Need a help(Serious Issue)

[slyer]

bro pretty gf don't drop from the sky. u must work hard to get a nice gf. if u urself are diligent, confident and well groomed girls will naturally be attracted to u by then u will post here and ask if it possible for those pretty girls not to be attracted to me? good luck

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by slyer

bro pretty gf don't drop from the sky. u must work hard to get a nice gf. if u urself are diligent, confident and well groomed girls will naturally be attracted to u by then u will post here and ask if it possible for those pretty girls not to be attracted to me? good luck

bro,i know.but if look is too horrible,u still cant get no pretty lady,right ?

[colins]

Bro The_Rules, ok if your look is horrible, you can't attract pretty girls that well. But then after so many bros' advice pointing that your money/education/humour/maturity/communication skills are much more important than looks, and you still can't understand or accept and ask back this question, I reckon the only thing you can then depend on now, is your looks.

So pls go and improve your looks and be done with it. See what type of girl you can attract if you are poor/uneducated/woody.

[The_Rules]

^i know,bro,but i just wanna know whether my look is somewhere that below average or what ??and actually i came from a decent family which can afford a good rides,branded clothes and big house.And i also have a confidence on handle everything except hot chicks.I wanna know how to let them know that im rich ????by showing them my wallet ???also how to talk to them???i have no clue what i was goin to say everytime i talk with a girl,even thought i try hard to talk to them,i was speechless after a couple of talks.And which kind of place has a higher chances to get a girl ???club???pub???or shopping center.

[colins]

Perhaps you are trying to hard to show them your 'wallet', that probably put them off as you may be passing off as someone who is living off his parents and lack substance. Of cos, I'm guessing on this based on what you've written.

Maybe you can ask yourself, without your family, who are you? What makes you attractive besides "i came from a decent family which can afford a good rides,branded clothes and big house"? Do you understand the mentality of those "hot chicks"?

If you dun have these answers, your conversation with girls will probably be very limited to "what my family has", "what my dad can give me", "how you can shine by standing beside a rich boy like me" type of topics.

That is probably the reason why you run out of things to say after a couple of talks.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

TS, your frienster account show you are from maysia? You look quite stylo with that sunglass leh so you are not fashion idiot mah.

Location: Pulau Pinang, MY
Hometown: Penang

Try get a maysian gf first lar.

Or you working here in sg? sorry i never really read alot on your profile. Not to hurt your feelings but If the maysian girls don't want you, then I don't think sg girls will want you.

Maysian girls good lar, more simple and can get kampong good girls who know how to takecare you and family. Somemore same country can understand culture better. Maysian boleh Maysian bagus.

so im look damn horrible actually ?

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by colins

Perhaps you are trying to hard to show them your 'wallet', that probably put them off as you may be passing off as someone who is living off his parents and lack substance. Of cos, I'm guessing on this based on what you've written.

Maybe you can ask yourself, without your family, who are you? What makes you attractive besides "i came from a decent family which can afford a good rides,branded clothes and big house"? Do you understand the mentality of those "hot chicks"?

If you dun have these answers, your conversation with girls will probably be very limited to "what my family has", "what my dad can give me", "how you can shine by standing beside a rich boy like me" type of topics.

That is probably the reason why you run out of things to say after a couple of talks.

so whats more important now???money or talk skill ???and what u need to have then only can start a convo with a chick ??i thought the money will speak it all,and im not tryin to show off,bro.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

You look ok mah everything is there.

Mind I ask the following questions? I duno you post before or not.

1. You how old?
2. Are you working?
3. You got how many friends?

1.18
2.im taking a degree at collage,which i can see a very brilliant future at my upcoming life
3.i have a couple of friends,but we just out for smoke,drink and hanging around at arcade.Im also a member of my local gang,but only 1 of my friend(which is my best brother) got in with me,i seldom roll out with them.

[hallehluya]

I sense that you are here for self-assurance, from the way you keep asking for comments about your look.

Also, you contradict yourself by saying you have a 'bright future' and following it up by saying you're in your local gang. I recommend quitting your gang, unless all you really want is a hot chick with big boobs and no 'substance'. You can find that in GL easily. Since you're so rich, just pay them off, why bother making an effort to attract girls who are only attracted to your money?

