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26-01-2012, 12:33 PM
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Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
Gong Xi Fa Cai !
Over the Chinese New Year, I was happily house/home visiting and a warped weird thought came across me and I wanted to share this with you. Let's all offer their views... Let's just take for example that during Chinese New Year.. you go visiting. And then you happen to visit your Wife's friend or your cousin's place or whatever.... You step into the apartment, you get introduced... and then suddenly you freeze because one of the people in the room recognize you.. And she could the "auntie" at the recept when you were cheonging only just last week in the HC/MP and she remembered you specifically requested for a SYT... OR, worse still, she could the FL you were doing it with in some short term H81 room, and she just happened to be the 'tenant" of your wife's distant cousin who was renting out one bedroom of his HDB flat to foreign workers and you are there with with wife because, you are there to 'pai nien' with your wife's distant cousin ot grand uncle... Let's just suppose these could be scenarios... what would you do? How will you react?
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26-01-2012, 12:51 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
A good start, would be to pretend, you do not know one another. She also be in a difficult position. But after intro, you can click together.
But unsure after that, guess it depends on the chemistry  or  all up to you.
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26-01-2012, 01:00 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
Interesting question... but it depends on what the person do also. When you said they recognise you, do you mean they greet you as if they know you? Or haven't greet each other yet.
My guess is they will act like stranger. They have as much to hide as you do. If they greet me like they know me and people ask me, I will throw the ball back in their court and playfully say, "you ask her lor." Best if you can hear what she reply, then both of you will have the same story. In the case of the recep auntie, I think she will also act blur. If she works there, she knows what goes on there and she probably accepts that men need to "release". If she any how expose you, she risk losing her job if you complain to her boss.
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26-01-2012, 01:01 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
Condition your brain to de-associate her with the scenarios and link to seeing her before at the hawker center or supermarket. Repeat this until it is convincing.
This should take maximum 3 minutes. Never admit. Deny all the way. You are the 2G / 3G phone expert, confirm she can't call u to verify and your wife wun have your other phone. Now you are ready to meet her.
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26-01-2012, 01:51 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
I'll act blur and pretend I dun know her. This should be the general practice regardless of how you bump into her, whether at a relative's house or at the supermarket.
Just pretend you don't know her at all. Say Hi, shake hands, and then excuse yourself to get a drink or say hi to someone else. Quote:
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26-01-2012, 02:05 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
If FL or HC/MP recep think still ok.....
What is worrying is could be one of those hot syt chicks you tried to chat/pick up in a bar or something......then that's cause for worrying.
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#7
26-01-2012, 02:29 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
My experience didnt happen during CNY visiting. I went to pick my wife who was having coffee with her friends. As she was bit ready to leave she told me to join her and her friends for coffee. When I arrived at the venue I was utterly shocked. One of her friends there was one I had a fling with just about a month back. But the good thing was she was super diplomatic about it. She acted as if I was a complete stranger and she stopped hanging out with my wife and her group of friends.
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26-01-2012, 02:42 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
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This is why, when Fling or FB, I always feel better to make clear that you are attached/married. So that they get involved with eyes wide open and when something like this happen, most likely they will not expose you.
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#9
26-01-2012, 02:53 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
My way is to make sure I keep saying I met her previously and had a nice date.
e.g. "Oh you cant remember? We had a movie date and a romantic dinner!" So whatever is said after that people will always think you are joking. The kick comes when your wife ask and you say the actual truth but then she will keep saying :"Really meh? Tell me the truth leh, dont keep joking". After she gets tired she will give up. In the end if the truth really comes out, you can tell your wife you actually told the truth in front of so many people but she didnt believe it. So you didnt lie to her.
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#10
26-01-2012, 03:41 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
Braddah this is fiction or non-fiction?
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#11
26-01-2012, 08:51 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
pretend to dont know each other, go over make friends but dont come off as a blackmailer.
u could become friends and have a more fun conversion. just dont blow her side line
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#12
26-01-2012, 09:02 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
HC /MP recep is ok nothing wrong tat u go to relax n massage after a hard days work .......As for FL they got more to hide .....Mistress or FB or ONS they know t rule of t game as only keep in t dark .... well dum worry too much it depend on how u react ....
Only worried is tat friend or relative saw u bring a mei mei into or out of t Hotel ....best way is always ask t FL to leave 1st n not leave together after deed 
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26-01-2012, 09:56 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
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26-01-2012, 09:57 PM
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26-01-2012, 10:30 PM
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Re: Oh F#$! FL recognised me during CNY pai nien!
But what if is hotel front desk recept?
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