Possible to befriend and fall for an FL?

[geylangpom]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

haha, you believe this?

where got woman tell the truth one? especially from this line of work

they don't even dare tell their family what they do, you think they will speak the truth.

Of course you are special, you need to then you will be decent to an indecent woman.

That sounds naive, right? because that's their job. how can he give a limit without asking her to quit her job

[Sailfish]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

haha, you believe this?

where got woman tell the truth one? especially from this line of work

they don't even dare tell their family what they do, you think they will speak the truth.

Of course you are special, you need to then you will be decent to an indecent woman.

If its me , i dont believe bro hahaha

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

haha, you believe this?

where got woman tell the truth one? especially from this line of work

they don't even dare tell their family what they do, you think they will speak the truth.

Of course you are special, you need to then you will be decent to an indecent woman.

You can never take away the indecency from these women when you get to know them in this line of job. Better chance is if they really quit this line of job and you get to meet them, but of course by then they will not rven tell you their history truthfully.

[boiah]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

You can never take away the indecency from these women when you get to know them in this line of job. Better chance is if they really quit this line of job and you get to meet them, but of course by then they will not rven tell you their history truthfully.

there must be something hidden bro. I agree with you . I once had a relationship with one of the women from this job. I asked her to stop and she quit the job. I even paid their apartment rent. and give money monthly. but maybe the amount I give them they want more. they just agreed to everything I offered as a stepping stone to quitting that job and living a more relaxed life. but their keep thinking of other tricks to make me give more money. and many lies emerge, for example suddenly they are sad, if asked it turns out their parents have to pay a debt, because poor thing I gave them money other than the monthly money. and the lies continue for various reasons hahah

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

You can never take away the indecency from these women when you get to know them in this line of job. Better chance is if they really quit this line of job and you get to meet them, but of course by then they will not rven tell you their history truthfully.

never be decent to a indecent woman, no matter what their occupation.

[totacos]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

never be decent to a indecent woman, no matter what their occupation.

That doesn't mean it's indecent, but I think it's part of the trick so it's not honest.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by totacos

That doesn't mean it's indecent, but I think it's part of the trick so it's not honest.

not sure what you mean.

No honest, trick= indecent person who has little decency.

My definition, not trying to be oxford.

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

never be decent to a indecent woman, no matter what their occupation.

True too bro. I mean we as men are also not decent at times, but minimal would be at least decent to true love or at least respect.

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by boiah

there must be something hidden bro. I agree with you . I once had a relationship with one of the women from this job. I asked her to stop and she quit the job. I even paid their apartment rent. and give money monthly. but maybe the amount I give them they want more. they just agreed to everything I offered as a stepping stone to quitting that job and living a more relaxed life. but their keep thinking of other tricks to make me give more money. and many lies emerge, for example suddenly they are sad, if asked it turns out their parents have to pay a debt, because poor thing I gave them money other than the monthly money. and the lies continue for various reasons hahah

Same for me bro. It never ends. Or they will ask for money to be up keep their beauty etc. and when quarrels happened, they will scold you and say they rather have a better life by going back to flesh trade as they could potentially earn much more. End of the day they do not fall in love with you except yusof.

[boiah]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Same for me bro. It never ends. Or they will ask for money to be up keep their beauty etc. and when quarrels happened, they will scold you and say they rather have a better life by going back to flesh trade as they could potentially earn much more. End of the day they do not fall in love with you except yusof.

Exactly 😅😅 making life like a serial drama with lots of tricks and manipulatives.

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by boiah

Exactly ���� making life like a serial drama with lots of tricks and manipulatives.

Unfortunately finding a hottie with crazy body is almost impossible with a decent down to earth girl especially in singapore. Many times I tried to call it quit but still find my little brother compassing back to money sucking hottie.

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Fall in love cannot la, unless you are ultimate green hat person. Do the math can already, everyday service 10 other men, maybe 1-2 exchange contacts. The number of bf she has is double digit at least.

Next question to ask is are you handsome or rich? You got your answer

Be friend or fuck buddy is ok but hard to maintain once they return their country. So far I only managed keep a contact with Thai FL working normal office job in BKK. Waiting for her come SG for holiday then bring her go out and see if anything develops…

The Thai FL at first said come to SG to WFH + play and has reached SG 1 week ago. I was skeptical because I wondered if it is to be FL again. Ended up my hunch was right because I saw her Dome 1 listing get posted.

I dont know why she wanted to hide her FL stint from me, wanting to meet me after 1-2 weeks of 'work' (FL). At first I did have 10% KC feeling involved for her but after seeing the descriptive FR by other bros, I cannot tahan my girl get bonk by other bros. So I snapped out of it within 10 seconds. I have 0 feelings for her already.

Now just text as per normal and see if got any non-FL bonk during go out together after her 'work'.

PS: When FL msg you say "sry late reply because 'work'", you will feel like shit if you have feelings for her. Because 'work' means another bro dick explored her body a few moments ago.

Hence, please do not fall for a FL. Once you talk to them enough, you will know they love money long time, not you.
If no choice but to date such a girl, I will recommend ML rather than FL.

[jhoho]

I respect these working ladies/ WL, I don't think it is the best avenue for finding love though. I think men in general want to protect and provide, which is what we men are predisposed to and nothing wrong with that. The landmine is triggered when men tries to save the girls from this "line of work" The girls did not ask to be saved, and if they do, they would not ask a paying customer that is there to bonk them and enjoy their body. The ones that would go out with a customer is a confused lady, the likelihood of things eventually going wrong is pretty damn high. Please go to other avenues to find a wife / girlfriend. Somewhere that has nothing to do with transactional bonking.

I am not trying to stop you guys, just my 2 cents and the same message that Sam the forum owner has been saying for ages. Although I would use the term working ladies rather than whores. Please respect their choice by paying them for their services and be nice and courteous to them. I think that is the best we can do for these working ladies. As for saving them, there are so many organization that is trying to reach out to them, let them do their jobs.

[lornjourney]

To admit, I didn’t read all post in details. Nonetheless, from the thread title. I wanted to know too!

For my story, I ever like this Service Girl at HCM. I flew over twice a month and book her for 3 days 2 night. It is not cheap… and I try my best to be good to her. I didn’t except her to love me but just be friend (and be customer same time) with me sincerely…

Over the course of 6 months… she gradually stop being nice to me. Hmm, I am really curious about their mindset. Honestly, I didn’t do anything extreme. Purely just go cafe drink coffee, ask her out for meal and night time accompany sleep. Yet I don’t know what cause her to change the attitude towards me?

There was once i didn’t tell her upfront and waited below her rented unit to talk to her. But I didn’t get to see her and realise she is working all day and night with customer.

I am quite disappointed that she can treat others so well. Why? Because even though I paid her, she didn’t fully accompany full day. I let her go back when she said so…. Only at night 1 shot and sleep.. that’s all. Really not worth the money I paid as I can just go shop find her to have sx.

I know there are many possible reasons… but clearly i guess she really don’t like me. I’m average looking and not odour too!

Quite sad…

[blahzzz]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Unfortunately finding a hottie with crazy body is almost impossible with a decent down to earth girl especially in singapore. Many times I tried to call it quit but still find my little brother compassing back to money sucking hottie.

very true indeed. takes some luck to unearth gems and guide them out of the money sucking bottomless pit. good upbringing and character development plays a big part in guiding hotties back to normalcy.