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Taking a serious look, all sex acts are unsafe. No matter how safe is still unsafe unless remain faithfully to one and only partner.
An advice, please think before act. For the few minutes of enjoying and got to worry after that, is not worth especially for married ones. Always, put your family before you.
Abit off-topic here, still that's precisely the reason why Guan Yin i.e. Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva normally keeps her mouth shut especially when crafters made figurines of her
Hi all. Had protected bj yesterday with FL. intended for massage but cos it's my first time, I thought it's protocol. she licked my nipple area and gave me protected bj (which lasted for 10secs max because I suffer from PE). Never intended to engage her FJ services cos she does both massage only and FJ. Wanted the former.
Never thought I would engage FL but too stressed with life so not thinking straight. It's always been my personal choice not to partake in this activity. Really regretting now. Also been worrying since last night.
What are my risks now in terms of STD/HIV? Very worried about getting herpes because it is incurable. Also worried about getting STDs or even worse, HIV. Very hard to explain to family. Didn't manage to sleep last night because keep worrying. So paranoid that now as long as my 2IC itch or the area around 2IC itch, I will go toilet and check immediately. Help and advice please. Tmr go doctor do test also too early to test for anything.
Plan to still go ahead Tmr and get tested for herpes to see if I already have it since most ppl say a lot of ppl have it but don't know. If I really get tested positive for herpes, I wanna know if I got it from yesterday's session or alr had it before. Will get tested for whatever based on doctor's advice too.
But ultimate question is, how high is my risk now for any STD/HIV given my limited exposure. Am I being too paranoid?
Hi all. Had protected bj yesterday with FL. intended for massage but cos it's my first time, I thought it's protocol. she licked my nipple area and gave me protected bj (which lasted for 10secs max because I suffer from PE). Never intended to engage her FJ services cos she does both massage only and FJ. Wanted the former.
Never thought I would engage FL but too stressed with life so not thinking straight. It's always been my personal choice not to partake in this activity. Really regretting now. Also been worrying since last night.
What are my risks now in terms of STD/HIV? Very worried about getting herpes because it is incurable. Also worried about getting STDs or even worse, HIV. Very hard to explain to family. Didn't manage to sleep last night because keep worrying. So paranoid that now as long as my 2IC itch or the area around 2IC itch, I will go toilet and check immediately. Help and advice please. Tmr go doctor do test also too early to test for anything.
Plan to still go ahead Tmr and get tested for herpes to see if I already have it since most ppl say a lot of ppl have it but don't know. If I really get tested positive for herpes, I wanna know if I got it from yesterday's session or alr had it before. Will get tested for whatever based on doctor's advice too.
But ultimate question is, how high is my risk now for any STD/HIV given my limited exposure. Am I being too paranoid?
Here's the rundown:
1. HIV - no risk
2. Syphilis - negligible risk
3. Hepatitis - no risk (you are probably vaccinated anyway)
4. Chlamydia + Gonorrhea - small risk
5. Herpes - risk
6. HPV - risk
7. Mollusucm - risk
Just a gentle reminder after hearing from a fellow patron yesterday.
If you engage FLs, reduce your risk by not having bbbj with those on short visit visas. They do not undergo any form of health checks. Several have STD (including HIV), and some may not even know they have it.
Just a gentle reminder after hearing from a fellow patron yesterday.
If you engage FLs, reduce your risk by not having bbbj with those on short visit visas. They do not undergo any form of health checks. Several have STD (including HIV), and some may not even know they have it.
Do not disagree with Xyberduke. Yet, this is slightly on the difficult side judging since the past week has also been International Women's Day. STDs including HIVs take two parties to transmit, i.e. it is not possible that Zika virus even can appear in one party in the absence of some source e.g. the mosquito had bitten an infected pregnant woman or one party has slept with another that is infected with Zika virus. In fact these days with Zika, it has become quite poignant that we should consider including Zika as part of the broad definitions of STDs.
The past few months Singapore has been relatively safe from dengue and consequently Zika, we do not know what is going to happen in April and May which are usually the hotspots of dengue outbreaks.
Unprotected oral sex is indeed not safe sex, but these days even being bitten by aedes mosquitoes can spread STDs, don't forget. NEA is telling us that they are releasing male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes already, this is a somewhat localised topic that one may be keen on reading on, I won't understand how effectively these male mosquitoes are at controlling the biting female population, but in general perhaps, don't do oral sex without a condom.
Last edited by linrx; 19-03-2017 at 07:50 PM.
Reason: typo
Dear Bros,
I went to a massage bar to have my massage
Suddenly the massage lady bbj me for 10 sec before I ask her to stop, and she finish off me when a hj
May I ask if I'm any risk of UTI?
I did a check with doctor tan clinic after 1 week + 2 days exposure, came out nothing.
Is this conclusive for c and g std?
Till now I still feel my kkj like got problem. Sometime I feel my pee is abit warm, I dunno is I think too much already or what. Hope Dear Bros can clear my doubt.
Tia!
Dear Bros,
I went to a massage bar to have my massage
Suddenly the massage lady bbj me for 10 sec before I ask her to stop, and she finish off me when a hj
May I ask if I'm any risk of UTI?
I did a check with doctor tan clinic after 1 week + 2 days exposure, came out nothing.
Is this conclusive for c and g std?
Till now I still feel my kkj like got problem. Sometime I feel my pee is abit warm, I dunno is I think too much already or what. Hope Dear Bros can clear my doubt.
Tia!
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Dear Bros,
I went to a massage bar to have my massage
Suddenly the massage lady bbj me for 10 sec before I ask her to stop, and she finish off me when a hj
May I ask if I'm any risk of UTI?
I did a check with doctor tan clinic after 1 week + 2 days exposure, came out nothing.
Is this conclusive for c and g std?
Till now I still feel my kkj like got problem. Sometime I feel my pee is abit warm, I dunno is I think too much already or what. Hope Dear Bros can clear my doubt.
Tia!
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