Met someone online but I'm married

[-SBF-]

Originally Posted by PRCRammer

Bro, I have been reading your posts and i really do have several questions that I hope you can make me understand. TS is talking about marriage issues but I have read and been told you are single, unmarried, childless & look for sugar babies to fulfill your carnal needs. How is it that you are able to advise a married family man on issues that you yourself have ZERO experience on?

My grandparents( Both above age of 85) always hold hands and so loving when they are outside or at home.

I learn from them.

[PRCRammer]

Originally Posted by -SBF-

My grandparents( Both above age of 85) always hold hands and so loving when they are outside or at home.

I learn from them.

So touching. But then, if you learnt from them, then why you not married have family but instead you
http://sammyboyforum.fun/showthread.php?t=286543
You mean to say this is what you learnt????

[thewildone]

Originally Posted by PRCRammer

So touching. But then, if you learnt from them, then why you not married have family but instead you
http://sammyboyforum.fun/showthread.php?t=286543
You mean to say this is what you learnt????

PWN3D!

Originally Posted by LeGarcon

Haha indeed bro, misery loves company. Don't be sorry, I just wanna voice out my pain I don't expect much consolation im pretty resigned to my fate. Latest quote from my mum in law: "你上辈子一定是欠了他很多。"

Sad thing is, in this bubble we live where women are too secure by law and convenience and resources, many feel like they have a right to be selfish. I broke off with my ex because I detected such attitudes despite the sweetest relationship of over a year. I felt I did not deserve the arrogance and could not see such a woman being my wife, much less the mother of my children.

I find most of the "talk to your wife" advice here pretty old and cliche. The real person to talk to is a counselor or lawyer, so you can prepare for the worst but not lose your son. I know your son needs a mom. But with this kind of mom, he might grow into a woman-hating man. It's difficult but you have to take steps already. Preparing early never hurt anyone. So you should start recording tangible proof that this woman is not playing her role as wife and mother in case matters turn legal and you need to have custody of the child.

For all you know, your wife sees you taking such steps to protect the interests of the family and might change for the better.

[-SBF-]

Originally Posted by PRCRammer

So touching. But then, if you learnt from them, then why you not married have family but instead you
http://sammyboyforum.fun/showthread.php?t=286543
You mean to say this is what you learnt????

I also been touch by you, follow me so close and dig up my thread. Love you deep deep. How i wish to give you my humble little points but too bad.

I have not met the right one how to get married? Anyhow find ah 连 or ah 花 ar?

I can do anything as long as i single because i don't own anyone any explanation, but once i got into relationship or having a family i will apply what they taught me.

[nuclearkid]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

The day will come when u grow old n is all alone in a house wif no one but u n then u will know the true meaning of lonely.
Worse, u die alone no one will know till ur neighbours smell ur decomposing stench n hv to call the cops & only then, people will knows u dieded
Even worst, no one to do arrangements for ur funeral n no one to attend any wake!
Now that's sad to the max.
The decisions we make, dictates the life we live

That's really ok, if it means I have lived life exactly the way I have wanted, not pandering unnecessarily and not going against my principles. Afterall, I am ultimately accountable to myself and the big guy. If it means I live alone, so be it. Rather that than be with people for the sake of avoiding loneliness, which to me, is sad and insecure.

And it doesn't really matter what happens after I kick it... how my funeral/wake has been conducted. To you, it may be "sad to the max" but to me, irrelevant. Unless someone's gonna send you a Youtube clip in your afterlife, the wake arrangements are inconsequential. A grand funeral, a big turn out, a fancy eulogy... its really for the vain. As the saying goes, ashes to ashes, dust to dust.

PS - My apologies to TS here for an off topic post.

[PRCRammer]

Originally Posted by -SBF-

i don't own anyone any explanation

Then why you explain so much?

[Ladyrain]

I'm writing this post to remind you ts! 不要转牛角尖. Ok? We look forward..
Jiayou!

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro porscheclub, how r u man.
It's been a while.
Good to see ur now a member of the elite few wif a BIG family hehehehe
Welcome to the club

Bro! Must buy you a dinner man, when's good?

Thanks for all the tips over the years, you're da man! If anyone wants advice, our BJ bro here is the guy!

I'm alright, I think Just had a dragon boy with 2nd Mrs & hope mom can accept this!

After all these while, I think life is like a knife, we need to be used & constantly sharpened to perfection. Alright, maybe not the best analogy but you get the drift

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by nuclearkid

And it doesn't really matter what happens after I kick it... how my funeral/wake has been conducted. To you, it may be "sad to the max" but to me, irrelevant. Unless someone's gonna send you a Youtube clip in your afterlife, the wake arrangements are inconsequential. A grand funeral, a big turn out, a fancy eulogy... its really for the vain. As the saying goes, ashes to ashes, dust to dust.

PS - My apologies to TS here for an off topic post.

My dad passed away recently & left a lot of trouble for us. One thing we learnt is whatever you do & if you have kids, please make sure that you have money to settle your own funeral/hospitalisation & don't make your relatives pay for it.

