Not to worry have faith in the laws of retribution! Girls of this sort will get what is coming to them.
Yes. Heaven have eyes. What goes around comes around. 7 long years of faithful devotion and caring for her. Took me 84 mths for me to realize how foolhardy and dumb I was. Sigh..
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Do nothing. You are now on the rebound and your judgement is clouded. You going for gal B now because gal A played you out and gal B once showed interest in you. Given that gal B is already with someone, I doubt she will drop him for you. At the best she will 2 time the both of you.
Okie...So I shld do nothing means I continue this underground thing with her or what? I actually kinda like her as the days goes by.....
Re: How to handle a Breakup - My Story with LL (continued)
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On this para, I cant agree with you more. Nowadays woman take sex as a matter of curiosity. No emotional or bondage feelings. For me, when I had sex with my ex, I never once treated her as a sex object. I never once did it raw for fear of making her pregnant. Care and love were showered on her. But still in the end, she dumped me! Woman hearts are hard and tend to change in no time.
Bro, U r rite.... I was taken a ride for 2 years...... After broke up..... She told me when she 1st lost her virgin to me was bcoz she was quite curious in wanting to feel wat is like having sex...... That gal of mine, LL, was damn a bloody horny gal after teaching her all the stuff including organsm....... Up till today..... u guess wat?? I am so concern for her well-being that when I found out that she had a new bf whom is that FAT ASSHOLE....... I told her if she ever let that man bed her..... Don't ever come n look for me......... She promised me she won't.......... But heck........ I know she will not substain for long n scumberg to the lure of hornyness...... I really agreed that she took sex as a form of curiousity...... Last time when together....... LL used to forced me to have babies while having sex........ but too bad...... NSFs at that point of time....... where got money??...... haha........ Luckily..... never have babies.... or else now make to wear a cuckold....... My pals all encourage me to look forward........... So Bro..... Although I had not had any longer experiences of dating than you..... Ur pain is more serious than mine........ I believe you will find a better gal than ur ex-gf........ I knoe say is easier than done........ But I believe there is always a retribution...... wat goes around will come around........... I may have taken ppl's virginity and happiness........ but I m not afraid that heaven will punish me for taking ppl's virginity bcoz I had never let them down in life......... Like u, I always commit myself to all those gf who lost their virginity (so far 2 lahz) to me with a 100% heart....... no fooling around........ no outside meals..... (I mean paid sex) n even I never contact any of my female friends or even colleagues.... just to avoid jealousy and troubles...... Yet end of the day..... I trusted LL too much till she betray my trust and till now..... She is still unrependent abt her actions n insist that she did not let me down n said feelings this issues can't be controlled n there is no right or wrong answers....... Damn it........ instead I kanna blame by her for telling her family that she lost her virginity to me...... too bad........ at that of time when she left for holidays with that FAT ASS........ all her family came looking for me like as if I owe them a trillion dollar........... thus force to no choice n always hound like mad-dogs..... but to admit taking their daughter (to her mum) her 1st time..... her mum hate me for my guts.... but too bad....... It takes 2 hands to clap.... thus........ It's a blessing in disguise that she left me.... bcoz.......... She was a SLUT........ No loyalty........ Hope that her GOD will punish her severly n let not only these FAT ASSHOLE dump her but many more future samster who happen to bang her n read this forum..... pls do me a favour...... screw a few more rounds for me...... n dump her as far as possible bcoz..... she is not worth my love again............
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Re: How to handle a Breakup - My Story with LL (continued)
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...... all her family came looking for me like as if I owe them a trillion dollar........... thus force to no choice n always hound like mad-dogs..... but to admit taking their daughter (to her mum) her 1st time..... her mum hate me for my guts.... but too bad....... It takes 2 hands to clap.... thus...
Bro,
Next time try to use paragraph leh.. make it easier to read.
Anyway, I want to say is... wtf that her family come looking for you? If she become a hooker, you are responsible? You should ask her family to interrogate her daughter if you have use a knife on her neck when having sex lor. This kind of family is messed up. As like others are responsible for the behaviour of their daughter.
Re: How to handle a Breakup - My Story with LL (continued)
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Last time when together....... LL used to forced me to have babies while having sex........ but too bad
Such a coincident. My ex also requested it. Even told me shes willing to be a single parent. Bull shit! Fm the start I knew woman tend to follow their Moronic heart than their Sensible head!
