(Undertable' Dairy) Swing & Making Valuable Friends

[undertable]

Originally Posted by AngelOfSex6

Hi bro, too bad I can't come out on Sat. Next time if got chance to meet up must get some gyming tips from u. Enjoy!

COA?

Why are u using a new nick?

Originally Posted by AngelOfSex6

U sound like the youngest, didi

He is a high performance didi wor.

Originally Posted by battleship

Jia liao bee in his last mth haha...

Mac pls chill. I know sometimes its hard...


Back to work now...

I am chilled.. Just felt so apologetic to friends/couples here which was or going to be affected when i made a wrong move.

Originally Posted by MaJa

Nice thread. Now persuading my gf to swing. Hope to join you guys soon ^^ cheers..

Please dun persuade, Ur spouse needs understanding,not persuassion . have fun here =)

Originally Posted by sleepy80

Wah like that you also can guess ah.. Yah he is the Chief of Arse...

Sorry bro that u were biten by a dog. So sorry about it!

[undertable]

Together With Lizzy we met a SBF bro who is a professional photographer with his studio. Took some nice kinky pictures of lizzy and it was pretty neat. 1st time taking pictures in a studio and it felt pretty good. Photographer was able to make her feel like a model...

Guess what when she was taking pix i was walking around in his studio naked.. Now waiting for the photos to be process and we shall see how is it gonna look like upon completion..

[sleepy80]

Originally Posted by undertable

Sorry bro that u were biten by a dog. So sorry about it!

No worries bro, keep cool...

[redhotpipe]

PM me guys, do you welcome other races?

[cataramp]

Originally Posted by undertable

He is a high performance didi wor.

[RotiPrata Man]

Originally Posted by AngelOfSex6

Hi bro, too bad I can't come out on Sat. Next time if got chance to meet up must get some gyming tips from u. Enjoy!

I think your gyming experience more than me la.. I know you can only go out on fridays Friday after 11pm i can!

[bail1234]

Originally Posted by battleship

Jia liao bee in his last mth haha...

Bail bo up me lolx

:/

Pai seh.. Going up the list ... Yours is next haha...... Meet up next time ... Do have quite some stuff to talk about ah..... haha....

[rayson777]

Originally Posted by bail1234

Pai seh.. Going up the list ... Yours is next haha...... Meet up next time ... Do have quite some stuff to talk about ah..... haha....

Originally Posted by undertable

Together With Lizzy we met a SBF bro who is a professional photographer with his studio. Took some nice kinky pictures of lizzy and it was pretty neat. 1st time taking pictures in a studio and it felt pretty good. Photographer was able to make her feel like a model...

Guess what when she was taking pix i was walking around in his studio naked.. Now waiting for the photos to be process and we shall see how is it gonna look like upon completion..

Looking forward to the pictures

[rivcale]

TGIF everyone! May someone huat toto soon!

[Lancer81]

Originally Posted by rivcale

TGIF everyone! May someone huat toto soon!

Huart ar... toto.... wonder what to do with 1M???

[Lancer81]

Originally Posted by undertable

There is a unethical man (Sincity2005) out that trying his luck and I was responsible for his reckless acts becoz i have selected him to host for us previously, Hopefully I can still raise awareness for couples here.

Undertable is a nice gentleman who seldom raise his voice, let alone angry.. well the points is we must be truthful. I believe sincity has gotten a lot gains already....

[undertable]

Originally Posted by sleepy80

No worries bro, keep cool...

Alright i will bro, U also have fun there!

Originally Posted by rivcale

TGIF everyone! May someone huat toto soon!

Huat ar!!!

Originally Posted by Lancer81

Huart ar... toto.... wonder what to do with 1M???

If u need guidance come and look for me when u have that 1m, I will help out^^

Originally Posted by Lancer81

Undertable is a nice gentleman who seldom raise his voice, let alone angry.. well the points is we must be truthful. I believe sincity has gotten a lot gains already....

Bro Thanks for the compliment, Hostess soon?

[undertable]

Lizzy,luna and Mac Met Colourblinds in the east and went to had a great supper at ECP Food centre.. This is life, neat ppl that nv judged and nv afraid to tell you how they feel (Good or bad)

[undertable]

I have came across this article on swinging which i feel its right to share here with couples/singles. It give answers to the bros,sis & couples who asked me why & How on swinging matters. Hopefully it helps.

