Losing my mojo? Or stress?

too_hot · #1 16-09-2008, 07:37 PM

Hi All

I think i will be going into forced semi-retirement. Recently, it seems like its harder to get stimulated. I wonder is it due to law of diminishing returns (i.e. the enjoyment gained decreases with repeated consumption of a given good).

In the past, when in HC/TN, once the gal does sexy massage and starts to touch the area behind my balls, damn shiok and immediately marikita. Nowadays, although its still very shiok but my didi dun stand anymore. Of cos in those days, such "sexy massage" was not so common. Nowadays, many of them know this move. So maybe cos its has become norm hence my stimulation is less....

Recently i went to a very popular place and served by a very service oriented gal. Somehow, i couldn't get it up although she was kissing me all over, etc. Of course i felt totally embarassed cos it made me look impotent. Of cos she knows i am not because during the earlier part of the session it did come up but when the time came for the main course, it failed. I admit i didn't feel our chemistry was that good - i m not sure how much that played a part.

Maybe its the stress of my job getting to me or maybe after several years of cheonging - it just doesn't have the same effect anymore. I really admire some bros who can RTF a gal several times within a short space of time. For me, the RTF is never as good as the first time. I usually treat RTF as a reward to the gal for the great first time experience she gave me.

Now even when i really feel like releasing, i am afraid to go to any joint cos i am afraid i won't be able to "perform" hence may go into semi-retirement and restrict to once or twice a month - maybe that will get my sex drive back...

Cheonging101 · #2 16-09-2008, 08:07 PM

Bro TS, abstinence would not gain back your mojo. It may cause your next orgasm to release large amount of semen but that's about it. The more you abstain, the more you are used to being sexless.

nolucknoob · #3 16-09-2008, 08:19 PM

not sure if this might help, but i think u shd take a short break. make sure got enuf sleep & such..

i once suffered quite abit due to work pressure, both physical & mental, as i oso cannot marikita.. then after a long weekend break, condition seems better. of cos, some supplement might help oso.. i took some anti-oxidants & ginseng pills everyday. after couple of weeks later, i realise that i can get back a full erection, as sometime, i can only be half erect only.. then gal tot i kenna ED..

now performance better liao, but rest is important for me.

if ur work pressure too much, maybe take a short break. a short trip to other countries might help oso.

do note that supplements do not work for everybody, thus best medication would be rest for the body & soul, & see how it goes.

Thunder God · #4 16-09-2008, 10:01 PM

Bro

I recently had a dry spell too...it comes and goes..there are times when I am with the FL and my birdie refuses to cooperate. Its all due to pressure and stress and maybe even issues you have not come to terms with but its in your subconscious. Anyway, I was horny but cant perform recently so I visited the doctor and was prescribed the orange pill..the alternative to viagra..36 hours of blood surge and easily to get stimulated...careful though, its like body on fire kind of feeling for 36 hours.

CityHunter789 · #5 16-09-2008, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by too_hot

Hi All

I think i will be going into forced semi-retirement. Recently, it seems like its harder to get stimulated. I wonder is it due to law of diminishing returns (i.e. the enjoyment gained decreases with repeated consumption of a given good).

Hmm, I.A happen from time to time..
Maybe due to stress.. Dun worry too much..

infinitiumus · #6 17-09-2008, 03:48 AM

do something different..

if you like to go HC then stop going HC.. find FL instead..

too_hot · #7 17-09-2008, 10:40 AM

Dear All

Thanks for all your postings, at least now i dun feel so worried...

Bro infinitiumus, i cheong many areas - Petain, GL house as well as streetwalker, TN/HC including the famous RSE. I used to cheong FL but after awhile found it to be very dissappointing so i stop going to those FL Dome.

Cheers all...

aczeta76 · #8 17-09-2008, 10:49 AM

Dun worry lah bro.

It is normal to have occasional downturn in performance...Me also sometime I.A. and on other times can do triple in half a day..

While the girl and surrounding plays a part, sometimes it is juz your body's way or telling u something.

U will get out of the rut in a while.. Exercise more, eat rite and go for some healthy excursions to change your perspective..

Me used to have urge to go 6c6c at GL every other day, now... u hardly see me there.

HeadOn · #9 17-09-2008, 10:56 AM

me too...i also think i m having such problem too..last time can get it up not to tough but now although can be up, not as hard n also cant last!!...

i remembered going to a HC few mths ago...i cant even get it up!!...end up cumming in HJ without erection!..

Cheong Ka Leow · #10 17-09-2008, 11:00 AM

Bro,
stress is 1 possible cause but there may be other causes that you may want to check in addition to following advices from other bros on having enough sleep etc. If your blood Lipid profile for Triglycerides is high( 200 or more) that will cause you to react the way that you did. Good news is this is not a big problem and doctor can prescribe medication to control that situation. Good luck and may the Force be stiff with you..

Rgds
Cheong Ka Leow

bg102 · #11 17-09-2008, 12:34 PM

Hey bro, you did not mention if age has anything to do with it. Recently there has been alot of talk in newspaper even about Andropause (male version of menopause) and this also affects everything in men, from sex drive to memory also. If you are over 45, perhpas this is coming on, then maybe health supplements can work but here in Sillipore must see doctor. GNC got supplement from USA for men in this situation, can't remember the name though, but not available here.

too_hot · #12 17-09-2008, 12:39 PM

hmmm, i only in my 30s...its not dat i cannot get an erection at all, just that its not so easy nowadays...its something like drugs (i tink onli la cos i neber take), once u start taking, u will need more and more (or stronger and stronger) to achieve the same high as ur body develops "immunity" towards the drugs...

vvxx · #13 17-09-2008, 04:32 PM

bro, most likely its pyschological. maybe u feel guilty and the anxiety of needing to perform makes it worse

powerman61 · #14 17-09-2008, 05:20 PM

I also got this kind of "failure" in the past...worse still, sometimes half way during pumping in the pussy, my cock becomes soft

I thot I die liao so I went to chinese medical hall and buy the "Pu Yao Jing"...its a tonic for the back aka kidney...consisting of cordyceps extract. After I drink that for a while, my little batang is now a battle horse, even my backache also disappear. This tonic recommend by the TCM sinseh at the medical hall. Only $36 a bottle and can last more than 1 month.

Maybe the bros here who got trouble might want to go to your local chinese medical hall and ask for this.

bg102 · #15 18-09-2008, 09:59 AM

Hmmm only 30, then maybe you are tired of this thrills and got to get yourself some commitment. Sometimes when I cheong for awhile, I also dun wanna have anymore FL for awhile and just need company. After few weeks then urge come back again. There are also times when work is so important that I dun think of anything else and once project over then can relax and have fun. Not sure what your situation is but maybe you need a break and go do some other activity that interest you and need just company fo awhile. Good luck bro and dun worry, it will all come back or better yet, you may discover a new side to you and thrills that you may like better.