Oh, I have to say that we've not seen him for over a decade. Another trouble he left behind is a foreign wife with a 5yrs old daughter here & no savings.... If you want to screw around, please make sure that you have the means (money) to clear up the shit. MCYS will come after the deceased's family for settlement & will not hesitate to take you to court. Do you know they even threatened to freeze our assets?!

We did not even go to the funeral because once we show up, we'll be faced with a 6 figure hospital bill and nightmares of a stranger knocking on your door for money which is happening to my aunt now.

It is sad to have a desolate funeral but nothing worse than being cursed after death. It's even more bitter not to be able to attend your own parent's wake.

To all of you Romeos out there, "time will heal all pain. Life is short so make the best out of it"

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Bro! Must buy you a dinner man, when's good?

No worries la bro, it was a pleasure to have been able to assist u to your success.
Ur success is already my trophy, no need makan la

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Thanks for all the tips over the years, you're da man! If anyone wants advice, our BJ bro here is the guy!

Please please dun say tat, me shy shy

Originally Posted by porscheclub

I'm alright, I think Just had a dragon boy with 2nd Mrs & hope mom can accept this!

Ah congrats stud hur hur hur, shud not be a prob just remember what i tot u abt mental conditioning n all will go ur way ya

Originally Posted by porscheclub

After all these while, I think life is like a knife, we need to be used & constantly sharpened to perfection. Alright, maybe not the best analogy but you get the drift

Yes of cos i do, thus the older ginger is the spicier ginger

[nuclearkid]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

My dad passed away recently & left a lot of trouble for us. One thing we learnt is whatever you do & if you have kids, please make sure that you have money to settle your own funeral/hospitalisation & don't make your relatives pay for it.

Oh, I have to say that we've not seen him for over a decade. Another trouble he left behind is a foreign wife with a 5yrs old daughter here & no savings.... If you want to screw around, please make sure that you have the means (money) to clear up the shit. MCYS will come after the deceased's family for settlement & will not hesitate to take you to court. Do you know they even threatened to freeze our assets?!

We did not even go to the funeral because once we show up, we'll be faced with a 6 figure hospital bill and nightmares of a stranger knocking on your door for money which is happening to my aunt now.

It is sad to have a desolate funeral but nothing worse than being cursed after death. It's even more bitter not to be able to attend your own parent's wake.

To all of you Romeos out there, "time will heal all pain. Life is short so make the best out of it"

Thanks for your narrative although its context isn't clear to me. Out of respect for TS and forum etiquette, hope you don't mind that I will leave this here as further discussions will veer off topic.

[Ladyrain]

Porscheclub,

When you were born, do you have $$ to pay your parents for the medical bills incurred? When you can barely fend for yourself when you were just a baby, did he or not behave like your father? He is dead. You are rich. Got money for FL. For gfs, no $$ for your father who gave you life?

And you curse YOUR DECEASED FATHER by saying he is trouble?
You have his traits. You behaved like him too. In fact you had more than just a gf. Let's wait for your family to do the same to you.

In a way, you have proved him right to walk away from you people.
What kind of man who is rich enough for his own pleasures and leisures but no money for his fathers funeral and debts?

[Ladyrain]

It's very easy to be nice to people who are nice to you. Who cannot?
It's basic courtesy.

You want to know who is true? Observe people who treats you nice even though you can do nothing for them. These are the people whom you should treasure.

At the end of the day, it's not about what your family can do for you. It's what YOU can do for them.

He claimed relatives shun them because his family is poor. He should pee and look at himself. He abandoned his last chance to send his father off just because he doesn't want to pay for his debts which he could have easily done so with his wealth. Nobody's perfect. Nobody's a saint. Everybody makes mistakes.

So he is who he was because of what people can do for him?
Wow. What a man. Disgrace to the men.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Ladyrain

It's very easy to be nice to people who are nice to you. Who cannot?
It's basic courtesy.

You want to know who is true? Observe people who treats you nice even though you can do nothing for them. These are the people whom you treasure.

At the end of the day, it's not about what your family can do for you. It's what YOU can do for them.

He claimed relatives shun them because his family is poor. He should pee and look at himself. He abandoned his last chance to send his father off just because he doesn't want to pay for his debts which he could have easily done so with his wealth. Nobody's perfect. Nobody's a saint. Everybody makes mistakes.

So he is who he was because of what people can do for him?
Wow. What a man. Disgrace to the men.

Ladyrain, I can see tat in ur other thread ur not in the best of moods but may i remind u not to jump to baseless conclusions n start making a darn mockery n a laughing stock of urself.
Bro PorcheClub has spelt it out in very simple primary school level english for everyone to see, read & understand but I still cannot figure out how can anyone one, in this case u, read the whole issue out of its actual context

See the whole sage below the way its suppose to be seen in its entirety not the way u choose to see it!

[Ladyrain]

What a boot licker you are for him, do_you_bj.
Are you his clone?
Since you assumed I'm a juvenile and that I'm not talking sense, don't bother reacting to my nonsense.