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But I believe there is always a retribution...... wat goes around will come around........... I may have taken ppl's virginity and happiness........ but I m not afraid that heaven will punish me for taking ppl's virginity bcoz I had never let them down in life
Yes Bro. Law of Karma. Though I did not do RAW. But nevertheless I did fcuk her. I will face the consequence in time to come too.
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trusted LL too much till she betray my trust and till now..... She is still unrependent abt her actions n insist that she did not let me down n said feelings this issues can't be controlled n there is no right or wrong answers
Yes. Agreed. My ex also keep talking abt feelings that cant be controlled. Decided that is better to dump me now to avoid future complication. What the heck. I am 13 yrs her senior. Am I not mature enough to know what I am doing.
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Hope that her GOD will punish her severly ...
No lah bro. Not tis way. Dont curse. Cause and effect. Time will tell. Just wait and see.
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Re: How to handle a Breakup - My Story with LL (continued)
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all her family came looking for me like as if I owe them a trillion dollar........... thus force to no choice n always hound like mad-dogs..... but to admit taking their daughter (to her mum) her 1st time..... her mum hate me for my guts...
Well, cant blame u. They should blame their daughter. Afterall u r man enough to take her seriously. Is their daughter that called it quit.
Okie...So I shld do nothing means I continue this underground thing with her or what? I actually kinda like her as the days goes by.....
Dont end up like me. At first was like and later turn to Love. Thats where feelings and emotion comes in and if one fine day she dump you, then you will regret.
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Never break 4 things in life - Trust, Promise, Relation & Heart cos when they break, they dont make noise but pains a lot..
Okie...So I shld do nothing means I continue this underground thing with her or what? I actually kinda like her as the days goes by.....
Well it's your life and if you think it will make you happy then go for it. If you are still uncertain then do nothing and let it be. That means not continuing with this underground thing. My guess it is your ego at play here. Cannot get the other one and suddenly this one looks more desirable. Best if you can snatch her away.
Re: How to handle a Breakup - My Story with LL (continued)
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Such a coincident. My ex also requested it. Even told me shes willing to be a single parent. Bull shit! Fm the start I knew woman tend to follow their Moronic heart than their Sensible head!
Agree with you, it sounds totally like a con job to me. Once you get her banged up chances are she will attempt to force you into a shotgun marriage if not her then your parents or her parents. They are more cunning then we will ever know!
Unfortunately, one CANNOT have the "same" relationship after a breakup. You'll have to build a *new* one.
After a breakup, you have both seen each other's "bad side". You have cried, you have been angry, and you have been hurt. After all the drama, you cannot expect your relationship to be as pure or innocent as it used to be before the breakup.
Don't let that discourage you from rebuilding your relationship though. There's a sunny side to every situation. Instead of thinking about the paradise that has been lost, think about how much your relationship has mature over time.
Repeat to yourself, "Even a breakup could not stop us from being together!."
Having this attitude is a lot more useful than longing for past this is long gone.
always look at the present and the future, but not at the past! Good luck
anyone can give me some precious advice? My gf had an affair . . how am i going to deal with it. . i broke off with her but i still love her. . BUT she loves that guy too . . . so am i suppose to let her go . . ? seriously heart broken . . 5 yrs relationship. .
anyone can give me some precious advice? My gf had an affair . . how am i going to deal with it. . i broke off with her but i still love her. . BUT she loves that guy too . . . so am i suppose to let her go . . ? seriously heart broken . . 5 yrs relationship. .
Bro, i know its hard on you, but trust me, letting go is the first step you can end this misery. Hanging on is only going to cause more pain & make you suffer in pain, until you let go.
Undying love is only good for a faithful love. But for 2 timers, they are like a having a piece of meat went stale, forcing yourself to accept it will get you nowhere.
At this point of time, what you need is some true friends, to lend a shoulder to cry on, to voice out all your frastration. Once you snapped out of it, you'll never want to look back.
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Re: How to handle a Breakup - My Story with LL (continued)
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If she had agreed be my FB, I wouldnt be mad. Why must she play with emotion/feelings, telling me how much she love me but now she dumped me for good!
Silly school girl mentality. They use the word love so freely that it actually cheapens it. Come to think about it, maybe that is why our local girls so fucked up in the head. You read the papers on how some people can have 16,000 friends? That pretty much says it all.
12-06-2007, 08:37 PM
Bull shit! Fm the start I knew woman tend to follow their Moronic heart than their Sensible head!
