Sex Life after Marriage - Page 19

acidicavex · #**271** 11-04-2017, 09:47 AM

Stale routine bascially the feel is like in the army go thru motion (the whole idea is let u release so u don't go pluck wild flowers)

freezetheDB · #**272** 14-04-2017, 03:07 AM

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Originally Posted by zomgbaby

Sex is free but it's we humans made it expensive. It can be financially expensive if one decides to seek it from external sources. It can also be emotionally "expensive" when one party tries so hard but receive none in return. In most cases the one who is rejecting always don't see the importance of a healthy sex life.

I too suffer from a sexless marriage. But it started 1 year prior to the wedding because she didnt want to get pregnant as we've always used the withdrawal method. I respected her decision and never once asked her for any sexual favors. Not even petting.

We were too tired to consummate on the wedding night itself. I've never officially brought it up but did try to initiate two weeks later which ended up with a famous quote "I'm too tired". Soon "no mood" "dont want" "dont feel like" followed. Initiation became persuasion and followed by arguments. I was emotionally shunned out every single time the topic was brought up. Suggested marriage counselling but always ended up activating her iron curtain. I do realize its a common trait for the "antagonist" to reject and cook up excuses to avoid counselling, as if they knew they are the actual problem. But the truth is none of us wants to go to a 3rd party so we can point fingers at them but instead cure this sexless marriage cancer.

Its was only 3rd year into the marriage we made love for the first time in 4YEARS! Yes you didn't read wrongly. 4 frigging years! Believe it or not, that 4 years I've never eaten out but my left arm grew stronger (I'm sure you know why). You never guessed who was our marriage "savior", it was her gynae! I've never failed to accompany her for her gynae appts and usually ill pay for the consultation. Tbh I pay for all the expenses and stuff. She gets to spend what she earns and I don't meddle with her money matters. Back to the gynae. My wife has irregular menses since she was young so that fateful appt she brought it up to the gynae if that's a sign of infertility. Gynae debunked and told us that even if menses didn't visit regularly it doesn't mean one is not ovulating.

Wife proceeded to do her pap smear and gynae used ultrasound to check her eggs. Gynae's next string of words brought light to my world. Gynae said "look! You are OVULATING". When the procedure was done my wife had a smile on her face as if she struck Toto. Gynae suggested that we try since we are at our prime age and prime time. Put it in a crude way, it was the best day for me to unload my warm semen into her.

"Coincidentally" a few weeks prior, my cousin who got married before us announced they would be having a baby soon. Wife did brought it up a number of times if we should try as well. I knew she was being competitive and didn't want to lose out since my cousin and spouse were about our age. Not conceiving few years into the marriage people might start to probe if we are infertile. Unhappy with her sudden need to pro create I told her we shouldn't have a child just because cousin is expecting one. It didn't feel right for me at least. Ive never felt so contradicted in my life, here I've been waiting to be one with her for the past 4 years and there I'm telling her we shouldnt try for baby.

On the way home after the gynae appointment she asked if we should try, I knew it was homerun for me that night. That night we made love for the first time in years. It was very awkward at first as we've never touched each other for awhile. We started off with light kisses which turned into a wild tongue fight. She let off soft moans as i grobe her full b cups aggressively while my fingers plays with her nips(she likes it rough on her boobs). I began sucking her nips which were hard by now and continued attacking it furiously. She was in ecstasy and her panties was soaked with her sweet juices. She whispered in my ear "I can't take it anymore" its my turn now. She took off my briefs and my manhood was at full mast in her face. With her little hands she gently stroked my balls and shaft without pulling back my foreskin. The tip of my little head was exposed with precum all over it. I immediately knew what comes next would send me to haven at the speed of light. She gave me a mind blowing bbbj which started with soft and gentle licks at the tip of my little head, as if she was trying to clean up my precum. Sensing that I was at my knees at her will, she took it further by pulling back my foreskin to reveal my little head with her mouth. She remained in that position as my trobbing cock continues to send waves of pleasure to my brain. I gently pushed her head forward to signal her to blow me. She continued with slow and sloppy blowjob for maximum stimulation with occasion eye contact. I had to stop her before I CIM instead of CIP. She laid down for missionary position for easier entry. Trust me it was no easy entry. She was so tight that I was in pain when I entered her wet with her saliva from the blowjob. Slowly i began to pick up pace and soon small trusts became long deep trusts. I could feel every inch of my member enveloped by her tight pussy. We changed into cowgirl position and she rode me furiously as I groped her beautiful breasts while grinding my cock in a circular motion. Sensing she was ready to cum we switched back to missionary and it was my time to tongue her to obvilion. While my fingers were working magic on her clitoris, i began to tongue fuck her. Soon waves of shivers concluded her orgasm and we returned to missionary with my throbbing cock at the entrance of her pussy. We resumed our tongue fight before I entered her with a swift and deep trust which caused her to moan loudly. "Fuck me, haaaarder", She said as i began to pick up pace for the finale. I unloaded deep into her and few more trusts to ensure no seeds were left behind. She told me it was a new sensation, she could feel my semen fill her pussy and it was an unforgettable sensation. We hugged each other to sleep that night. Following nights I continue to creampie her in various positions. I would continue to fuck her even after I came. Some nights she would ride me until I went limp. We were in love!

Fast forward, sexless marriage again after our 1st child came. I did try to initiate but to no avail until recently my cousin announced they are expecting a 2nd child. So lately she's been talking about giving our child a sibling with little age gap. You get the meaning. Last week we had our first session in 2 years. Nothing like that gynae night. It was just kissing, straight forward sex and came on her stomach. I'm saving up my load (5th day now) for the next session. Hopefully some would "accidentally" land on her face when I empty my load. *grins*

PS: My wife was very sexual before marriage and we had a few exciting trysts including once at her work place, in the toilet at my parent's place while they were at home etc.

This is sad bro. She seems to want only the baby, and not fuck you coz she finds u sexually attractive.