General Hints for Enjoyable Swinging

In the context of swinging, "couples" need not be married. They should, however, have at least a little history together and familiarity with each others' emotional needs, and be comfortable approaching others as a "couple." The general rule of thumb is that swinging works best when couples view swinging as an enhancement to their existing sexual relationship, rather than as a replacement for a failing one.


As one would expect, good communication is critical in any attempt at swinging as a couple. There are many, many different forms that swinging may take, and whichever one you choose is fine as long as you and your partner are clear about what you are doing and why. Sex has the potential to be an emotionally-charged area, and the pleasures that may be found in swinging can generally be reached only when both partners are sensitive to each others' needs, and put their partner's comfort first. From a more pragmatic point of view, there will always be another party, another personal ad, another dance, another convention; there may not be another chance to salvage an exploration into swinging if one partner becomes overwhelmed in "the garden of delights" and forgets to treat his or her primary partner with sensitivity and respect.

It's important to keep in mind that swinging is primarily a SOCIAL activity. The ordinary social customs of meeting people and initiating a conversation are really not that different than at any other type of social gathering, and the process by which acquaintances become close friends is not that different either. The key social traits that tend to be appreciated in the swinging community are responsibility, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, and most importantly stability with regard to one's primary relationship.

As is the case with almost all human social endeavors, if you already know people in a particular community you'll probably be happier if you attend your first few events with these people so they can introduce you to others. Waiting a little while and watching how others behave is also a good idea, as it is in almost any new social situation. Common courtesy, of course, is as welcome in the swinging community as it is in any other community; we're all just people, after all.

There are several different styles of swinging which you may see in the swinging community. Some people may prefer not to be around when their partner is having sex with someone else ("closed swinging"), while others may insist on it ("open swinging"). The term "soft swinging" refers to trading partners just for the purposes of heavy petting and then switching back to one's primary partner for any actual sex. It might be valuable for you to think about whether there are any potential situations that you feel you would be more or less comfortable in, and discuss these with your partner.

Although not all couples find it necessary to do this, some couples feel more comfortable having social "codes" that only the two of them know. Examples might be discreet phrases or gestures which mean a) one of you is attracted to the people or person he or she is talking to and wants to know if you are interested in swinging with them, b) a reply to the above, either affirmatively or negatively, and c) one of you is not having a good time and wants to get away from things for a while.

At off-premises events such as dances, it's common for people to dress up or else wear fairly sexy clothing. Dress at on-premises events tends to be more casual, since nudity is a common outcome of the evening for many. At on-premises clubs it's a good idea to bring something like a robe so you don't have to put all your clothes back on after sex, and to avoid wearing lots of jewelry that might get lost. If there's a dress theme for a particular event, go with the theme.

By the way, it is not necessary to actually have sex with other people to have a good time in the swinging community. Off-premises activities such as dances can provide a wonderful opportunity to flirt and be flirted with in a non-threatening yet sexually-charged atmosphere, which can be fun in and of itself. On-premises activities can provide an opportunity to appreciate the sights and sounds of sex as an enhancement to sex with your primary partner, whether you two decide to have sex at the party or after the party.

[ColourBlindx2]

Originally Posted by undertable

Lizzy,luna and Mac Met Colourblinds in the east and went to had a great supper at ECP Food centre.. This is life, neat ppl that nv judged and nv afraid to tell you how they feel (Good or bad)

Wah lau, sleepy leh. Slept at 3, woke up at 7. Insufficient beauty sleep.....

Originally Posted by undertable

I have came across this article on swinging which i feel its right to share here with couples/singles. It give answers to the bros,sis & couples who asked me why & How on swinging matters. Hopefully it helps.

As one would expect, good communication is critical in any attempt at swinging as a couple. There are many, many different forms that swinging may take, and whichever one you choose is fine as long as you and your partner are clear about what you are doing and why. Sex has the potential to be an emotionally-charged area, and the pleasures that may be found in swinging can generally be reached only when both partners are sensitive to each others' needs, and put their partner's comfort first. From a more pragmatic point of view, there will always be another party, another personal ad, another dance, another convention; there may not be another chance to salvage an exploration into swinging if one partner becomes overwhelmed in "the garden of delights" and forgets to treat his or her primary partner with sensitivity and respect.

Early in the morning read this, I think I've got indigestion but the article is good, to the point and rather accurate!


Colourblind f