I thought this was a serioud thread, but what you really need is to act your age.

Offence is probably taken, but you should spend a few minutes and think about what I just said. I know this is a 'sex' forum, and that harsh advice like mine would probably just fall on deaf ears, but no harm trying.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by hallehluya

I sense that you are here for self-assurance, from the way you keep asking for comments about your look.

Also, you contradict yourself by saying you have a 'bright future' and following it up by saying you're in your local gang. I recommend quitting your gang, unless all you really want is a hot chick with big boobs and no 'substance'. You can find that in GL easily. Since you're so rich, just pay them off, why bother making an effort to attract girls who are only attracted to your money?

I thought this was a serioud thread, but what you really need is to act your age.

Offence is probably taken, but you should spend a few minutes and think about what I just said. I know this is a 'sex' forum, and that harsh advice like mine would probably just fall on deaf ears, but no harm trying.

Bro,its a serious thread,as i stated,im not come here to show off,everything im tellin you brothers are true, and i didnt say that im SO rich,its just slightly better than other of my friends,and all i want is to attract a girl by my own ability ,not my own money.

[colins]

Originally Posted by The_Rules

so whats more important now???money or talk skill ???and what u need to have then only can start a convo with a chick ??i thought the money will speak it all,and im not tryin to show off,bro.

Ah...Sorry I really dun know how to advise you now...you know, I dun really know malaysian chicks and how they think, and its simple instructions that you want rather than a mindset change (which most bros here are advising about). I can't reach you that high a level, sorry.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Wow ...see? you are so young and have brillant future so no worries at all. You are a confident boy there. I'm sure there are many girls in the college, especially in your class.

Don't feel sad if you don't have gf now because some guys in singapore at your age also have no gf. Why don't you concentrate on your studies now to get good result for a good career? I'm sure there are many maysian girls would like to have a rich, stable, career man as their bf. If you are good in your studies can always offer tution for girls in your class also. Try to be nice friendly gentleman to the girls and they will be nice to you too.

Are you having your school holidays now?

im on the class every morning,and the reason why im here is to set off this damn problem that i be stuckin' for almost 5 years.
EDIT:i dont have a chinese girls on my class,and my personal aspect were gettin joke since my secondary school,its not my self reaction,i can feel it.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by colins

Ah...Sorry I really dun know how to advise you now...you know, I dun really know malaysian chicks and how they think, and its simple instructions that you want rather than a mindset change (which most bros here are advising about). I can't reach you that high a level, sorry.

what???was that an ironic ??

[hallehluya]

Well then maybe you should be more discreet. I'm guessing that you're probably trying too hard to hook up with girls. Sure there's no problem with being aggresive, but maybe you shouldn't be casting such a wide net on all the girls. Maybe focus on 1 you are really attracted to, and don't appear to be too 'eager'.

From your posts I can sense that you're a little rushed into this whole bf/gf thing. 18 is still pretty young, I'm only 19 myself actually.

Btw, I'd still recommend not getting involved with local gangs activity. Unless you're going for an ahlian. Not stereotyping but girls like that, to me, are usually fickle-minded, vain, spend excessively, and generally aren't worth your time and effort (if you want a serious relationship, that is).

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by hallehluya

Well then maybe you should be more discreet. I'm guessing that you're probably trying too hard to hook up with girls. Sure there's no problem with being aggresive, but maybe you shouldn't be casting such a wide net on all the girls. Maybe focus on 1 you are really attracted to, and don't appear to be too 'eager'.

From your posts I can sense that you're a little rushed into this whole bf/gf thing. 18 is still pretty young, I'm only 19 myself actually.

Btw, I'd still recommend not getting involved with local gangs activity. Unless you're going for an ahlian. Not stereotyping but girls like that, to me, are usually fickle-minded, vain, spend excessively, and generally aren't worth your time and effort (if you want a serious relationship, that is).

im not too eager on getting a girl,i just dont want to end up with an ugly girl(no offensive) and cant get no hot girl in my lifetime.