Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by jackbl

But u know your bx in singapore leh

His bx come here already har?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by vietboy

His bx come here already har?

what bro Jack imentioned "KT met his bx in Singapore first time...before they developed any relatiosnhip"

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

what bro Jack imentioned "KT met his bx in Singapore first time...before they developed any relatiosnhip"

Orh.. Hieu rui.

[SingViet]

Not sure if fellow bros have realised this when you fly in and out of Vietnam. There's always a handful of VBs or VS that will use a Singapore Passport cover to wrap their Vietnamese passport. I have seen this act for the many years of flying between Singapore and Vn. Was on flight back to Singapore last night, saw a VB, dressed like shit (but she acted damm high class) and holding a RED singapore passport. I was like, hmmm, should have married a capable Singaporean husband. Then came to her turn for check in, she handed her passport over to the counter, damm, truth is out, its actually a VN passport with Singapore Plastic Cover. Even the check in counter lady `joked' with her saying she thought its really Viet girl holding Singapore passport.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

There's always a handful of VBs or VS that will use a Singapore Passport cover to wrap their Vietnamese passport.

Oh Yeah ... I Saw that .... so the " BU YAO LIAN "

They always like to cover up their passport with some covers ...

See also know they are vietnamese ...

Thats why when some of them have kids with a SC, they sure want their kids to hold a SG Passport .. then they can put the kids sg passport on top of their own vn passport, saw these a couple of time too ... then at the immigration counter, they talk/act damn proud ...

[RealEstateGuy]

braddahs still dun understand what's the draw with those gooks.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

braddahs still dun understand what's the draw with those gooks.

Harlo .. You got nothing to do better har ??? Go everywhere and call people Gooks ...

We got nothing to do offer you ... & ... You got nothing to offer us ...

Still don't understand WTF are u doing here ?

PLease go sell more property and boost the economy and don't waste time here ...

or

Get yourself a F**king GooKs ...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

braddahs still dun understand what's the draw with those gooks.

Braddah Gook, i simply adore how you go around the different threads, condemning all foreigners. You simply have glorified the meaning of IGNORANT. After a hard day of work waiting for potential customers to call you, the hard stare at your iphone, the boring hours of waiting have simply overwhelmed your simple mind. I adore you for your ignorance and pity you for your devastated career. Braddah Gook, may your business pick up so that you can spend your time more meaningfully. Don't depend on your parents for food and shelther. Good Day Braddah Gook.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Oh Yeah ... I Saw that .... so the " BU YAO LIAN "

They always like to cover up their passport with some covers ...

See also know they are vietnamese ...

Thats why when some of them have kids with a SC, they sure want their kids to hold a SG Passport .. then they can put the kids sg passport on top of their own vn passport, saw these a couple of time too ... then at the immigration counter, they talk/act damn proud ...

I think we got to learn from them for their thick-skinned character. Its something that we, Singaporeans, we simply not good with. See them too often with such behaviour, and i am used to it.

[lugi]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I think we got to learn from them for their thick-skinned character. Its something that we, Singaporeans, we simply not good with. See them too often with such behaviour, and i am used to it.

But which country passport cover should we use

Bro, saw your signature and am in HCMC now

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by lugi

But which country passport cover should we use

Bro, saw your signature and am in HCMC now

So many bros here like VN, then they can buy VN passport cover to cover their Singapore passport la.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

So many bros here like VN, then they can buy VN passport cover to cover their Singapore passport la.

dun think I will ever do that...what's the purpose...

as for the R**lE****e guy...just ignore him...he had been doing that for more than a year...he starts by asking NORTH or SOUTH...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

dun think I will ever do that...what's the purpose...

as for the R**lE****e guy...just ignore him...he had been doing that for more than a year...he starts by asking NORTH or SOUTH...

I will never do that too

[ansonsohna]

Originally Posted by jackbl

I got a bad feeling that ansohsaha maybe the 3rd party

Originally Posted by SingViet

i am not being bias, but she shouldn't have a bf so fast, even before divorcing her husband. From the looks of it, it seems that she has a bf and wants to divorce from her husband as the bf seems to be a better catch than the husband.

Originally Posted by volcano

....from my point of view,this gal actually thinks that she has found herself a "yao qian shu" and will be living like a "tai tai" in Sinkapor.

.... i hope what i think is not true,but at this moment,she looks just like a black sheep to me.

Originally Posted by vietboy

... I think she just trying her means to stay here. If this guy cannot, try another one loh as so many horny broz out there.

Bro ansohsaha, hope tat "carrot head" is not u. Be wary, dun be labelled as a 第三者 or "home breaker". Also dun advise her on anything regarding her 家事, if anything turned out bad, she will blame u. After all we r just outsiders n dun know the whole picture.

Kum Siah one and all for taking your time and effort to post your response. Much appreciated.

First of all, let me tell you my position so that you will understand where I am coming from.

1) First of all, you guys are persceptive and right to a certain extent about me being a "third party". But it is NOT to this specific case.

2) I have Viet FB (and she is married to a sinkie). My FB is now a Sinkie PR. She has no children and is married for nearly six years. It is unlikely that she will leave her husband - certainly not for me. I am uglier than her husband, more pock kai and probably worse off in bed!

3) Yes. I have entertained thoughts of making her my life partner - especially during times when me and my fiance (a sinkie) are facing trying times. But at the end of the day, we both realize that its just a convenient "arrangement" that will not lead to anything further.

4) But this "convenient" relationship brought about a unique perspective on the Viet-Sinkie life partner connection. I have read all 800 plus postings before and can really appreciate the points you guys are making.

Why? This is because my Viet FB introduced me to her Viet Social Circle. (What to do, lam theng only five minutes at most ... the stud that I am!

I am the only batang in the hen party social circle. Everyone in this circle is attached or interelated to a sinkie (and some Malaysians) somehow. And they do discuss the situation quite openly - plus FB update me gaps as she is very very gossipy.

Maybe I look so like an uncle (or even aunty) but they took me as their own. By "own" I mean as if like a Viet women. Now how macho is that!!!!!!!

Its only a pity that my TV is soooo crap - if not the amount of insider information I can provide is staggering.

5) As this informal support structure is very large - and getting larger by the day. I can see and weigh up the points you raise. I know about affairs, controlling husbands, useless husbands, how they supplement income (despite not being allowed to work as holding LTSVP), who is ex WL etc .... this is serious, but I even know at least five women's there menstral cycle! (And I don't even know my gfs)

6) The "case-study" I put in this thread is actually sanitised. If I were to put the full story, you guys may actually guess the couple involved as the community is relatively small. Gossip may just travel - especially if guys like to share stories with your significant others ......

In short .... despite having seen the warts of sinkie-viet coupling (and the many many challenges), I feel that in the heart of heart, that a life partnership viet mei mei is still considered option. In fact, I might go this route should my relationship with my present gf falter.

Take care bros ..

[rudolf]

Originally Posted by SingViet

So many bros here like VN, then they can buy VN passport cover to cover their Singapore passport la.

Die die also won..later when going to not asean countries.. the kastam officer will ask for your visa...

Our PP worth more then a tael of any gold in the market..