Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SingViet]

Its nice to have a rich gf, but no matter how rich she is, the wealth still belongs to her family. As an asian man, its better to make the money by yourself. Rich vietnamese normally will prefer their daughters to marry local viet man from about the same family status. Marrying foreign man are deem as the doings of poor provincial farmers who wants to `sell' their daughters to make some money. To the rich viet, such act is deem degrading and unreasonable.

No matter what, it takes time to know a person.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Its nice to have a rich gf, but no matter how rich she is, the wealth still belongs to her family. As an asian man, its better to make the money by yourself. Rich vietnamese normally will prefer their daughters to marry local viet man from about the same family status. Marrying foreign man are deem as the doings of poor provincial farmers who wants to `sell' their daughters to make some money. To the rich viet, such act is deem degrading and unreasonable.

No matter what, it takes time to know a person.

Nice commentary and well written...how are you recently...hope all ok for you and your family...

[xxxx4]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Its nice to have a rich gf, but no matter how rich she is, the wealth still belongs to her family. As an asian man, its better to make the money by yourself. Rich vietnamese normally will prefer their daughters to marry local viet man from about the same family status. Marrying foreign man are deem as the doings of poor provincial farmers who wants to `sell' their daughters to make some money. To the rich viet, such act is deem degrading and unreasonable.

No matter what, it takes time to know a person.

Wow really nice to have advice finally from the master himself, thanks Bro Singviet.

Really understand Bro, and i've been reading all the posts in this section.
I do not intend to go after her money or anything lah , just wanted to share that there are plenty of decent hard working and cute VN gals that wanting to have a decent faithful husband.

No matter what, it takes time to know a person.

Very true, very true indeed.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by xxxx4

just wanted to share that there are plenty of decent hard working and cute VN gals that wanting to have a decent faithful husband.

Not sure why so many brothers still want those WL that has been to Singapore.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Not sure why so many brothers still want those WL that has been to Singapore.

U forget Naemlo's quote?? "She is different from other WL."

[xxxx4]

Let me share abit about the new girl that i met in HCM.

A good friend of mine was relocated to work in HCM office since 2 years ago. He is married and living in D3 with his malaysian wife. I just knew about HCM from visiting him 3 months ago. First visit there i met my ex-gf that happens to work in a local pub. Since then i've been visiting HCM often around 5 times in 2 month, mostly staying 3 days (weekend). The r/s with my ex-gf was great, sex's great, her treatment/care/concern to me great, and so the money flow while with her is also great . Just want to point out here, all bros saying that his baxa calls asking what/where he is doing, calling his mum to get medicine, asking to sleep early cause tmr working, letting stay in her house, meet parents, feeding him while eating, peeling prawn/snail for him and so on and so on,.... are just basic VN gals nature habbits, i think other bro please confirm this... As Naemlo says... "So do not think that you are so special or she is different from other WL".

Last week trip to HCM i took 5 days off from work, cause i've been introduced 2 new VN gals that we've been web cam chatting for 2 weeks. Planning to meet them and thinking if anything hit, i will make a clean break with my pub-gf. Anyway, i planned and prepared a time slots to meet them all, 3 girls in 5 days

1) ex gf working in a pub
2) an assistance engineer in Siemens (confirmed her email address & communicate)
3) a free lance property dealer

Somehow, when met the property dealer things hit pretty well, like we've been known each other for awhile. She came to meet us (me & my colleague) in front of the hotel, we went to nearby comtam restaurant. After eating, she took me to fetch her close friend to accompany my friend. We went to Din Ky for dinner and after rode around HCM we went to Carnavele (?) roof for coffee. They dropped us back to hotel and kissed her g'night. Next day she came around at 1 pm, and brought 2 boxes of cakes and took me to see all her properties around HCM, yes all of them, went in and checked the places. She felt/sense that i really dont believe her, but actually i dont really care, as to why she show around her properties, really have no clue. May be one of the conversation with her was in regards how poor people are in VN and so many girls behaves what i've been reading in this forum.

I know from her that she hates living in HCM, dirty, not safe, and corrupt officials, etc. She has nieces study in Singapore, and she likes Singapore. I told her that i am not a singaporean, i only work in Singapore and i am Australian by passport. She even likes me more to know that i am an engieer and a phD holder and asking whether i like her and serious with her. Just replied that i still dont know her inside yet, just met and see what happen. Beside i am still marriage by law. She insisted to come to her house meet her parents, i refused saying that we just met and not appropriate, actually i got another pub gal waiting for me (havent broken up yet, i waited till last day to break up with her)

to be continue next time...

