Controlling the urge

[AUDIFANSG]

Thers prob been other threads started but i jus wanna say its really difficult to control this urge. For me its been a weekly need for the longest time, but recently trying to limit it to once every 2 weeks. Wife doesnt really help my situation and she never actively want sex, although she still allow me to touch her(she wont get aroused). if i don go visit ML/FL, i will feel the urge the whole day. In meetings, all i think abt is bonking tat secretary or coworkers lol. Jerking off helps to a certain extent but this urge will not go away. How do u guys deal with this?

[naan1974]

Bro, just go engage ML, FL, GL or whatever .
When there is a need, get it sorted and daily can life resumes
else confirm become pervert. last time i also try to refrain,
then i turned pervert sia. everyday beo colleagues zaogeng, on the streets
see braless gal or G string will end up following few streets. During vendor
meeting look at female neh ned thru their blouse or button opening and
fantasied until hardon. work efficiency drop like jialet. At home stand at
kitchen window smoke also end up beo-ing my neighbors' undergarments
and imagine them in it. Life become very unconstructive and pervert.
Now i go commercial whenever i need to. Life is far more balance.

[timeliness]

The simplest answer is to visit a lady for release. How you wanna release depends on your preference and budget.

[DTCEPL]

Watch AV and pcc in the toilet, its FOC and u only need your hands, a mobile phone and probably a ear set.

All the best Bro!

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by AUDIFANSG

Thers prob been other threads started but i jus wanna say its really difficult to control this urge. For me its been a weekly need for the longest time, but recently trying to limit it to once every 2 weeks. Wife doesnt really help my situation and she never actively want sex, although she still allow me to touch her(she wont get aroused). if i don go visit ML/FL, i will feel the urge the whole day. In meetings, all i think abt is bonking tat secretary or coworkers lol. Jerking off helps to a certain extent but this urge will not go away. How do u guys deal with this?

You are so lucky to have a wife to hug and grope. Get her to give you handjob for a start?

[SirLance]

Visit Batam or JB often.

[talismann]

You haven't gotten to the worst stage yet: There may come a time even a FL will not scratch your itch. To some, commercial sex feels hollow.

[Anonyabc]

Originally Posted by talismann

You haven't gotten to the worst stage yet: There may come a time even a FL will not scratch your itch. To some, commercial sex feels hollow.

By then, TS has to decide what to do next liao.

[Angmolover]

Originally Posted by AUDIFANSG

Thers prob been other threads started but i jus wanna say its really difficult to control this urge. For me its been a weekly need for the longest time, but recently trying to limit it to once every 2 weeks. Wife doesnt really help my situation and she never actively want sex, although she still allow me to touch her(she wont get aroused). if i don go visit ML/FL, i will feel the urge the whole day. In meetings, all i think abt is bonking tat secretary or coworkers lol. Jerking off helps to a certain extent but this urge will not go away. How do u guys deal with this?

Blah blah blah, simi lancheow urge you talking about? Your urge for anal sex? Your urge to be peg? Your urge for guy to suck your cock? Can be more specific or not.

[fnulnu99]

I have reached this level already.

No longer interested in commercial sex. Simply can't. Exchange of money with body, no longer interest me.....

Originally Posted by talismann

You haven't gotten to the worst stage yet: There may come a time even a FL will not scratch your itch. To some, commercial sex feels hollow.

[Bangster]

Erm....try gardening?

[Newbieshag]

Originally Posted by fnulnu99

I have reached this level already.

No longer interested in commercial sex. Simply can't. Exchange of money with body, no longer interest me.....

Bro this is a dangerous stage, will be easily KC-ed …..just like me.😂

[Anonyabc]

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

Bro this is a dangerous stage, will be easily KC-ed …..just like me.😂

Go thru the stage, will know how to game the stage. Whether the stagelights are on you or on others, it is the stage and your stage.

[fnulnu99]

Will go with the flow. Need to sign up for gym and go beo chio bu for entertainment

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

Bro this is a dangerous stage, will be easily KC-ed …..just like me.😂

[skihon]

Originally Posted by naan1974

Bro, just go engage ML, FL, GL or whatever .
When there is a need, get it sorted and daily can life resumes
else confirm become pervert. last time i also try to refrain,
then i turned pervert sia. everyday beo colleagues zaogeng, on the streets
see braless gal or G string will end up following few streets. During vendor
meeting look at female neh ned thru their blouse or button opening and
fantasied until hardon. work efficiency drop like jialet. At home stand at
kitchen window smoke also end up beo-ing my neighbors' undergarments
and imagine them in it. Life become very unconstructive and pervert.
Now i go commercial whenever i need to. Life is far more balance.

I have the same situation, bio my friend zaogeng, see neighbour's bra and panties.

So whenever i have the urge, i go find ML to release. I also have a wife with super low sex drive. Since dating till married all the while is me wanting and nvr once she wanted. Thats why i end up spending money find ML to release.