and sha qua.

Different people different viewpoints. You happy with yours, i happy with mine. Main thing is this forum is for discussion.

Sha_Gua75 · #**6561** 08-12-2009, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Dun say me, u yourself too. U forget how much u drank when we always together. 2 persons most of the times 4-6 jugs.

ya...2 person 4-6 jug....but I only 1 jug...the rest u.....

KangTuo · #**6562** 08-12-2009, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

I have not seen Sha Qua for damm long liao. The very last time i met a samster is the dinner with you and sha qua.

that is very long liao....
just when replying your posting, a very old friend of ours (TC, sky give) called me... asking me how many galfriends I have in hcmc. I asked him how he knows, he bao tok your name.

naemlo · #**6563** 08-12-2009, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

ya...2 person 4-6 jug....but I only 1 jug...the rest u.....

Errr u sure boh?? Not always, "ta" together?? Nowadays, I drink slowly roi.

SingViet · #**6564** 08-12-2009, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

that is very long liao....
just when replying your posting, a very old friend of ours (TC, sky give) called me... asking me how many galfriends I have in hcmc. I asked him how he knows, he bao tok your name.

Wah lao, he tua me huh? Last time i chatted with him in FB, he talked about you. He asked me you married viet huh? i said NO but you got one STEADY gf there and a few others part time.... btw.... its correct wat. hahahahh. You still in contact with TC huh?

KangTuo · #**6565** 08-12-2009, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Wah lao, he tua me huh? Last time i chatted with him in FB, he talked about you. He asked me you married viet huh? i said NO but you got one STEADY gf there and a few others part time.... btw.... its correct wat. hahahahh. You still in contact with TC huh?

yes.. in contact and never miss out on the usual CNY gathering.
he interested in some biz in vietnam, he should consult you rather then me

cashier · #**6566** 08-12-2009, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

yes.. in contact and never miss out on the usual CNY gathering.
he interested in some biz in vietnam, he should consult you rather then me

KT, singviet and others, you guys dun need to scared that SQ pointing you. my source is from a source he least expected.. rofl.

no point i say anymore abt SQ coz nothing nice to tok abt his history.

SingViet · #**6567** 08-12-2009, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

yes.. in contact and never miss out on the usual CNY gathering.
he interested in some biz in vietnam, he should consult you rather then me

You guys still having CNY gathering? WOW... i want to ask to join in next year. Who else in the CNY gathering? You guys interested to get yr form teacher MRS LEE to come out for gathering? I trying to get her contact thru teacher in our former school

KangTuo · #**6568** 08-12-2009, 09:35 PM

Vietnam gals also need attention and listening ears.

just had a conversation with my galfriend. kana complained that I never give much attention these days. After a day work or anything that is happening at her side, she also like to tell me and have some good ears to listen to. She say these dayz I never bother much and never bother to ask....

I got to self reflect already...

KangTuo · #**6569** 08-12-2009, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

You guys still having CNY gathering? WOW... i want to ask to join in next year. Who else in the CNY gathering? You guys interested to get yr form teacher MRS LEE to come out for gathering? I trying to get her contact thru teacher in our former school

only few E1 and E3 guys.
MRS LEE... hhmm... she got a very very very bad impression of me leh.

if you in sillypore during CNY, I will contact you for the gathering

SingViet · #**6570** 08-12-2009, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Vietnam gals also need attention and listening ears.

just had a conversation with my galfriend. kana complained that I never give much attention these days. After a day work or anything that is happening at her side, she also like to tell me and have some good ears to listen to. She say these dayz I never bother much and never bother to ask....

I got to self reflect already...

Yes, its a norm for gals to ask for attention . When i first got married, my wife always complain that i don't give her enuff attention. Nowadays, my wife never ask for so much attention, although i can sense that she wants me to show some concern for her. Gals everywhere are the same in terms of this. Come to think about it, we guys are similar in some ways too.