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by naemlo

U forget Naemlo's quote?? "She is different from other WL."

Yes, always very special one different from other WL.

Also WL also have true love.

[SING_IN_HCMC]

Originally Posted by xxxx4

Let me share abit about the new girl that i met in
I told her that i am not a singaporean, i only work in Singapore and i am Australian by passport. She even likes me more to know that i am an engieer and a phD holder and asking whether i like her and serious with her.

to be continue next time...

Wah seh, Phd Engr who is an Australian....welcome welcome

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SING_IN_HCMC

Wah seh, Phd Engr who is an Australian....welcome welcome

U also PHD... who specialize is human sexology....

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

U also PHD... who specialize is human sexology....

Bro naemlo honored with honorary doctorate of female psychologist of human beings in hanoi...

[SING_IN_HCMC]

Originally Posted by naemlo

U also PHD... who specialize is human sexology....

Oh yes, thanks for conferring me the title. You also lar, Phd...Permanent Head Damage KKDD

[SING_IN_HCMC]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Bro naemlo honored with honorary doctorate of female psychologist of human beings in hanoi...

He just got played out by one con gai from Sheraton....shall not elaborate, wait he angry with me...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SING_IN_HCMC

He just got played out by one con gai from Sheraton....shall not elaborate, wait he angry with me...

hahaha...no problem la...sure have miss chances ma...never mind, you pm me the story but I will not disclose...

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by xxxx4

Let me share abit about the new girl that i met in HCM.

A good friend of mine was relocated to work in HCM office since 2 years ago. He is married and living in D3 with his malaysian wife. I just knew about HCM from visiting him 3 months ago. First visit there i met my ex-gf that happens to work in a local pub. Since then i've been visiting HCM often around 5 times in 2 month, mostly staying 3 days (weekend). The r/s with my ex-gf was great, sex's great, her treatment/care/concern to me great, and so the money flow while with her is also great . Just want to point out here, all bros saying that his baxa calls asking what/where he is doing, calling his mum to get medicine, asking to sleep early cause tmr working, letting stay in her house, meet parents, feeding him while eating, peeling prawn/snail for him and so on and so on,.... are just basic VN gals nature habbits, i think other bro please confirm this... As Naemlo says... "So do not think that you are so special or she is different from other WL".

Last week trip to HCM i took 5 days off from work, cause i've been introduced 2 new VN gals that we've been web cam chatting for 2 weeks. Planning to meet them and thinking if anything hit, i will make a clean break with my pub-gf. Anyway, i planned and prepared a time slots to meet them all, 3 girls in 5 days

1) ex gf working in a pub
2) an assistance engineer in Siemens (confirmed her email address & communicate)
3) a free lance property dealer

Somehow, when met the property dealer things hit pretty well, like we've been known each other for awhile. She came to meet us (me & my colleague) in front of the hotel, we went to nearby comtam restaurant. After eating, she took me to fetch her close friend to accompany my friend. We went to Din Ky for dinner and after rode around HCM we went to Carnavele (?) roof for coffee. They dropped us back to hotel and kissed her g'night. Next day she came around at 1 pm, and brought 2 boxes of cakes and took me to see all her properties around HCM, yes all of them, went in and checked the places. She felt/sense that i really dont believe her, but actually i dont really care, as to why she show around her properties, really have no clue. May be one of the conversation with her was in regards how poor people are in VN and so many girls behaves what i've been reading in this forum.

I know from her that she hates living in HCM, dirty, not safe, and corrupt officials, etc. She has nieces study in Singapore, and she likes Singapore. I told her that i am not a singaporean, i only work in Singapore and i am Australian by passport. She even likes me more to know that i am an engieer and a phD holder and asking whether i like her and serious with her. Just replied that i still dont know her inside yet, just met and see what happen. Beside i am still marriage by law. She insisted to come to her house meet her parents, i refused saying that we just met and not appropriate, actually i got another pub gal waiting for me (havent broken up yet, i waited till last day to break up with her)

to be continue next time...

Brother, the dumbest thing you could do is accept the invitation and be held for ransom by some Viets. By telling her you are an AUS subject with a PhD instead of a blue collar SG peasant just increased your market value. Brother, they will call your wife and sure to cause huge marital problems and divorce. Dumbest thing to ger involved with people in Viet like that.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by xxxx4

Let me share abit about the new girl that i met in HCM.

to be continue next time...

Pls continue your story...dun bother about some underage who had caused enough trouble in all the other threads...